Erotica kwa Akazi: Njira Yotsimikizika Yogonana Bwino
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Timakonda kucheza ndi Stoya-wolemba, woganiza, wogonana pazenera-zazinthu zonse zogonana, maubwenzi, ndi ukazi. M'malo mwake, timakonda kwambiri, tidamufunsa upangiri wake wabwino kwambiri kwa mafunso owerenga okhudzana ndi kugonana owerenga athu. Chilichonse chomwe mungakonde kwambiri, Stoya ali ndi yankho kwa inu. Choyamba? Wowerenga yemwe amafuna kudzidziwa bwino (ngati mukudziwa zomwe tikutanthauza) koma sakudziwa komwe angayambire.
Q: Sindinayambe ndakhalapo pa zolaula (ngakhale ndikadakhala kuti ndidalemba pa iPhone). Komabe, ndikufuna kupeza njira zodzidziwira ndekha moyenera pakugonana: zomwe zimandipangitsa kuti ndiziyika ndikunditembenuzira, zinthu zatsopano zoti ndiyesere. Ndimafunsa ngati mungafotokozere zolemba zilizonse zachiwerewere, poganiza kuti ndi poyambira.
Yankho: Nkhani ya Nicholson Baker Nyumba ya Mabowo ndizodabwitsa kwambiri. Buku lapaderali ndilodziwika chifukwa Baker amalingalira zochitika zomwe zimapangidwa mwaluso kwambiri ndipo zimawoneka bwino pantchito zongopeka zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Malo Osungira Nkhani Zogonana ku Alt atha kukhala zovuta kuti muziyenda, koma ndi nkhokwe yosatha ya nkhani zolaula pamutu uliwonse pansi pa dzuwa. Ndikutanthauza aliyense nkhani, choncho konzekerani kugundana ndi zinthu zomwe zingakusokonezeni kapena kukukhumudwitsani. Pachikhalidwe chambiri, mabuku achikondi ali ndi zochitika zokometsera zachikondi, ndi za Anne Rice The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy (lomwe lidasindikizidwa koyambirira kwa A. N. Roquelaure) ndi mulingo wabwino wakale wa BDSM.
Palinso anthu angapo ochita mafilimu achikulire omwe adalembapo za zochitika zawo zakugonana (ponse pakompyuta ndi kunja) m'njira zomwe zimayambira zachilendo mpaka zachipatala mpaka zachiwerewere. Muyenera kukumba pa intaneti kapena pamabulogu anu, koma onani mabulogu a Kayden Kross, Christian, ndi James Deen (Chenjezo: NSFW), ndi mitundu yonse yazinthu zomwe Jiz Lee ndi Courtney Trouble adalemba.
Pomaliza, musaiwale kuti china chake sichiyenera kutanthauziridwa kuti ndi chololedwa kapena chofuna kugonana kuti mutsegule. Mutha kupeza kena kake kodzutsa zolembedwako pabokosi lazinthu. Sindinachitepo, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti kuthekera kulibe. [Dinani apa kuti muwerenge nkhani yonse ku Refinery29!]