27 Zinthu Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Musanataye Unamwali Wanu

Zamkati

• 1. Unamwali umatanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana
• 2. Ngakhale lingaliro lanu la unamwali likuphatikizira kulowa, pali zambiri kuposa P mu V
• 3. Ngati muli ndi himbuli, silikuti "pop" panthawi yolowera kumaliseche
• 4. Mnyamata wanu alibe chochita ndi unamwali wanu
• 5. Thupi lako silisintha
• 6. Palibe "kuyang'ana" kogonana
• 7. Mwina sizingafanane ndi zochitika zachiwerewere zomwe mumaziwona pa TV (kapena zolaula)
• 8. Nthawi yanu yoyamba ikhoza kukhala yovuta, koma siyiyenera kukupweteketsani
• 9. Apa ndipomwe mafuta amadzimadzi (ndipo mwinanso mawonekedwe ena!) Amabwera
• 10. Masamba anu mwina sangakhale magazi
• 11. Matenda opatsirana pogonana amatha kufala kudzera mu mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana
• 12. Ngati mukugonana P mu V, kutenga mimba ndikotheka nthawi yoyamba
• 13. Ngati muli ndi nyini, simungamasuke nthawi yoyamba
• 14. Ngati muli ndi mbolo, mutha kutopetsa msanga kuposa momwe mumaganizira
• 15. Kapena mutha kupeza kuti mbolo yanu siyothandiza
• 16. Mukakhala omasuka kwambiri, mumakhala ochezeka kwambiri
• 17. Zilonda zam'mimba sizimakhala zofunikira nthawi zonse, komabe
• 18. Ngati mukufuna china chake, nenani choncho
• 19. Simuyenera kuchita chilichonse chomwe simumasuka nacho
• 20. Mutha kusintha malingaliro anu nthawi iliyonse
• 21. Nthawi "yoyenera" yokha ndi yomwe imakukhudzani
• 22. Kaya "aliyense akuchita izi" ndizomveka
• 23. Kugonana sikofanana ndi kukondana kapena chikondi
• 24. Moyo wanu suli pachiwopsezo, ndipo sungagwirizane ndi munthuyo kwamuyaya
• 25. Ngati mugonana ndi munthu yemwe mumacheza naye nthawi zambiri, zazikuluzikulu zimatha kusintha
• 26. Nthawi yanu yoyamba siyiyikira kuthekera kogonana komwe mungakhale nako kapena osakhalako
• 27. Ngati zokumana nazo zanu zoyambirira sizomwe mumafuna, mutha kuyesa nthawi zonse

1. Unamwali umatanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana

Palibe chimodzi tanthauzo la unamwali. Kwa ena, kukhala namwali kumatanthauza kuti simunakhalepo ndi mtundu uliwonse wogonana - kaya ndi ukazi, kumatako, kapena mkamwa. Ena angatanthauzire kuti unamwali sunakhudzidwepo ndi maliseche a abambo, ngakhale anali ndi mitundu ina yakugonana, kuphatikiza kukondoweza pakamwa komanso kulowa mkati.

Komabe mumatanthauzira, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kukumbukira ndichakuti inu sankhani nthawi yomwe mwakonzeka kugonana komanso kuti ndinu omasuka ndi chisankhocho. Ndipo nthawiyo ikafika, yesetsani kuti musaganize kuti "kutaya" kapena "kupereka" kena kake. Mukupezadi chidziwitso chatsopano.

2. Ngakhale lingaliro lanu la unamwali likuphatikizira kulowa, pali zambiri kuposa P mu V

Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira njira yokhayo "yotaya" unamwali wako ndikudutsa maliseche ndi mbolo, koma sizili choncho.

Anthu ena sangathenso kudzitcha namwali atalowa mkatikati kapena kulowa ndi chala kapena chidole chogonana. Ena atha kulingaliranso za unamwali wawo atalandira kapena atakwezedwa pakamwa. Pankhani ya unamwali ndi kugonana, pali zochulukirapo kuposa P mu V.

3. Ngati muli ndi himbuli, silikuti "pop" panthawi yolowera kumaliseche

O, nyimbo - nthano. Mwinamwake mwamvapo nthano kuti ngati muli ndi hymeni, idzaphwanya panthawi yolowera kumaliseche. Koma ndizo zonse zomwe zili: nthano.

