Nthawi Iliyonse Tikamalankhula Za Chotopetsa Chikhalidwe, Tiyenera Kuphatikizira Anthu Olumala

Zamkati

• Pali chizolowezi chanthawi yayitali cha anthu okhoza kubwereka ku zikhalidwe za anthu Ogontha ndi olumala
• Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani tikachotsa chidziwitso chaumalemu kuchokera kumizu yachikhalidwe cha olumala?
• Ndiyeneranso kudziwa kuti nkhani ya Peterson imapatula mawu a anthu amtundu
• Pomaliza, pamakhala phindu pobwereka chikhalidwe cha olumala - koma kuyenera kukhala kusinthana kofanana

Momwe timawonera mapangidwe adziko lapansi omwe timasankha kukhala - ndikugawana zokumana nazo zokakamiza kumatha kupanga momwe timachitirana wina ndi mnzake, kukhala abwinoko. Uku ndikuwona kwamphamvu.

Monga ambiri, ndidapeza nkhani yaposachedwa ya Buzzfeed ya Anne Helen Peterson, "How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation," zomwe zimafotokozedwanso. Inenso, ndine wosakhutira ndi momwe capitalism yalephera m'badwo wathu. Inenso, ndili ndi vuto kumaliza ntchito ndi ntchito zomwe zimawoneka ngati ziyenera kukhala "zosavuta."

Komabe poyesa kutengera kutopa kwa zaka zikwizikwi, nkhani ya Peterson idasowa kuphatikiza zidziwitso kuchokera pagulu la anthu olumala.

Pali chizolowezi chanthawi yayitali cha anthu okhoza kubwereka ku zikhalidwe za anthu Ogontha ndi olumala

Mwachitsanzo, gulu la mpira limabwerekedwa kuchokera kwa osewera a Gallaudet omwe adakakamira kuti ateteze matimu ena kuti asawaone akusayina. Mabulangete olemera, kachitidwe katsopano kwambiri ka chaka chino, adapangidwa koyamba kuti athandize anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la autism kuthana ndi zothetsa nzeru komanso nkhawa.

Pakadali pano, Peterson amagwiritsa ntchito kulumala monga fanizo. Amalankhula za zomwe "zimativuta", za "kusautsidwa." Amatinso kutopa ndi zaka chikwi "matenda osachiritsika."

Ndipo ngakhale Peterson akupanga zitsanzo kuchokera kwa munthu wolumala, samaphatikiza malingaliro awo, mbiri, kapena mawu. Zotsatira zake, amasokoneza kulimbana kwenikweni kwa anthu olumala monga gawo lakupsinjika kwa zaka zikwizikwi, m'malo mongokhala chizindikiro (komanso chotheka) cha momwe aliri.

Anthu olumala amamva kale kufufutidwa komwe kumatipondereza. Chifukwa chake, pogwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso cha olumala osafunsa olumala, nkhani ya Peterson imathandizira kufufutako.

Chitsanzo choyamba chomwe Peterson amapereka ndi cha munthu yemwe ali ndi ADHD yemwe samatha kulembetsa kuti adzavote munthawi yake.

"Koma malongosoledwe ake - ngakhale, monga adanenera, kulimbana kwake pankhaniyi kudachitika chifukwa cha ADHD yake - kunayambitsa chizolowezi chamakono chazakudya zaka zikwizikwi zakulephera kumaliza ntchito zomwe zimawoneka ngati zofunika," alemba Peterson. "Kula, malingaliro onse akupita. Moyo suli wovuta chonchi. ”

Chomwe chikusowa ndikuvomereza kuti kulephera kumaliza ntchito "zosavuta" ndizofala kwa iwo omwe ali ndi ADHD.

Anthu olumala nthawi zambiri amauzidwa kuti "asamachite mantha." Ndipo sizofanana ndi momwe munthu woledzera amauzidwira kuti "akule." Ngakhale olumala kwambiri kuposa ADHD, monga ogwiritsa ntchito njinga ya olumala, anthu olumala amauzidwa mopepuka kuti "ingoyesani yoga" kapena turmeric kapena kombucha.

Kuchotsa zovuta zenizeni za anthu olumala, ngati kuti titha kungodutsa m'malo osafikika, ndi njira ina yokhoza kuthekera - ndipo kuyesayesa kumvetsetsa anthu olumala pochita ngati kuti tonsefe timakumana ndi mayankho ofanana.

