Kuvina Kwathandiza Mayi Ameneyu Kubwezeretsa Thupi Lake Atataya Mwana Wake

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Kosolu Ananti nthawi zonse amakonda kusuntha thupi lake. Kukula kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 80, ma aerobics anali kupanikizana kwake. Momwe ntchito yake idasinthira, adayamba kuchita zolimbitsa thupi komanso zamtima, koma nthawi zonse amapeza njira yolowera kuvina pang'ono pakati. Mu 2014, adakhala mphunzitsi wodziwika wake, kenako adatenga pakati - ndipo zonse zidasintha. (Werengani momwe ballet adathandizira mayi wina kulumikizanso ndi thupi lake.)

"Kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe, ndimadziwa kuti china chake sichili bwino," Kosolu, yemwe amadutsa pafupi ndi Kasa, adauza Maonekedwe. "Ndinali kutuluka magazi kwambiri, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikapita kuchipatala kapena kukacheza ndi ob-gyn, amandiuza kuti mimba yanga idakalipobe."

Pamene anali ndi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, Kasa anali atatenga nthawi yambiri yopuma kuntchito kuti apite kwa dokotala komanso kuyendera chipatala mwadzidzidzi. Ankada nkhawa kuti kusabweranso kukanamuwonongera ntchito. Chifukwa chake tsiku lina, atamva kupunduka kwachilendo, adaganiza zopitilira momwemo, akuganiza kuti zonse zili bwino, monga zimakhalira nthawi zonse m'mbuyomu.

Atamva ululu kwakanthawi komanso kuona mawanga, adaganiza zopita kuchipatala komwe adamuuza kuti ali ndi pakati. “Pamene ndimalowa, ndinali nditalikira 2cm,” akutero Kasa.

Anakhala mchipatala masiku awiri, akuyembekeza kuti mwanayo azikhala naye kwa nthawi yayitali momwe angathere. Patsiku lachitatu, adabereka mwana wake wamwamuna kudzera mwadzidzidzi C-gawo.

Mwana wake wamwamuna anali msanga msanga, koma zinthu zinali zowoneka bwino. Ankayenda kwambiri, maso ake adali otseguka-zomwe zidatipangitsa kuganiza kuti tili ndi mwayi,” adatero Kasa. Koma patatha masiku asanu ndi awiri Kasa ndi mwamuna wake akuyendera mwana wawo ku NICU, ziwalo zake zinayamba kufooka ndipo anamwalira.

"Sitinakhulupirire," akutero Kasa. "Ngakhale tinkadziwa kukhala osamala, tinali ndi chiyembekezo chochuluka, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti imfa yake iwoneke ngati yodabwitsa."

Kwa miyezi itatu yotsatira, Kasa adatayika. Iye anati: “Sindinkadzimvanso ngati ine ndekha. "Sindinkafuna kupita kulikonse kapena kuchita chilichonse ndipo panali nthawi zomwe ndimalakalaka sindingadzuke. Koma ndimadziwa kuti ndiyenera kupeza njira yoti ndikhale moyo winawake." (Zogwirizana: Nazi Zomwe Zidachitika Nditatenga Padera)

Kasa adadzipeza yekha akugwetsa misozi atawonera mwana thewera wamalonda. "Ndinamva chisoni kwambiri ndipo ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kudzuka ndikuchita zinazake, ngati si ine ndekha ndiye kuti ndikumbukire mwana wanga," akutero. "Ndinali wotsika kwambiri, ndinali ndi mapaundi a 25 ndipo sindinachite chilichonse chopita patsogolo."

Chifukwa chake, adaganiza zopanga zomwe adalakalaka kuchita zaka zingapo zapitazi: kuyambitsa kampani yake yolimbitsa thupi. "Nthawi zonse ndimakonda kupanga china chake chomwe chimaphatikiza chikondi changa pa kuvina komanso kulimbitsa thupi ndikuganiziranso lingaliro la afrikoPOP mu 2014," akutero Kasa. "Monga mbadwo woyamba wa ku Africa waku America, ndimafuna kupanga china chomwe chimaphatikizapo kuvina ku West Africa ndimaphunziro apamwamba." (Onaninso: Makalasi Atsopano A 5 Omwe Amakhala Awiri Monga Cardio)

Atatha kudziwa zonse kuchokera kwa mayi ake, Kasa adayamba kupanga kalasilo. "Kuyambira Januware, ndagawana afrikoPOP ndi anthu mazana ambiri ndipo mayankho ndi chikondi ndizodabwitsa," akutero. (Makalasi akupezeka mdera la Dallas-Fort Worth pakadali pano.)

Mwa kudzipereka kunjako, kuthamangitsa maloto ake, ndikuphunzira kusangalalanso, Kasa adaphunzira kukonda ndikuvomereza thupi lake atamwalira mwana wake wamwamuna. "Imfa za makanda ndizofala kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire, koma pali manyazi ambiri kuzungulira izi," akutero a Kasa. "Umapezeka kuti ukufunsa kuti chavuta ndi chiyani ndi iwe? Wina aliyense akuwoneka kuti akubala ana bwino, bwanji osatero?"

Koma kuyambitsa afrikoPOP kunapangitsa Kasa kuzindikira kuti zomwe zidachitika sinali vuto lake. "Sindinauzepo aliyense zomwe zidachitikira mwana wanga, ndipo kubwezeretsa thupi langa komanso chidaliro chinandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti kunali bwino kugawana nkhani yanga," akutero. "Amayi ambiri adabwera ndi nkhani zofananira, zomwe zidandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti sindili ndekha."

Lero, Kasa ali ndi pakati ndipo palibe zovuta. "Ndikufuna azimayi adziwe kufunikira kofunika kumvera thupi lako, uli ndi pakati kapena ayi," akutero a Kasa. "Ponena za mwana wanga wamwamuna, ndiye wankhondo wanga, wankhondo wanga mngelo wondisamalira ndipo ndikuthokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha moyo wake. Mzimu wake ukundikakamiza paulendowu. Amandisungabe ndikuvina."

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