7 Kinky Kukweza kwa Moyo Wanu Wogonana

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Mukufuna kukhala ochita chidwi kwambiri pakama, koma lingaliro longoyang'ana dziko la kink litha kukhala lokwanira kukupangitsani kuti mugwedezeke. (Amayamba kuti?)

Nayi chinthu ichi: Amayi ambiri amakhala ndi pakati "kink" kwambiri kuposa momwe zimakhalira, atero a Vanessa Marin, katswiri wama psychotherapist komanso wothandizira kugonana. "Azimayi ambiri amachita mantha chifukwa amaziyanjanitsa ndi zovuta," akutero Marin. "Koma pali magawo osiyanasiyana, ena mwa iwo ndi osawoneka bwino," akuwonjezera. Ngakhale atsikana abwino amakhala ndi zokonda, akutero mphunzitsi wa zibwenzi komanso wogonana, Laurel House. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kufufuza-mulingo uliwonse!-kukweza pabedi kungathenso kukulitsa ubale wanu. Zimakutsegulirani mbali zatsopano zomwe simunadziwe kuti zilipo.

Ndiye kuti "Ndiyambira bwanji?" funso. Apa, njira zisanu ndi ziwiri zochepa zowopsa, zosangalatsa zina zotenthetsera zinthu-kuyambira usikuuno!

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The kink: Kukwapula

Chifukwa chiyani kumatentha: Kupereka chilolezo kwa mwamuna wanu kuti akhale wovuta pang'ono ndi inu ndikusiya kulamulira. Kupweteka pang'ono (kutsindika pang'ono!) Kumathanso kukulitsa chidwi chanu, malinga ndi kafukufuku ku University of Northern Illinois ku DeKalb. "Mutha kupangitsa kukwapula kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri polimbikitsa mnyamata wanu kuti azikokanso tsitsi lanu," akutero Marin. "Ngakhale atakhala wofatsa, umamvanso kuti ukufulumira chifukwa cha kukondoweza kowonjezerako."

Momwe mungachitire: Nthawi ina akadzakhala kumbuyo kwa bedi, bwerani kumbuyo ndikumuuza kuti mukufuna kuti akumenyeni pang'ono. Mutha kunena mu liwu lanu labwino kwambiri, "Kodi mudzandimenya nthawi ina mukakankha? Koma osati molimba kwambiri!" Adzadabwa-ndipo mwina adzakondwera-mukadzayamba kusintha kwa adrenaline!

Toy Land

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The kink: Zoseweretsa zogonana

Chifukwa chiyani kumatentha: Kubweretsa zoseweretsa zogonana m'chipinda chogona kungakhale kowopsa kwa amuna - angaganize kuti mukutsutsa umuna wake! Koma kungopanga kukambirana ndikusankha zidole zophatikizika, monga izi kuchokera kwa Jimmy Jane, kapena izi zomwe zimalonjeza kugwedezeka kwabwino zitha kuthana ndi mavutowo. Izi zitha kukhala zophatikizika zomwe nthawi imodzi zimakulitsa chisangalalo kwa onse awiri, akutero Dr. Sonjia.

Momwe mungachitire: Ngati mukumva kukhala osamasuka kuvomereza kuti mwakhala mukuganiza zoseweretsa zogonana, tchulani Makumi asanu Mithunzi ya Imvi (Hei, ngoloyo yangotuluka kumene!) Ndi malo omwe Mr. Grey amapatsa Anastasia choseweretsa. Nyumba ikuti izi zidzatsegulira zokambirana kenako mutha kusankha limodzi zoti mugule: "Kambiranani zomwe zoseweretsa zimawoneka ngati zosangalatsa kuyesa," akutero. "Ngati simukuzikonda, simuyenera kuchitanso, kotero mutha kuyesanso."

Sewerani Gawo

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Kink: Kusewera kapena kuvula

Chifukwa chake kutentha: Mutakhala pachibwenzi kwakanthawi-ndipo zikuwoneka ngati mukudziwa malo aliwonse amomwe amasewera kapena kuvula ndi njira yosavuta, yotsika mtengo yothetsera wina ndi mnzake. "Simuyenera kupanga zojambula zokongola. Ngakhale mutavala zidendene zazitali kwambiri kapena zovala zamkati zowonekera zingakupangitseni kumva kuti mukugunda china," akutero Marin.

