7 Zizindikiro Zosadziwikiratu Kuti Ndi Wachizungu

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Mwano kwa seva yanu? Amayang'ana zolemba zake nthawi zonse? Simungaleke kulankhula za wakale wake? Zizindikiro zonse zowonekera kuti ndi bwenzi loipa. Koma akatswiri odziwa zibwenzi amavomereza kuti pali zizindikiro zambiri zosaoneka bwino zomwe zingakhale mbendera zofiira ngati mukudziwa zoyenera kuyang'ana. Yang'anirani izi zisanu ndi ziwiri zachinyengo patsiku lanu loyamba ndikudzipulumutsa ku zopweteka zazikulu mumsewu.

Iye Ndi Wosema Kwambiri

Mukudziwa kuti mukuwoneka wotentha, komanso kuti "ndinu wokongola" kapena pansi pa mpweya wake "wow" pamene mukuyenda pakhomo ndizoona. Koma ngati amangokhalira kunena kuti ndiwe wokongola kwambiri, wanzeru kwambiri, mkazi wosangalatsa kwambiri yemwe adakumana naye-ndipo simunamalize kumwa mowa wanu woyamba - zitha kukhala chizindikiro kuti ndiwampikisano, achenjeza a Patti Feinstein, a Chicago based dating coach. Kupatula apo, ndinu odabwitsa, koma sakukudziwani bwino kuti adziwe izi. "Akugwiritsa ntchito mayamikidwe kuti akupangitseni chidwi chanu. Akufuna kuti muganize kuti ndi Mr. Right, nthawi yomweyo, kuti musakhale ndi cholinga chofuna kudziwa ngati ndi zoyenera kapena ayi ngati akanakhala kuti ' ndakhala pansi kwambiri, "akufotokoza.

Iye Over-Malangizo

Zedi, zitha kuwoneka bwino kuposa kuponya pansi 10 peresenti, koma ngati akuwalitsa ndalama zazikulu kapena kuyika pansi kwambiri kuposa 20 peresenti kuti agwire ntchito wamba, sizabwino, akuchenjeza Feinstein. "Zitha kutanthauza kuti ndi wamankhwala osokoneza bongo. Akufuna kuwoneka ngati wamkulu, ndipo amasamala kwambiri za momwe amawonekera kuposa kulumikizana kwenikweni," a Feinstein akufotokoza.

Amawulula Bwalo Ndilitali Kutali Kwanyumba Yake

Angakhale atatenga kuwala kocheperako, vinyo wachikondi, koma mlongoti wanu uyenera kukwera mmwamba ngati ili pafupi kwambiri ndi kumene amakhala, akuchenjeza Mike Goldstein, woyambitsa EZ Dating Coach, msonkhano wapachibwenzi ku New Jersey. Sikuti ndi lingaliro lake lalikulu kuti akubwezereni kunyumba kwake (ngakhale atakhala ndi izi kumbuyo kwa malingaliro ake) ndikuti akumupangira zinthu zosavuta, osaganizira zaulendo wanu, akufotokoza a Goldstein. Sichinthu chachikulu ngati zingachitike kamodzi (Hei, bala limenelo linali lokongola kwambiri) koma ngati nthawi zonse mumakhala woyenda, ndi chisonyezo kuti ndiwodzikonda.

Iye Ndi Wokhazikika

Wogulitsa bar, seva, ndi tebulo pafupi ndi awiri a inu nonse mukudziwa dzina lake. Zitha kuwoneka zokoma, koma ikhoza kukhala njira yowonetsera mochenjera. "Si gawo lolowa m'malo, zomwe zimakuikani pachiwopsezo. Zingatanthauze kuti nthawi zonse lidzachita zinthu m'njira yake," akutero Feinstein. Ngati atenga izi, koma mumamukondabe, onetsetsani kuti mwasankha deti lachiwiri.

Amanyoza Bwana Wake Aliyense ali ndi masiku oyipa, koma akatswiri amavomereza kuti ndibwino kusamala ndi munthu amene amakhala tsiku loyamba akudandaula. Ngakhale nkhani zake zokhudza ofesi yake yosagwira ntchito zikukuseketsani, iye kusankha kuyang'ana pa zoipa ndi chizindikiro cha momwe ma convos ambiri adzatsikira m'tsogolomu, ngati mupitirizabe chibwenzi.

Amapereka Kuwombera

Kuphatikiza pa kuyankhula za achibale ake ndikunena za zochitika zakutchire zomwe iye ndi anzawo omwe amamwa nawo anali nawo, kuyitanitsa kuwombera ndi chizindikiro choti sangakhale wokonzeka kukhazikika, achenjeza a Goldstein. Atha kukhala wosangalatsa kucheza naye, koma mwina sangakhale ndi ubale.

Sali Wanjenje

Ndi tsiku loyamba, ndipo mwayi, chinthu china chovuta chidzachitika. Koma ngati akuwoneka kuti watheratu ndi moni woyamba, chitha kukhala chisonyezo kuti walowereranso, adachenjeza Feinstein. "Nthawi zochepa zovuta zimatanthauza kuti nonse mwakhala mukugulitsa; kuti nonse mukufuna kuyendetsa bwino phazi lanu," akufotokoza Feinstein.

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