Ngati Peterson akadasunthira nkhani yake mwamphamvu muzochitika za olumala, akadatha kutengapo gawo pazomwe akumana nazozi kuti apitilize kufotokoza momwe miyoyo ya anthu olumala imasamalidwira. Izi, mwina, zitha kuthandiza owerenga ena kuthana ndi malingaliro owopsawa.

Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani tikachotsa chidziwitso chaumalemu kuchokera kumizu yachikhalidwe cha olumala?

Zinthu zambiri zakutopetsa kwa zaka chikwizikwi zomwe Peterson amafotokoza zikufanana ndi zomwe zimachitikira anthu odwala matenda osachiritsika komanso opatsirana pogonana.

Koma kukhala ndi chilema kapena matenda sikumangolekezera ku zowawa, kuletsa, kapena kumva kutopa kwambiri.

Apanso, kupatula olumala munkhaniyi, Peterson amaphonya gawo lofunikira kwambiri: Anthu olumala ali komanso - ndipo ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito yayitali pakusintha kwadongosolo, monga kuyesayesa kopitilira kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala padziko lonse lapansi ndi Disability Integration Act.

Gulu lodziyimira palokha lokhazikitsidwa m'ma 1960 kuti lichepetse kuchepa kwa anthu olumala ndikukakamiza anthu aku America olumala kudzera mu Congress. Kuwonetsa vutoli ndi nyumba zosafikika, olumala adakwera masitepe a Congress.

Peterson akafunsa, "Kufikira kapena m'malo mwa kusintha kwa maboma a capitalist, tingayembekezere bwanji kuchepetsa kapena kupewa - m'malo mongolimbikira - kutopa?" Akusowa mbiri yomwe anthu olumala adapambana kale kusintha kwamachitidwe komwe kungathandize anthu azaka zikwizikwi kutopa.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati kupsyinjika chifukwa chodwala, ogwira ntchito atha kupempha malo okhala pansi pa malamulo a ku America olumala.

Peterson amatchulanso chizindikiro chakupanikizika "kutuluka ziwalo": "Ndidali ndi chizolowezi chomangokhalira ... kuti ndimadzatchedwa 'kutumizira ziwalo.' Ndidalemba china pamndandanda wazomwe ndimayenera kuchita sabata iliyonse, ndipo ' ndimakhala ndikudumphadumpha, sabata limodzi mpaka lotsatira, zikundivutitsa kwa miyezi ingapo. ”

Kwa iwo olumala ndi omwe ali ndi matenda osachiritsika, izi zimadziwika kuti kutayika kwamphamvu ndi "ubongo wa ubongo."

Kulephera kwa Executive kumadziwika ndikovuta kumaliza ntchito zovuta, kuyamba ntchito, kapena kusintha pakati pa ntchito. Ndizofala mu ADHD, autism, ndi mavuto ena azaumoyo.

Chifunga chaubongo chimafotokoza chifunga chazidziwitso chomwe chimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuganiza ndikumaliza ntchito. Ndi chizindikiro cha zovuta monga fibromyalgia, matenda otopa kwambiri / myalgic encephalomyelitis, ukalamba, dementia, ndi ena.

Ngakhale sindikudziwa kuti Peterson ali ndi vuto lililonse (kuyendetsa bwino ntchito kumadziwika kuti kumakulirakulira ndi mavuto monga kupsinjika ndi kusowa tulo), amasowa posaphatikizira malingaliro olumala pakufa ziwalo: Anthu olumala apanga njira za kuthana.

Timatcha malo ogona kapena njira zothanirana ndi ena, nthawi zina, kudzisamalira.

Komabe, m'malo modziwitsidwa ndi zomwe zakumana ndi anthu olumala, Peterson amakana kudzisamalira kwamakono.

"Kudzisamalira kwambiri sikusamala nkomwe: Ndi mafakitale a $ 11 biliyoni omwe cholinga chawo chomaliza sikuchepetsa kupsa mtima," a Peterson akulemba, "koma kupereka njira zowonjezera. Osachepera mumayendedwe ake amakono, kudzisamalira sikoyankho; ndizotopetsa. ”

Ndikuvomereza, kudzisamalira angathe kukhala wotopetsa. Komabe ndizopitilira zomwe Peterson amafotokoza. Kudzisamalira komwe a Peterson akulemba ndi mtundu wothirira womwe udasokoneza anthu, makamaka mabungwe, chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha olumala.