Momwe mungachitire: Mukakonzekera kuchita izi, khalani ndi nthawi yowonjezera kubafa musanagone. Adzadabwa chomwe chikutengereni motalika chonchi. Mukamatuluka, valani ngati chinthu chosavuta kusewera, monga namwino, mphunzitsi, kapena wothandizira kutikita minofu. Sonija amavotera omalizawa ngati gawo loyamba la seweroli kwa oyamba kumene: "Popeza kuti kutikita minofu kumakhudza kukhudza zambiri, kupereka kapena kulandira zomwe zimabweretsa zachiwerewere sizovuta kuchita. Seweroli lingathenso kukwaniritsa chinyengo cha kubera kwa wokondedwa wako ndi masseuse, zomwe ndizopeka zodziwika kwa akulu akulu ambiri. "

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Kink: Kuchita maliseche pamaso pake

Chifukwa chiyani kumatentha: Palibe chomwe munthu wabwino amakonda kuposa kuwonetsetsa kuti mukutsika. Kupatula kuti mwina akuyang'ana bwenzi lake lachigololo, achokereni yekha. Pali zabwino zingapo zathanzi zomwe zimakhudzana ndi kuseweretsa maliseche, kuyambira paumoyo waberekero mpaka kupumula, atero Sonjia. Zowonjezerapo: "Ngati mukudziwa momwe mungadzikhutitsire, mutha kuwonetsa mnzanu momwe angagwere malo omwe mumakonda, zomwe zithandizira kukhutira ndi onse," akutero Sonjia.

Momwe mungachitire: Mnyamata wanu akayamba kukukanani, kumanong'oneza khutu, "Ndimakonda mukandigwira kumeneko, koma tili ndi masewera atsopano usikuuno: Nditha kundigwira, koma simungathe." Kuthandiza kwanu kudzamutsegulira ndikukuwonani mukumaliza mwina kukupangitsani nonse kukonzekera magawo awiri.

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The kink: Kugonana pagulu

Chifukwa chake kutentha: Kusiya chizolowezi chanu chogonana kumabweretsa mphamvu zatsopano komanso zamagetsi, muyenera kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti musagwidwe, ndikugwira ntchito mwachangu kuti mufike pachimake. "Kugonana m'malo ena kumatanthauza maudindo atsopano, njira zatsopano zolowera, komanso zosangalatsa zatsopano. Kuphatikizanso, zokumana nazo zatsopano zimakulitsa chisangalalo, chomwe chimayambitsanso kukondana," akutero Sonjia.

Momwe mungachitire: Pa tsiku lanu lotsatira usiku, mwachinyengo mudzikhululukire nokha ku bafa ndikunyamula kabudula wamkati (kapena ingobweretsani awiri, ngati simukukhulupirira). Mukabwerera, sungani awiriwo m'manja mwa mnyamatayo (mumuchenjeze kuti asakweza!) Ndipo mumuuze kuti muyenera kupita naye kunyumba. Ngati mukuyendetsa galimoto, pitani kumalo obisika ndikupita. Ngati mukuyenda, yang'anani malo obisika kunja kwa msewu ndikufulumira. Kusowa kwanu kwa undies kupangitsa kukhala kosavuta - ndikuyatsadi!

Lankhulani Mphepo Yamkuntho

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Kink: Nkhani zonyansa

Chifukwa chiyani kumatentha: Mwamuna wanu akudziwa kuti mumakonda zomwe amachita - koma mudamuuzapo? Nthawi zina abambo (ndi akazi) amafunika kumva zodetsa kuti awonjezere zomwe zimachitika mchipinda chogona. Zimatseguliranso chitseko chowululira zokonda zanu kwa wina ndi mnzake, zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi kuti mudzayesenso zambiri mtsogolo. Ngati mukuda nkhawa kapena kupusa, House imalimbikitsa bukuli Mausiku 101 Akugona Kwakukulu ndi Laura Corn.

Momwe mungachitire: "Sewerani mozungulira ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu 'opanda pake' pogonana," akutero Marin. "Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omwe nthawi zambiri mumamverera kuti mulibe malire kwa inu, monga 'dick wanu' kapena 'pussy wanu' kapena 'pitani mozama, mwana', kenako yesetsani kufotokoza momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna."

Yatsani TV

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The kink: Penyani zolaula pamodzi

Chifukwa chake kutentha: Zowonadi, zolaula zitha kukhala zosatheka, koma kuwonera akatswiri akuchita izi kumatha kuyambitsa zokambirana pazomwe mukufuna kuchita pafupipafupi, kapena zomwe mukufuna kuyesa. "Zikutsimikiziranso mwasayansi kuti phokoso la mkazi ali ndi vuto limatembenuza aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za jenda kapena zogonana," akutero Sonjia.

Momwe mungachitire: Lowani patsamba lachiwerewere laulere monga xvideos.com ndikusankha vidiyo yomwe nonse mumavomerezana (mutha kuwerenga ndemanga ndikuwunika nyenyezi). Mutha kuyang'ana maliseche ngati mungasangalale ndikufunsa mafunso olunjika pazithunzi monga, "Kodi izi zimakutsegulani?" kapena "Kodi mungafune kuti ndikuchitireni izi?" akulangiza Sonjia.

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