Kuphunzira Kukonda Thupi Lanu Ndi Kovuta - Makamaka Pambuyo pa Khansa ya M'mawere

Tikamakalamba, timakhala ndi zipsera ndi zotambasulira zomwe zimafotokoza za moyo wokhala bwino. Za ine, nkhaniyi ikuphatikizapo khansa ya m'mawere, kuphwanya kwapadera, komanso kumangidwanso.

Disembala 14, 2012, linali tsiku lomwe lingasinthe moyo wosatha momwe ndimadziwira. Linali tsiku lomwe ndidamva mawu atatu owopsa omwe aliyense akufuna kumva: MULI NDI KHANSA.

Zinali zosasunthika - {textend} Ndimamva ngati kuti miyendo yanga ikomoka. Ndinali ndi zaka 33, mkazi, ndi amayi a anyamata awiri achichepere kwambiri, Ethan wazaka 5 ndi Brady wazaka ziwiri zokha. Koma ndikatha kutsuka mutu wanga, ndidadziwa kuti ndikufunika kachitidwe.

Kupezeka kwanga kunali gawo 1 kalasi 3 ductal carcinoma. Ndidadziwa pafupifupi nthawi yomweyo kuti ndikufuna kuchita mgwirizano wapawiri. Zinali mu 2012, Angelina Jolie asanalengeze poyera nkhondo yake ndi khansa ya m'mawere ndikusankha mastectomy amitundu iwiri. Mosakayikira, aliyense amaganiza kuti ndikupanga chisankho chovuta kwambiri. Komabe, ndinapita ndi matumbo anga ndipo ndinali ndi dokotala wochita opaleshoni wodabwitsa yemwe anavomera kuchita opaleshoniyi, ndipo anachita ntchito yokongola.

Ndinasankha kuchedwa kumanganso mawere. Panthawiyo, ndinali ndisanawone momwe mawonekedwe am'magulu awiri amaonekera. Sindinadziwe zomwe ndingayembekezere ndikachotsa mabandeji kwa nthawi yoyamba. Ndinakhala ndekha m'bafa yanga ndikuyang'ana pagalasi, ndikuwona munthu yemwe sindimamudziwa. Sindinalire, koma ndinamva kutayika kwakukulu. Ndinali ndi malingaliro okonzanso mawere kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anga. Ndinali ndi mankhwala a chemotherapy kwa miyezi ingapo kuti ndilimbane nawo poyamba.

Ndikadutsa chemo, tsitsi langa limakula, ndikumanganso mawere ndikakhala "chomaliza" changa. Ndikadakhala ndimabere kachiwiri ndipo ndikadatha kuyang'ananso pagalasi ndikuwona zakale ine.

Kumapeto kwa Ogasiti 2013, nditatha miyezi chemotherapy komanso maopaleshoni ena angapo pansi pa lamba wanga, ndinali wokonzeka kumanganso mawere. Zomwe amayi ambiri sazindikira - {textend} zomwe sindinazindikire - {textend} ndikuti kumanganso mawere ndi njira yayitali, yopweteka. Zimatenga miyezi ingapo ndikuchita maopaleshoni angapo kuti amalize.

Gawo loyambirira ndi kuchitidwa opareshoni kuti akhazikitse zowonjezera pansi pa bere. Izi ndi zovuta mawonekedwe apulasitiki. Ali ndi madoko azitsulo mkati mwake, ndipo pakapita nthawi, amadzaza zowonjezera ndi madzi kuti amasule minofu. Mukamaliza kukula kwa bere lanu, madokotala amakonza opaleshoni "yosinthana" momwe amachotsera zowonjezera ndikuziika m'malo mwa zikhomo za m'mawere.

Kwa ine, iyi inali imodzi mwa
mphindi zimenezo - {textend} kuwonjezera chilonda china, "tattoo yodziwika," pamndandanda wanga.

Pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo ndikukula, kudzaza, ndi kupweteka, ndinali pafupi kutha kwa ntchito yomanganso mawere. Madzulo ena, ndinayamba kudwala kwambiri ndikudwala malungo. Mwamuna wanga anatiumiriza kuti tipite kuchipatala chakomweko, ndipo pomwe timafika ku ER mtima wanga unali 250. Atangofika, tonse amuna anga ndi ine tinasamutsidwa ndi ambulansi kupita ku Chicago pakati pausiku.

Ndinakhala ku Chicago masiku asanu ndi awiri ndipo ndinamasulidwa patsiku lokumbukira kubadwa kwa mwana wathu wamwamuna wachisanu ndi chimodzi. Patatha masiku atatu ndidachotsedwa othandizira mawere.

Ndidadziwa ndiye kuti kumanganso mawere sikungandithandizire. Sindinkafunanso kuti ndidutse gawo lililonse la njirayi. Sizinali zoyenera kupweteka ndi kusokonezeka kwa ine ndi banja langa. Ndiyenera kuthana ndi zovuta zathupi ndikulandira zomwe ndidatsala nazo - {textend} zipsera ndi zonse.

Poyamba, ndinkachita manyazi ndi thupi langa lopanda bere, lokhala ndi zipsera zazikulu zomwe zinkayenda kuchokera mbali imodzi ya chimango changa kupita mbali inayo. Sindinkadzidalira. Ndinkachita mantha ndi zomwe amuna anga amamva komanso momwe amamvera. Pokhala munthu wodabwitsa momwe alili, adati, "Ndiwe wokongola. Sindinakhalepo mnyamata wa boob, komabe. ”

Kuphunzira kukonda thupi lanu ndi kovuta. Tikamakula ndikukhala ndi ana, timakhalanso ndi zipsera ndi zotambasula zomwe zimafotokoza za moyo wokhala bwino. Popita nthawi, ndimatha kuyang'ana pagalasi ndikuwona zomwe sindinawonepo kale: Zilonda zomwe ndinkachita nazo manyazi zidayamba kukhala ndi tanthauzo lina. Ndinkanyadira komanso ndinali wamphamvu. Ndinkafuna kugawana nkhani yanga ndi zithunzi zanga ndi azimayi ena. Ndinkafuna kuwawonetsa kuti ndife Zambiri kuposa mabala omwe tatsala nawo. Chifukwa kuseli kwa chilonda chilichonse, pali nkhani yopulumuka.

Ndatha kugawana nkhani yanga ndi zipsera zanga ndi azimayi kudera lonseli. Pali kulumikizana kosanenedwa komwe ndili nako ndi amayi ena omwe adutsa khansa ya m'mawere. Khansa ya m'mawere ndi zoyipa matenda. Imaba zambiri kuchokera kwa ambiri.

Ndipo kotero, ndimadzikumbutsa ndekha za izi nthawi zambiri. Ndi mawu ochokera kwa wolemba wosadziwika: "Ndife olimba. Zimatengera zina kuti tigonjetse. Zipsera zilibe kanthu. Izi ndizizindikiro za nkhondo zomwe tapambana. ”

Jamie Kastelic ndi wachinyamata amene wapulumuka khansa ya m'mawere, mkazi, amayi, komanso woyambitsa Spero-hope, LLC. Odwala khansa ya m'mawere ali ndi zaka 33, wapanga ntchito yake kuti auze ena nkhani yake ndi zipsera. Adayenda pa mseu pa New York Fashion Sabata, adawonetsedwa pa Forbes.com, komanso alendo pamabungwe ambiri. Jamie amagwira ntchito ndi Ford ngati Model of Courage Warrior ku Pink komanso ndi Living Beyond Breast Cancer ngati woimira wachinyamata wa 2018-2019. Ali panjira, adakweza madola masauzande ambiri pakufufuza za khansa ya m'mawere ndi kuzindikira.