Kudziyang'anira nokha pakulephera kugwira bwino ntchito kuli kawiri:

1. Dzipangireni malo okhala (monga zikumbutso, ntchito zosavuta, kupempha thandizo) kuti mutha kukwaniritsa ntchito zofunika kwambiri.
2. Lekani kudziyembekezera nokha kuchita zinthu zonse, kapena kudzitcha "aulesi" ngati simungathe.

Anthu olumala amadziwa zambiri ngati kuti ndife "aulesi" chifukwa chosakhala "opindulitsa" Sosaite imatiuza nthawi zonse kuti ndife "akatundu" pagulu, makamaka ngati sitingathe kugwira ntchito molingana ndi capitalist.

Mwina pomvera olumala pamitu yotere, anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lomwelo amatha kumvetsetsa kapena kuvomereza zomwe sangathe. Nditalemala kwambiri, zinanditengera zaka zambiri kuti ndizitha kuyenda komanso ayi tiyembekezere ungwiro womwe gulu lathu lamakono likufuna kuti tichite.

Ngati Peterson adafika pagulu la anthu olumala, atha kukhala kuti adatha kuthana ndi kupsa mtima kwake, kapena amadzilandira pakudzivomereza.

Poyankha liwongo lakumva "aulesi," anthu olumala abwezera m'mbuyo, akunena zinthu monga "kukhalapo kwanga ndiko kukana." Tazindikira kuti kufunikira kwathu sikumangirizidwa ku zokolola, ndipo kuphatikiza nkhani yolemala imeneyi ikadapatsa nkhani yoyambirira ndikofunikira kopatsa mphamvu kukweza.

Ndiyeneranso kudziwa kuti nkhani ya Peterson imapatula mawu a anthu amtundu

Amatanthauzira kukhala zaka chikwi ngati "azungu ambiri, makamaka anthu apakati omwe adabadwa pakati pa 1981 ndi 1996." Ogwira ntchito pa Twitter adakankhira kumbuyo nkhaniyi.

Arrianna M. Planey adatumiza mawu poyankha chidacho, '"Kodi' kukhala wachikulire 'ndi chiyani kwa mayi Wakuda yemwe amamuchitira ngati wamkulu kuyambira zaka 8? kuyambira ndili mtsikana. ”

Kuphatikiza apo, Tiana Clark adatumiza mawu kuti Peterson amafufuza "zamibadwo yam'badwo - mbadwo wanga - koma mabatire anga akuda omwe adafa sanaphatikizidwe. Wolembayo amafotokozanso za kukhala 'wosauka' komanso 'waulesi,' koma sakhala ndi mbiri yolemetsa ya zomasulira izi, makamaka potengera mtundu wopikisana pantchito. "

Zambiri mwa zokumana nazo zofunikirazi zitha kuwonedwa m'ma hashtag monga #DisabilityTooWhite ndi #HealthCareWhileColored.

Pomaliza, pamakhala phindu pobwereka chikhalidwe cha olumala - koma kuyenera kukhala kusinthana kofanana

Anthu olimba sangathe kupitiliza kubwereka ku chikhalidwe ndi chilankhulo cha olumala pomwe amatitenga ngati "zolemetsa" Kunena zowona, olumala ali kuthandiza gulu m'njira zenizeni - ndipo izi ziyenera kuvomerezedwa.

Mwakutero, uku ndikuchotsa zopereka za anthu olumala kupita pagulu. Choyipa chachikulu, izi zimakhazikika pamalingaliro omwe anthu abled amadziwa zomwe zimalemala.

Nanga chimachitika ndi chiyani tikasudzula zomwe olumala adakumana nazo? Kulumala kumakhala fanizo chabe, ndipo moyo wolumala umafaniziranso, osati gawo lofunikira mikhalidwe yaumunthu. Pomaliza, Peterson amasowa kwambiri polemba "za ife, popanda ife."

Liz Moore ndiwomenyera ufulu komanso wolemala wokhudzidwa ndi ma neurodevergent. Amakhala pakama pa malo obedwa a Pamunkey mdera la DC. Mutha kuwapeza pa Twitter, kapena werengani zambiri za ntchito yawo pa liminalnest.wordpress.com.