Tiffany Haddish Analankhula Mwatsatanetsatane Za Mantha Ake Okhala Mayi Ngati Mkazi Wakuda
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Ngati wina akugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake kuti atulutsidwe moyenera, ndi Tiffany Haddish. M'macheza aposachedwa pa YouTube Live ndi nyenyezi ya NBA Carmelo Anthony, Haddish adawulula kuti wakhala akugwira ntchito paziwonetsero zatsopano zapa TV, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi (mwachiwonekere "atha "kugawa tsopano"), kulima dimba, kuphika, ndipo amalingaliranso lingaliro la anthu okonda anthu. Unyolo wogulitsa pagulu la anthu a BIPOC.
Haddish wakhala akugwiritsanso ntchito nthawi yake yopuma kuti achite nawo ziwonetsero za Black Lives Matter, kuphatikizapo chochitika chaposachedwa chothandizira ufulu wa anthu akuda ku Hollywood. Pokumbukira zomwe adakumana nazo pachiwonetsero cha Anthony, Haddish adati adalankhula ndi gulu la anthu tsiku lomwelo za tanthauzo la kukhala Wakuda ku America, momwe iye ndi banja lake adakhudzidwira ndi ziwawa zatsankho, komanso nkhawa zomwe ali nazo pakukhala mayi. ngati mkazi wakuda. (Zogwirizana: Momwe Tsankho Lingakhudzire Moyo Wanu Wam'maganizo)
"Sindine munthu wamantha, koma ndawona abwenzi akukula akuphedwa ndi apolisi," adauza Anthony. "Monga Munthu Wakuda, tikusakidwa, ndipo ndakhala ndikumva choncho. Tisakidwa ndipo taphedwa, ndipo amalandira chiphaso chotipha, ndipo sizabwino. "
Anthu atamufunsa Haddish ngati adzakhala ndi ana, adavomereza Anthony kuti nthawi zambiri "amapanga zifukwa" kuti asanene zoona zenizeni za mantha ake. "Ndingadane ndikubereka mwana yemwe amawoneka ngati ine ndikudziwa kuti aphedwa kapena kuphedwa," adagawana nawo. “Chifukwa chiyani ndingapereke wina kupyola pamenepo? Azungu sayenera kuganiza zimenezo.” (Zogwirizana: Njira 11 Akazi Akuda Amatha Kuteteza Thanzi Lawo Pamaganizidwe Ndi Nthawi Yobereka)
Mosasamala kanthu kuti Haddish tsiku lina adzaganiza zokhala ndi ana, palibe kukayika kuti amachita gawo lake kuthandiza ana omwe ali m'malo osatumikiridwa bwino. Wojambulayo ndiye amene adayambitsa She Ready Foundation, bungwe lomwe limathandiza ana olera kupeza zofunikira ndi thandizo lomwe amafunikira kudzera pakuthandizira, masutikesi, kuwalangiza, ndi kuwalangiza.
Haddish adauza Anthony kuti ubwana wake m'malo olera adamulimbikitsa kupanga maziko. "Ndili ndi zaka 13, ndimasunthidwa kwambiri, ndipo nthawi iliyonse akamandisuntha, amandipangitsa kuti ndiike zovala zanga zonse m'matumba azinyalala. Ndipo izi zidandipangitsa kumva ngati zinyalala, ”adatero. “M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, munthu wina anandipatsa sutikesi, ndipo zinandipangitsa kumva mosiyana. Ndipo ndinaganiza ndekha ndili ndi zaka 13, 'Ngati ndingapeze mphamvu zamtundu uliwonse, ndiyesetsa kuwonetsetsa kuti palibe ana akumva ngati zinyalala.' Chifukwa chake, ndili ndi mphamvu pang'ono, ndipo ndidayambitsa maziko anga. " (Zogwirizana: Zothandizira Kugwiritsa Ntchito Mental Health kwa Black Womxn)
Pomaliza kukambirana ndi Anthony, Haddish adagawana uthenga wolimbikitsa kwa atsikana akuda akuda: "Dziwani [ndipo] musaope kutenga nawo mbali m'dera lanu," adatero. “Khalani ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri, khalani ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri, khalani inu.”