Momwe Wina Womanyazitsa Munthu Wina Potsiriza Anandiphunzitsa Kuleka Kuweruza Matupi Aakazi

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Ndimakwera njinga yanga pa sitima yapansi panthaka yodzaza ndi anthu ndikukwera papulatifomu ndikupita kulitali. Ngakhale ndimatha kukwera njinga yanga pamasitepe asanu, chikepe ndichosavuta-chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndidaphunzira ndikamakwera njinga yanga. Ndikafika pamsewu, ndimayendetsa njira yanga yonse kupita ku kalasi yaku Spain. (Ine ndi amuna anga tidakhala ku Madrid kwa chaka chimodzi pomwe amaphunzitsa Chingerezi ndipo ndidakulitsa mawu anga kupitilira "queso" ndi "cafe.")

Ndikuyandikira chikepe, ndazindikira azimayi atatu omwe akuyembekezera kukwera. Maso anga akuyendayenda matupi awo. Amawoneka olemera pang'ono komanso osawoneka bwino kwa ine. Mwina akwere masitepe, Ndikuganiza ndekha. Iwo mwina akhoza kupindula ndi cardio. Nditaima pamenepo, ndikupangira malingaliro azimayi awa pamutu panga ndikusokonezeka, ndikuganiza kuti ndiyenera kudikirira chikepe chachiwiri chifukwa azimayi awa ndiulesi kwambiri kukwera masitepe.

Zakhala pafupifupi zachibadwa kuweruza munthu-makamaka mkazi potengera momwe thupi lawo limawonekera. Popanda chidziŵitso chilichonse chokhudza munthu winayo, mumatsimikiza za thanzi lawo, kukongola kwake, ngakhalenso kufunika kwake m’chitaganya.

Kwa nthawi yonse yomwe ndikukumbukira, thupi lochepa thupi limatengedwa ngati bwino thupi. Woonda ndi wabwino, ndipo mtundu wina uliwonse wa thupi umayenera kunenedwa kapena kuweruzidwa. (Ngakhale, ngati mukuganiza kuti wina ali nawonso woonda, mwina mumaweruzanso zimenezo.) Pali mwayi wabwino woti mumangogwiritsa ntchito mawu oti “wonenepa” ndi “woonda” ndi “onenepa kwambiri” monga zizindikiritso za anthu ena. Kutchula thupi la mkazi nthawi yomweyo kwakhala chizolowezi. Heck, mwina mumadzitcha nokha: Ndine wolimba. Ndine wopindika. Ndili ndi bulu wamkulu. Chiuno changa ndi chachikulu kwambiri. Popanda tanthauzo, mumadzichepetsera nokha ndi ena ku mabokosi amtundu wina. Mumadzichepetsera ku gawo linalake la thupi.Mumachepetsa kudziona kwanu, azilongo anu, amayi anu, anzanu, ngakhale akazi ongochita zachisawawa musiteshoni yapansi panthaka. Mumalola mawonekedwe a thupi kulamulira momwe mumawonera munthu.

Chikepe chimafika pansi pomwe azimayi amalowa. Atatembenuka, azindikira kuti ndili ndi njinga. Azimayi mwachibadwa amadziwa kuti njinga yanga sikwanira ndi anthu omwe ali kale m'nyumbamo, choncho amathamanga mofulumira kuchoka mu elevator. Ndi kumwetulira kwaubwenzi ndi manja aubwenzi, amandipempha kuti ndiigubuduze kaye njinga yanga. Ndimakona chimango mozungulira ndikufinya matayala kuti agwirizane. Ndikangolowa, azimayi amabwerera mmbuyo. Oo, izo zinali zoganizira kwambiri za iwo, Ndikuganiza.

Pomwe timakwera pansi atatu, sindinachitire mwina koma kuchita manyazi momwe ndimawaweruzira ndikuwanyoza (ngakhale zitakhala m'mutu mwanga). Iwo anali okoma mtima ndi aulemu kwa ine. Anatenga nthawi kuti andithandize kulongedza njinga yanga. Anali akazi okongola ndipo sindinkadziwa chilichonse chokhudza thanzi lawo.