Hymeni wapakati sichoncho chidutswa cha minofu yathyathyathya yomwe imaphimba kutseguka kwa amayi, monga nthano imanenera. M'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri amakhala omasuka - ndipo ayi konse chidutswa chokhazikika chomwe chimapachikidwa kumaliseche.

Kutengera kukula kwake, hymen amatha kung'ambika panthawi yogonana, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Koma siching "pop," chifukwa sichingatero.

4. Mnyamata wanu alibe chochita ndi unamwali wanu

Nyimbo yanu - monga chala chanu kapena khutu lanu - ndi gawo chabe la thupi. Sizitengera kuti ndiwe namwali kuposa momwe zimakhalira ndi zala zako. Kuphatikiza apo, sikuti aliyense amabadwa ndi hymen, ndipo ngati ali, atha kukhala kachidutswa kakang'ono kwambiri. Inu - ndi inu nokha - mumasankha za unamwali wanu.

5. Thupi lako silisintha

Thupi lanu silimasintha mutagonana koyamba - kapena kachiwiri, kapena lachitatu, kapena makumi asanu.

Komabe, mudzakumana ndi machitidwe ena okhudzana ndi kugonana. Izi zingaphatikizepo:

• maliseche otupa
• mbolo yokoma
• kupuma mofulumira
• thukuta
• khungu lakuda

Mayankho okhudzana ndi kudzutsawa ndi akanthawi kwakanthawi. Thupi lanu silikusintha - ndikungoyankha zokondweretsazo.

6. Palibe "kuyang'ana" kogonana

Mukamaliza kugonana, thupi lanu limabwerera pang'onopang'ono kumalo ake okhazikika. Koma nthawi yozizira iyi imangotenga mphindi zochepa.

Mwanjira ina, palibe njira ina yomwe munthu wina angadziwire kuti simulinso namwali. Njira yokhayo angadziwire ngati mungaganize zowauza.

7. Mwina sizingafanane ndi zochitika zachiwerewere zomwe mumaziwona pa TV (kapena zolaula)

Aliyense amagonana mosiyana. Koma simuyenera kuyembekezera nthawi yanu yoyamba kukhala ngati zomwe mumawona m'makanema.

Zithunzi zogonana m'mafilimu komanso pawailesi yakanema sizimachitika kamodzi - ochita sewero nthawi zambiri amayenera kudzikonza okha, ndipo owongolera amatha kuyambiranso mbali zina kuti zochitikazo ziziwoneka bwino pakamera.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti zomwe mumawona pazenera zasiliva nthawi zambiri sizithunzi zenizeni zakugonana komwe kumafikira anthu ambiri.

8. Nthawi yanu yoyamba ikhoza kukhala yovuta, koma siyiyenera kukupweteketsani

Ndizabwinobwino kuti musamve bwino nthawi yoyamba yogonana. Mikangano imatha kuchitika ndikulowerera, ndipo izi zitha kuyambitsa mavuto. Koma nthawi yanu yoyamba sayenera kupweteka.

Ngati kugonana kumapweteka, izi zitha kukhala chifukwa chosowa mafuta, kapena matenda, monga endometriosis. Muyenera kupita kuchipatala ngati mukumva kuwawa nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukugonana. Amatha kuwunika zizindikilo zanu ndikuthandizira kuthana ndi zovuta zilizonse.

9. Apa ndipomwe mafuta amadzimadzi (ndipo mwinanso mawonekedwe ena!) Amabwera

Ngati muli ndi nyini, mutha kupanga mafuta - kapena "kunyowa" - mwachilengedwe. Koma nthawi zina, sipangakhale mafuta okwanira kumaliseche kuti achepetse kukangana panthawi yolowera.

Kugwiritsa ntchito lube kungathandize kuti kugonana kumalowe bwino pochepetsa kukwiya. Ngati mukuchita kulowa kumatako, lube ndiyofunika kwambiri; anus satulutsa mafuta okhaokha, ndipo kulowa popanda mafuta kumatha kubweretsa misozi.

10. Masamba anu mwina sangakhale magazi

Pakhoza kukhala kutuluka pang'ono magazi koyamba kugonana, koma musayembekezere chochitika kuchokera ku "Kuwala."

Ngati muli ndi nyini, mutha kutuluka magazi pang'ono ngati hymen yanu ikutambalala mukamalowa. Ndipo ngati minyewa ya anal yotulutsa misozi nthawi yolowera kumatako, kutuluka magazi pang'ono kumachitika. Komabe, izi nthawi zambiri sizimatulutsa magazi okwanira kusiya masamba.

