Danielle Brooks Amalipira Lizzo Pomuthandiza Kuti Azidzidalira Kwambiri M'thupi Lake Lobereka
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Mwina mudamvapo kuti Lizzo posachedwa adadzetsa mpungwepungwe atagawana kuti adayeretsa masiku 10 kuti "akonzanso" m'mimba mwake atapita ku Mexico.Ngakhale adanena kuti adamva "zodabwitsa" atatsukidwa, woimbayo adalandiranso ndemanga kuchokera kwa anthu omwe amawona kuti zolemba zake zimalimbikitsa mauthenga oipa okhudza maonekedwe a thupi.
Pambuyo pake, woimbayo adayankha podzudzulidwayo pofotokozera kuti akukonzekererabe bwino ndipo akugwira ntchito molimbika kuti athetse ubale wake ndi chakudya komanso mawonekedwe amthupi. Koposa zonse, Lizzo adati akufuna kuti mafani ake adziwe kuti ndiamunthu ndipo ali ndi ufulu woyenda pawokha.
Pomwe ena adakali pamipanda yokhudza kuyeretsa kwa Lizzo, wojambula Danielle Brooks adadzitchinjiriza. M'mauthenga okhudza mtima a Instagram, Brooks adati chiwopsezo cha Lizzo chidamupatsa kulimba mtima kuti afotokozere momwe amamenyera kuyambira ali mayi. (Zokhudzana: Danielle Brooks Akukhala Chitsanzo Chabwino Kwambiri Yemwe Amalakalaka Akadakhala Naye)
"Monga munthu amene adapanga mawu oti # voiceofthecurves ndasintha mawu anga kwa miyezi ingapo tsopano chifukwa chamanyazi," Brooks, yemwe adabereka mwana wake wamkazi Freeya mu Novembala 2019, adalemba pambali pa chithunzi chake chamtundu wakuda ndi choyera. "Ndinkachita manyazi kunenepa. Ngakhale kuti ndinabweretsa munthu padziko lapansi, ndinkachita manyazi chifukwa sindinkatha kusunga thupi langa lachibadwa pambuyo pa mimba."
Brooks adati adakhalabe "chete" pazama TV ndikuyembekeza kuti afika poti "atha kuyikanso chithunzichi monga momwe anthu ambiri otchuka amachitira mozizwitsa" atakhala ndi mwana. "Koma si nkhani yanga," adapitilizabe m'nkhani yake. "(Zogwirizana: Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Zokhudza Kuchepetsa Kuwonongeka Kwa Postpartum)
Chowonadi ndi chakuti, zambiri anthu alibe "chozizwitsa chojambulira" chithunzi choti ayike pa Instagram atabereka. Ndipotu, pali anthu osawerengeka omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti akumbutse ena kuti kutaya mwana kumatenga nthawi komanso kuti ndikofunika kukumbatira madontho, khungu lotayirira, ndi kusintha kwina kwachibadwa ndi kwachibadwa komwe kumachitika pambuyo pobereka. (Zogwirizana: Tia Mowry Ali ndi Mphamvu Yolimbikitsa Amayi Atsopano Omwe Amakakamizidwa Kuti "Abwerere")
Komanso ndizowona kuti pali zamanyazi zambiri komanso zoyamika kwa iwo omwe chitani "snap back" pambuyo pathupi, makamaka otchuka. (Onani: Beyoncé, Kate Middleton, Chrissy Teigen, ndi Ciara, kutchulapo owerengeka.) Kusintha kumeneku kukapanga mitu yankhani ndikulemekezedwa pazama media, zitha kuyambitsa kwa anthu ena, makamaka omwe mwina amadzimva kuti alibe chitetezo. thupi la pambuyo pa khanda. (Zokhudzana: Wothandizira Uyu Akuzisunga Zowona Zokhudza Kulowa Mchipinda Choyenera Pambuyo Pokhala ndi Mwana)
Ponena za Brooks, adavomereza m'makalata ake kuti adayesa "zakudya zamitundu yonse [ndi] kuyeretsa" paulendo wake wobereka - osati chifukwa chodzikonda, adalemba, koma chifukwa amachita kudzikonda yekha, thupi lake, ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo akuyesera kuti azidzisamalira yekha.
"Monga Lizzo, ndi asungwana ena ambiri 'onenepa' tiyenera kuloledwa kupanga zisankho zabwino pagulu popanda kupangidwa kuti timve ngati achinyengo poyesa kukhala athanzi," Brooks adapitilira muzolemba zake. "Ndikuwona kuti ndikofunikira kugawana nawo ulendowu, monga chikumbutso kuti sitili tokha, sitikhala pamodzi nthawi zonse, ndikuti TONSE ndife ntchito zomwe zikuchitika." (Zogwirizana: Momwe Mungapangire Malo Ophatikizira mu Wellness Space)
Chofunika kwambiri, Brooks amafuna kuti anthu adziwe kuti kuwonda, kubadwa kwa mwana kapena ayi, sikuli mzere komanso kuti mumaloledwa kulakwitsa panjira. "Zili bwino kuwonetsa pakati pa kukula," adalemba, pomaliza zolemba zake. "Simukuyenera kukhala nazo nthawi zonse limodzi."