Sayansi Yoyendetsa Mapazi
Zamkati
- Momwe Kugonana ndi Mchitidwe Wamanjenje Zimalumikizirana
- Chifukwa Chomwe Ziphuphu Zimatha Kupangitsa Zala Zanu Kupiringa
- Onaninso za
Mukudziwa mukakhala pachimake pachimake ndipo thupi lanu lonse limakhala lolimba? Mitsempha iliyonse m'thupi lanu ikuwoneka kuti ili ndi mphamvu komanso ikuchita nawo zochitikazo. Ngakhale simunakhalepo ndi orgasm ngati iyi, mwina mudamvapo kudzera mwa abwenzi, mabuku, makanema, kapena osachepera. Kugonana ndi Mzinda. (Ndipo ngati simunatero, lingalirani kuwerenga: Momwe Mungapangire Mimba Nthawi Zonse, Malinga ndi Sayansi)
Mawu oti "zotupa zakumapazi" amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokozera za kugonana komwe kunali kotero chabwino, orgasm kotero mwamphamvu, kuti zala zanu zithandizike chifukwa chakusangalala ndi thupi lathunthu. (PS Kodi mumadziwa kuti pali mitundu yamitundu yosiyanasiyana yomwe mungakhale nayo?!)
Koma bwanji "kupindika?" Kodi uku ndi kutembenuka kwa mawu odziwika ndi mabuku achikondi, kapena pali zowona zake? Kupezeka, pali.
Ngati mwakhala mukudabwa za izi zomwe zimatchedwa toe-curling orgasms ndipo mukufuna kuti mulowe muzochitikazo, nyamukani. Nazi zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa.
Momwe Kugonana ndi Mchitidwe Wamanjenje Zimalumikizirana
Nthawi yamaphunziro a anatomy. ICYDK, misempha yonse mthupi lanu yolumikizidwa. Onse amalankhulana, kutumiza zikwangwani kudzera mumtsempha wam'mimba kupita kuubongo, pogwiritsa ntchito ma neurotransmitter angapo ovuta. Mathero a mitsempha iyi (yotchedwa, yep, mitsempha yomaliza) nthawi zambiri ndizomwe timatchula za madera a erogenous, akufotokoza Moushumi Ghose, M.F.T., wovomerezeka wogonana wogonana komanso wothandizira mabanja. "Ichi ndichifukwa chake zimatha kumangirira kumpsompsona kuseri kwa khutu, kupapasa pa ntchafu, kapena pansi pa mapazi athu."
Msana wa msana uli ngati mthenga amene amatenga kukondwera, kupweteka, mantha, kupumula, chitetezo etc. kuchokera kuubongo kupita mbali zina za thupi. Mofananamo, ubongo umatumiza mauthenga obwereza kumtsempha wa msana, omwe amachititsa chidwi kumadera komwe uthengawo unatumizidwa.
Sherry A. Ross, M.D., katswiri wa za umoyo wa amayi komanso wolemba mabuku, Sherry A. Ross, M.D. She-ology.
Kunena mwachidule, pomwe clitoris ili ndi mathero opitilira 8,000, ndi gawo chabe lamanjenje akulu omwe amalumikiza zonse kukhala gulu loimba lachimwemwe ~. (Nazi zina zowonetseratu zabwino zomwe mungasangalale nazo.)
Chifukwa Chomwe Ziphuphu Zimatha Kupangitsa Zala Zanu Kupiringa
Orgasm imatanthauzidwa ngati kutulutsa kukangana kokhazikika pamlingo woyankha pakugonana ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala kosangalatsa (duh). Ubongo wanu umatulutsa ma neurotransmitters dopamine ndi oxytocin-mahomoni awiri omwe amachititsa kusangalala, mphotho, komanso kulumikizana. Mukasefukira ndi mankhwala osangalatsawa, ubongo wanu umatumiza chizindikiro ku dongosolo lanu lamanjenje kuti mupumule. (Werengani zambiri: Ubongo Wanu pa Orgasm)
Popeza thupi lanu ndi ubongo ndizolumikizana kwambiri, ndizomveka kuti zala zanu zikulowereranso. Kupatula apo, minofu iliyonse mthupi ndi gawo la thupi lathunthu, kuyambira muubongo wanu mpaka pansi, komwe mwina mawuwo amachokera poyamba. (Chisangalalo sindicho chokha chopindulitsa cha orgasming - apa pali ena asanu ndi awiri.)
Chifukwa chake palibe kulumikizana kwamatsenga pakati pa zala zanu ndi clitoris; M'malo mwake, ndikuti thupi lanu lonse limakhala ndi zovuta panthawi yazakugonana, koma kenako zimamasulidwa pamalungo.
Izi zati, kupindika-pindika ndimayendedwe achilengedwe komanso kusinkhasinkha komwe kumatha kuchitika asanatulutsidwe. “Sizingafotokozedwe mwatsatanetsatane mwasayansi, koma akazi ena akafika pachimake, zala zawo zimapindika poyembekezera komanso mosangalala,” akutero Ross. "Minofu m'thupi lonse imagwira nawo zachiwerewere, kuphatikiza zala zanu zakumapazi."
Monga mukudziwa, panthawi ya Big "O," ndinu ayi kulamulira, akutero Mal Harrison, mkulu wa The Center of Erotic Intelligence (gulu la asayansi, madokotala, ofufuza, ochiritsa, ofufuza za kugonana, aphunzitsi, ndi omenyera ufulu wodzipatulira kumvetsetsa ndi kuphunzitsa za kugonana kwa anthu). Kuphika kwa chala chakumapazi ndi gawo lina lamachitidwe amanjenje odziyimira pawokha, omwe amawongolera machitidwe onse osazindikira m'thupi lanu, monga kupuma, kugunda kwa mtima, ndi kugaya chakudya, akutero. "Zala zakuphazi zimapindika mwa anthu ena ngati chosankha chosagwirizana," akuwonjezera. "Zomwezo zitha kuchitika pomwe tikulimbikira kupweteka kapena kukhudzidwa tikakhala munthawi yangozi kapena yopanikiza, kapena tikakumana ndi chisangalalo chosangalatsa - sikuyenera kukhala kungogonana."
Ngakhale sizinthu zonse zopumira m'malingaliro zomwe zimangotanthauza kuti zala zanu zizipindika, ndizomveka kuti ena atero. Pamene thupi lanu lonse likugwira ntchito pachimake, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mutulutse chilakolako chogonana, mutha kupeza minofu ikugwira thupi lanu lonse yomwe ilibe chochita ndi clitoris yanu. Matupi ndi ovuta kwambiri. (Mlanduwu: Zinthu 4 Zosagonana Zomwe Zingakupangitseni Kukhala Okhazikika)
Gigi Engle ndi mphunzitsi wotsimikizira zachiwerewere, wolemba zachiwerewere, wolemba Zolakwa Zonse za F*cking: Kalozera wa Kugonana, Chikondi, ndi Moyo. Tsatirani iye pa Instagram ndi Twitter pa @GigiEngle.