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Sindinali mwana "wonenepa", koma ndikukumbukira kuti ndimalemera mapaundi 10 abwino kuposa omwe anzanga akusukulu adachita. Sindinachitepo masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimagwiritsa ntchito chakudya kuti ndichepetse malingaliro ndi malingaliro osasangalatsa. Chilichonse chokoma, chokazinga kapena cholimba chimakhala ndi mphamvu yokometsera, ndipo ndimakhala chete, wosangalala komanso wopanda nkhawa ndikadya. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, kudya mopambanitsa kunachititsa kuti ndinenepe, zimene zinandichititsa kukhala womvetsa chisoni ndi wopanda chiyembekezo.

Ndinayamba kudya zakudya zoyamba ndili ndi zaka 12, ndipo pamene ndinafika zaka zapakati pa khumi, ndinali nditayesa zakudya zambirimbiri, zoletsa chilakolako cha kudya ndi mankhwala otsekemera popanda kupambana. Kufuna kwanga thupi langwiro kunatenga moyo wanga. Maonekedwe anga ndi kulemera kwanga ndizo zonse zomwe ndimaganizira, ndipo ndidasokoneza banja langa ndi abwenzi ndi chidwi changa chotere.

Pofika zaka 19, ndinali nditalemera mapaundi 175 ndipo ndinazindikira kuti ndatopa ndikulimbana ndi kulemera kwanga. Ndinkafuna kukhala wathanzi komanso wathanzi kuposa momwe ndimafunira kuti ndikhale wowonda. Mothandizidwa ndi makolo anga, ndinalowa mu pulogalamu yothandizira odwala matendawa ndikayamba pang'onopang'ono kuphunzira zida zomwe ndimafunikira kuti ndithe kudya.

Pomwe ndimalandira chithandizo, ndidaonana ndi dokotala yemwe adandithandiza kuti ndisiye kudziona ngati wopanda ntchito. Ndidaphunzira kuti zochitika zina, monga kulankhula ndi kulemba zakukhosi kwanga, zinali zothandiza kwambiri komanso zothandiza kuthana ndi nkhawa zanga kuposa kudya mopitirira muyeso. Kwa zaka zingapo, pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndinayamba kusiya makhalidwe anga oipa kale.

Monga mbali ya chithandizo changa, ndinaphunzira kufunika kodya monga gwero la mafuta m’thupi langa, m’malo mondichiritsa maganizo. Ndinayamba kudya zakudya zopatsa thanzi, monga zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba. Ndinawona kuti ndikadya bwino, ndimamva bwino.

Ndinayambanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe poyamba anali kungoyenda m’malo moyendetsa galimoto nthawi iliyonse imene ndingakwanitse. Posakhalitsa, ndinayamba kuyenda maulendo ataliatali komanso mothamanga kwambiri, zomwe zinandithandiza kuti ndikhale wolimba mtima komanso wotsimikiza. Mapaundi adayamba kutsika pang'onopang'ono, koma popeza nthawi iyi ndidachita mwanzeru, adakhalabe. Ndinayamba masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi a yoga ndipo ndinaphunzitsidwapo ndikumaliza marathoni othandizira anthu odwala matenda a khansa. Ndataya mapaundi 10 pachaka pazaka zinayi zikubwerazi ndipo ndakhala ndikuchepetsa thupi kwazaka zopitilira zisanu ndi chimodzi.

Ndikayang’ana m’mbuyo, ndimazindikira kuti sindinangosintha mmene thupi langa limaonekera, komanso ndasintha mmene ndimaganizira za thupi langa. Tsiku lililonse ndimakhala ndi nthawi yodzisamalira ndikudzizungulira ndimaganizo abwino komanso anthu omwe amandiyamikira chifukwa cha zomwe ndili mkati osati momwe ndimawonekera. Sindimayang'ana pa zofooka za thupi langa kapena ndikufuna kusintha gawo lililonse. M'malo mwake, ndaphunzira kukonda minofu ndi mapindikidwe aliwonse. Sindine wowonda, koma ndine mtsikana woyenera, wokondwa, wopindika yemwe ndimayenera kukhala.

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