Chifukwa Chomwe Tasintha Momwe Timayankhulira Matupi Aakazi

Zamkati

• Onaninso za

Mwinamwake mwamvapo kuti kuvomereza komwe mwalakwitsa ndi sitepe yoyamba kuti mukonze. Ndizotheka kunena kuti intaneti-Shape.com yomwe idaphatikizidwa-yakhala ikulakwitsa ndi nkhani zomwe zimayerekezera, kusanja, kapena kulembetsa gulu la azimayi ndi matupi awo kapena ziwalo zina za thupi. Makamaka, tikulankhula za mindandanda "yabwino kwambiri", monga yathu Mabungwe Opambana a 2012 Kuvina ndi Nyenyezi ndi Akazi Oposa 10 Ovala Zabwino Kwambiri pa Grammys ya 2012, onsewa, ngakhale sanachite zoyipa ndi anzako omwe amawasindikiza panthawiyo ndipo ngakhale ali ndi zodina zambiri, ndi nkhani zomwe sitingachitenso chimodzimodzi lero mu 2017.

Sikuti tikungokonzanso nkhani zamtunduwu kuti tikondweretse mwamphamvu (m'mawu aliwonse), azimayi oyipa omwe timawasilira ndikuwalimbikitsa, koma timapanga kukhala ntchito yatsiku ndi tsiku kukondwerera. zonse akazi chifukwa cha kulimba kwawo, kupirira kwawo, kudzipereka kwawo, komanso kulimba mtima kwawo - zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi mawonekedwe awo. Izi zati, pomwe tidawona kukhumudwa kuchokera m'nkhani yaposachedwa yofalitsidwa ndi Vogue.com, yotchedwa "The Best Victoria's Secret Bodies of All Time, Kuyambira Gisele Bündchen kupita ku Bella Hadid," tidadziwa kuti sitingangonena zomwe zachitikazo ngati nkhani yabwinobwino. Chifukwa gawo limodzi laudindo wathu pakupititsa patsogolo zokambirana ndikukhala ndi nkhani zakale zomwe sitinyadira nazo-ndiponso kuwirikiza kawiri lonjezo lathu lokhala mawu (mokweza) mumayendedwe olimbikitsa thupi.

Ngati mwaphonya phokoso, Vogue Ali pamoto (aka mkuntho wa Twitter) pa nkhani yomwe adafalitsa Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Lachiwiri usiku, yomwe ili ndi zithunzi za mitundu yazithunzi kuyambira pachiwonetsero cha 1995 kuyambira lero. Pamodzi ndikukambirana za mawonekedwe awo ndi zovala zawo, nkhaniyi idanenanso kuti Chinsinsi cha Victoria, chomwe chakhala m'madzi otentha chifukwa chosowa kusiyanasiyana, chakonda matupi amphamvu komanso othamanga posachedwa. Ngakhale akadali, mtundu wa zovala zamkati sunaphatikizepo zitsanzo zazikuluzikulu muwonetsero-chinachake chomwe chimawoneka kuti chimatulutsa mthunzi wowoneka bwino kuchokera kwa Ashley Graham, ndi zomwe tinkafunanso mu 2015. Pambuyo pake. Vogue adalimbikitsa nkhaniyi pa Twitter, ogwiritsa ntchito adayankha mwachangu, ponena kuti kungosankha kuwonetsa mitundu iyi yokhayo yomwe "zabwino kwambiri" zimayika ngati zochititsa manyazi thupi. (Werengani za sayansi yamanyazi, ndipo muwona momwe zingakhalire zoopsa.)

"Kodi ichi ndichinthu chotani?" wosuta m'modzi analemba. "Matupi awo onse ndi odabwitsa motero akuyenda munjira yonyezimira atavala zovala zawo zamkati!" Wina anangofunsa kuti, "Komanso, chifukwa chiyani tikufanizira matupi a akazi?" Ena anapempha mag kuti agwiritse ntchito mphamvu zawo "kukulitsa kudzidalira, osati kuwononga." Pamapeto pake, malingaliro ochokera kwa olemba ndemanga sanali kokha kuti kuweruza akazi pamawonekedwe awo (ngakhale ma supermodels mu zovala zamkati) anali mchitidwe wogonana womwe tonsefe timafuna kuwona utatha, komanso nkhawa kuti mchitidwewu umathandizira kulimbikitsa kukongola kosatheka kapena thupi loyenera.

Nachi chinthu: Vogue sali yekha. Koma ngakhale zili zoona Maonekedwendipo mitundu ina yambiri yatumiza zolemba zofananira m'mbuyomu, timalimbikitsidwa ndi ndemanga zamtunduwu zomwe zatithandiza kuti tisiyane ndi nthano zachikale za "matupi abwino". Timakonda kuti zokambirana zathu zonse zasintha. Ndi gawo limodzi la chifukwa chomwe tidayambitsa gulu la Love My Shape pafupifupi zaka ziwiri zapitazo, ndipo chifukwa chiyani kuphatikizana komanso kulimbikitsa thupi ndi njira yathu yochitira zinthu pano. #LoveMyShape si nkhani (ngakhale tili nayo yambiri). #LoveMyShape si kampeni yapa TV (inde, khalani nazonso). #LoveMyShape ndi njira yongoyerekeza, yodziwonetsera nokha kudzikonda-chinthu chomwe tikuyembekeza chimakhala chachiwiri kwa amayi ambiri. Chifukwa kumva kukhala wathanzi komanso wosangalala ndi kwa aliyense thupi.

Kodi tikupatsabe zambiri zamkati momwe otchuka monga Khloé Kardashian ndi Julianne Hough amatengera matupi awo osaneneka? Inde, chifukwa ndani akuti ndi nyenyezi zokha zomwe zimayenera kufikira ophunzitsa abwino kwambiri? Kodi tikuthandizaninso kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zabwino, zilizonse? Inde, chifukwa kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi kumatanthauza kukhala ndi moyo wautali komanso wachimwemwe. Kodi tikuthandizanibe kuonda kapena kukhala amphamvu ngati ndizomwe mukufuna? Gehena inde, chifukwa matupi ndi zinthu zamphamvu kwambiri, ndipo kuphwanya zolinga zanu kumakhala kodabwitsa. Koma tipitiliza kukukumbutsani kuti mudzikonde nokha momwe muliri, kuti Zabwino Kwambiri za Aliyense Ziwonekere mosiyana, ndikuti kupuma tsiku (kapena atatu) sikuyenera kulipidwa - muli ndi ngongole.

Pamapeto pa tsikulo, kuyankha mwamphamvu kuchokera munkhani yaposachedwa iyi ndichikumbutso china kwa tonsefe kuti tiyenera kuyang'anitsitsa momwe timalankhulira za matupi azimayi.

Onaninso za