11. Matenda opatsirana pogonana amatha kufala kudzera mu mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana

Kulowera kumaliseche si njira yokhayo yomwe matenda opatsirana pogonana amafalikira. Matenda opatsirana pogonana amathanso kufalikira kudzera polowera kumatako komanso kukondoweza pakamwa, mosasamala kanthu kuti mukupereka kapena kulandira. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu ndi njira zina zodzitetezera nthawi iliyonse, nthawi iliyonse.

12. Ngati mukugonana P mu V, kutenga mimba ndikotheka nthawi yoyamba

Mimba ndi zotheka nthawi iliyonse pali malowedwe achikazi ndi mbolo, ngakhale itakhala nthawi yanu yoyamba. Zitha kuchitika ngati munthu yemwe ali ndi mbolo akutuluka umaliseche mkati mwa nyini kapena kunja, koma pafupi, kutsegula kwa nyini. Kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu ndiyo njira yabwino yopewera kutenga mimba.

13. Ngati muli ndi nyini, simungamasuke nthawi yoyamba

Zilonda zam'mimba sizikhala chitsimikizo nthawi zonse, ndipo pamakhala mwayi kuti simungafike pachimake nthawi yoyamba yogonana. Izi zitha kuchitika pazifukwa zingapo, kuphatikiza magawo otonthoza komanso matenda. M'malo mwake, kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti mwa anthu omwe ali ndi nyini amakhala ndi vuto lofika pachimake ndi bwenzi lawo.

14. Ngati muli ndi mbolo, mutha kutopetsa msanga kuposa momwe mumaganizira

Si zachilendo kuti munthu yemwe ali ndi mbolo afike pachimake mwachangu kuposa momwe amayembekezera - kapena amafuna - panthawi yogonana. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kutaya msanga msanga kumatha kukhudza anthu 1 mwa atatu.

Ngati mumakonda msanga nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukugonana, lingalirani zolankhula ndi dokotala. Angathe kukupatsirani mankhwala kapena kulangiza mankhwala ena.

Mofananamo, ndizothekanso kuti mwina simungakumane ndi chiwerewere nthawi yoyamba kugonana, ngakhale mutatulutsa umuna.

15. Kapena mutha kupeza kuti mbolo yanu siyothandiza

Mutha kupeza kuti mukulephera kupeza kapena kusunga erection olimba mokwanira kuti alowemo. Ngakhale mutha kuchita manyazi kapena kukhumudwa, dziwani kuti nthawi zina erectile dysfunction (ED) siachilendo.

ED imatha kuchitika pazifukwa zingapo, monga kupsinjika ndi nkhawa. Ndipo chifukwa aka ndi koyamba kuti mugonane, mutha kukhala ndi nkhawa zambiri.

Ngati ED akupitilizabe, mungapeze zothandiza kukambirana ndi dokotala za matenda anu.

16. Mukakhala omasuka kwambiri, mumakhala ochezeka kwambiri

Muli ndi mwayi wokhala pamalungo mukakhala bwino ndi thupi lanu, mnzanu, komanso zokumana nazo zonse. Mukakhala omasuka, mumakhala okonzeka kulandira chilakolako chogonana. Komanso, mumakhala ndi zotheka kumva thupi lanu lonse. Ndipo, panthawi yonse yogonana, malingaliro amenewo amatha kukhala chiwerewere.

17. Zilonda zam'mimba sizimakhala zofunikira nthawi zonse, komabe

Osalakwitsa - ziphuphu ndizabwino! Zimayambitsa mafunde azisangalalo mthupi lanu lonse zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti mumve bwino. Koma kukhala ndi maliseche nthawi zonse sikutanthauza kugonana. Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti inu ndi mnzanu muli omasuka komanso ofanana ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo.

18. Ngati mukufuna china chake, nenani choncho

Osanyalanyaza zokhumba zanu. Ngati muli ndi zosowa zina, onetsetsani kuti mumauza mnzanu - komanso mosiyana. Ndikofunika kukhala omasuka komanso owona mtima pazomwe mungafune kuti zichitike nthawi yoyamba yogonana kuti zokumana nazo zikhale zabwino koposa.

19. Simuyenera kuchita chilichonse chomwe simumasuka nacho

Ayi sizitanthauza ayi. Kuyimilira kwathunthu. Ngati pali china chake chomwe simumasuka kuchita, simuyenera kuchita. Wokondedwa wanu alibe ufulu wokakamiza kapena kukukakamizani kuti mugone - komanso mosiyana. Ndipo izi sizikugwira ntchito nthawi yanu yoyamba - izi zimapita nthawi iliyonse mumagonana.

