Chifukwa kuyasamula kumafalikira
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Mchitidwe wawning ndizosachita mwadzidzidzi zomwe zimachitika munthu akatopa kwambiri kapena akatopa, kuwonekera kale m'mimba mwa mwana, ngakhale atakhala ndi pakati, pazochitikazi, zokhudzana ndi kukula kwa ubongo.
Komabe, kuyasamula sikumangokhala kosachita kufuna, kumatha kuchitika chifukwa cha "kuyasamula kopatsirana", chinthu chomwe chimangowonekera mwa anthu ndi nyama zochepa, monga chimpanzi, agalu, anyani ndi mimbulu, zomwe zimachitika mukangomva, kuwona kapena kuganiza za kuyasamula.
Momwe kuyasamula kopatsirana kumachitika
Ngakhale zomwe sizikudziwika kuti "kukwapula opatsirana" sizikudziwika, kafukufuku wambiri akuwonetsa kuti chodabwitsachi chikhoza kukhala chokhudzana ndi kuthekera kwa munthu aliyense kumvera ena chisoni, kutanthauza kuti, kudziyika okha m'malo mwa mnzake.
Chifukwa chake, tikawona wina akuyasamula, ubongo wathu umaganiza kuti uli m'malo mwa munthuyo, motero, umatha kuyambitsa kuyasamula, ngakhale sititopetse kapena kutopa. Izi ndizofanana zomwe zimachitika mukawona wina akugogoda nyundo pa chala chanu ndipo thupi lanu limagwirizana potengera ululu womwe winayo akuyenera kukhala nawo, mwachitsanzo.
Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, kafukufuku wina adawonetsa kuti kuyasamula kumafala kwambiri pakati pa anthu am'banja lomwelo, kenako pakati pa abwenzi, kenako pakati pa omwe mumawadziwa, ndipo pomaliza, alendo, omwe akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana ndi lingaliro lakumvera ena chisoni, popeza pali malo abwino oti tidziikire malo a anthu omwe timawadziwa kale.
Zomwe zitha kuwonetsa kusowa kwa kuyasamula
Kutenga kachilombo ndi kuyasamula kwa wina ndikofala ndipo nthawi zambiri sikungapeweke, komabe, pali anthu ena omwe akuwoneka kuti sangakhudzidwe mosavuta. Nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe samakhudzidwa kwambiri amakhala ndi mtundu wina wamatenda amisala monga:
- Satha kulankhula bwinobwino;
- Matenda achizungu.
Izi ndichifukwa choti anthu omwe ali ndi mitundu yosinthayi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto lalikulu polumikizana ndi anzawo kapena maluso olumikizirana ndipo, chifukwa chake, sangathe kudziyika okha m'malo mwa munthu wina, pamapeto pake osakhudzidwa.
Komabe, ndizothekanso kuti ana ochepera zaka 4 alibe "kuyasamula kopatsirana", chifukwa kumvera ena chisoni kumayamba kukula pambuyo pausinkhu.