Tikafika pamsewu, ndipo azimayi amachoka pa chikepe - koma osayima kuti andigwirire zitseko pamene ndikuyendetsa njinga yanga. Amandifunira tsiku labwino ndikunyamuka.

Kodi ndikanaganiza bwanji zankhanza kwambiri za akazi omwe sindinakumanepo nawo? Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani ndimakhumudwitsa mayi wina momwe amawonekera osadziwa chilichonse chokhudza moyo wake kapena umunthu wake?

Ndidapunthwa pamafunso amenewo pomwe ndimakwera njinga kupita ku sukulu yophunzitsa chilankhulo. Mwina chifukwa ndimakwera njinga kupita kukalasi kapena kukhala ndi mchiuno chowoneka chocheperako, ndimamva kuti ndine wabwinoko kapena wathanzi kuposa wina. Mwina chifukwa matupi awo anali osiyana ndi anga, ndinaganiza kuti ayenera kukhala opanda thanzi.

Koma zonsezi zinali zolakwika. Sikuti azimayi awa anali okongola chifukwa cha kukoma mtima kwawo, komanso anali okongola kwambiri kuposa momwe ndinali m'masiku amenewo. Kungoti nditha kuoneka wochepa thupi kapena kuoneka wathanzi sizikutanthauza kuti ine ndili. M'malo mwake, kulemera kwa thupi sichizindikiro chabwino cha nthawi yathanzi.

Inde, ndimatha kupita njinga kukalasi, koma ndimakondanso maswiti anga komanso masiku aulesi pomwe sindichita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ngakhale nditayesetsa kukhala wathanzi, sindine wangwiro. Ndipo thupi langa zedi silili langwiro, nalonso. Nthawi zina ndimayang'ana thupi langa pansi ndikudzichititsa manyazi chifukwa choyang'ana momwe ndikuchitira. Nthawi zina ndimachita manyazi ndi thupi popanda kuzindikira.

Koma tsiku lomwelo mu chikepe lidandiphunzitsa kuti ndithane ndi ziweruzo zoyambirirazo. Ziribe kanthu kukula kwanu kapena mawonekedwe anu kapena zosankha zolimbitsa thupi, kudziweruza nokha ndi akazi ena ndikosafunika komanso kopanda zipatso. Kulemba mitundu ya thupi ndi kusokoneza umunthu wa munthu ndi mawonekedwe ake kumakhala cholepheretsa kuwona anthu momwe iwo alili. Maonekedwe a thupi lanu samatanthauzira thanzi lanu. M'malo mwake, siziyenera kukutanthauzirani konse. Ndinu omwe muli chifukwa cha zomwe mkati thupi lanu-ndicho chifukwa chake momwe aliyense amalankhulira za matupi azimayi ayenera kusintha.

Chiyambire kukumana kwanga ndi akazi awa tsiku lomwelo, ndimadziwa bwino malingaliro anga ndikawona mkazi wokhala ndi thupi losiyana ndi langa. Ndimayesetsa kukumbukira kuti thupi lawo silindiuza chilichonse chokhudza iwo. Ndimadzikumbutsa kuti sindikudziwa chilichonse chokhudza moyo wawo, thanzi lawo, kapena chibadwa chawo, zomwe zimandithandiza kuzindikira kukongola kwawo kwenikweni. Ndimayesetsanso kuwona mtima wawo wabwino ndi mphatso zonse zomwe amabweretsa padziko lapansi. Ndikaganiza zonsezi, ndilibe nthawi yodandaula za thupi lawo. Sindidzaiwala zomwe amayi aja adandionetsa tsiku lomwelo. Kukoma mtima ndi chikondi nthawi zonse zimaposa chiweruzo ndi manyazi-onse pamene mukuyang'ana ena komanso pamene mukuyang'ana nokha.

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