20. Mutha kusintha malingaliro anu nthawi iliyonse

Simuyenera kupitiriza kugonana ngati simuli omasuka kapena osangalatsidwa. Muli ndi ufulu wosintha nthawi iliyonse. Apanso, mnzanu alibe ufulu wokakamiza kapena kukukakamizani kuti mupitirize kugonana ngati simukufuna.

21. Nthawi "yoyenera" yokha ndi yomwe imakukhudzani

Mutha kumva kuti mukukakamizidwa kuti mugonane msanga kuposa momwe mumafunira. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ndi inu nokha amene mungasankhe nthawi yomwe mukufuna kugonana koyamba. Ngati nthawi ikupita, zili bwino. Yembekezani mpaka ikumvereni bwino.

22. Kaya "aliyense akuchita izi" ndizomveka

Khulupirirani kapena ayi, wina aliyense ali ayi kuchita izo. Kuchuluka kwa anthu ogonana kumatsika kwenikweni. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina wa 2016, 15% ya Zakachikwi sanagonepo kuyambira ali ndi zaka 18.

Kuphatikiza apo, zambiri zochokera ku Centers for Disease Control and Prevention zikuwonetsa kuti kwa nthawi yoyamba. Avereji ya zaka lero ndi, kuyambira zaka 16 mu 2000.

23. Kugonana sikofanana ndi kukondana kapena chikondi

Kugonana, monga kuthamanga, ndi zochitika zolimbitsa thupi - ndipo palibenso zina. Sizofanana ndi kukondana, chikondi, kukondana, kapena kukondana. Momwe mumawonera kugonana, komabe, ndizovuta kwambiri. Anthu ena amangogona ndi anzawo omwe amawakonda, pomwe ena amatha kugonana popanda zingwe.

Mwanjira ina, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mukugwirizana ndi mfundo yoti mukugonana, komanso kuti winayo sangakhale nawo pamikhalidwe kapena malingaliro omwe mungamupatse.

24. Moyo wanu suli pachiwopsezo, ndipo sungagwirizane ndi munthuyo kwamuyaya

Anthu ena atha kukhala ndi zikhulupiriro zamphamvu pazakugonana. Ena mwina sangatero. Mulimonsemo, simungapangitse mzimu wanu kugona, komanso simudzakhala womangika kwa mnzanu. Pamapeto pake, kugonana ndiko basi - kugonana. Ndi ntchito yabwinobwino, yathanzi yomwe sinafotokozere kapena kukhazikitsira maziko anu amakhalidwe abwino kapena auzimu.

25. Ngati mugonana ndi munthu yemwe mumacheza naye nthawi zambiri, zazikuluzikulu zimatha kusintha

Inu ndi bwenzi lanu nonse mutha kutsalira mukufunsa mafunso atsopano, monga "Kodi timayenera kuchita izi nthawi zonse tionana?"; "Kodi kugonana nthawi zonse kudzakhala monga choncho? ”; ndipo "Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani ubale wathu?" Mayankho ena atha kukhala ovuta, koma mukamakambirana nkhani izi, onetsetsani kuti mukukhala omasuka komanso owona mtima momwe mumamvera.

26. Nthawi yanu yoyamba siyiyikira kuthekera kogonana komwe mungakhale nako kapena osakhalako

Chofunika kwambiri pakugonana ndikuti zimakhala zosiyana nthawi zonse. Nthawi yanu yoyamba kuchita zogonana sizingafanane ndi zomwe mumayembekezera, koma sizitanthauza kuti nthawi yachiwiri, yachitatu, kapena yachinayi nayo. Mtundu wakugonana womwe mungakhale nawo kapena osakhalako umadalira mnzanuyo, luso lake, kufunitsitsa kuyesa zinthu zatsopano, ndi zina zambiri.

27. Ngati zokumana nazo zanu zoyambirira sizomwe mumafuna, mutha kuyesa nthawi zonse

Nthawi yanu yoyamba kugonana sikuyenera kukhala ntchito yokhayo pokhapokha mutasankha. Ngati zokumana nazo sizomwe mumafuna kapena kuyembekezera, mutha kuyesa nthawi zonse - mobwerezabwereza, mobwerezabwereza. Kupatula apo, monga mwambiwu umati: Kuyeserera kumapangitsa kukhala koyenera.