Momwe Mungachitire ndi Bwana Wowopsa

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Pankhani yolimbana ndi bwana woyipa, mwina simukufuna kungokhalira kupilira, akuti kafukufuku watsopano wofalitsidwa munyuzipepalayi Psychology ya anthu.

Ofufuza adapeza kuti antchito omwe anali ndi oyang'anira adani - omwe amawafotokozera kuti ndi omwe amakalipira, kunyoza, ndi kuopseza antchito awo - amakhala ndi nkhawa zochepa m'maganizo, kukhutira ndi ntchito, komanso kudzipereka kwambiri kwa abwana awo pamene akulimbana ndi mabwana awo ankhanza kusiyana ndi ogwira ntchito omwe sanawathandize. osabwezera. (Onani Zochitika 11 Zogwira Ntchito, Zathetsedwa!)

Pachifukwa ichi, kubwezera kunatanthauzidwa ndi "kunyalanyaza abwana awo, kuchita ngati sakudziwa zomwe abwana awo akunena, ndikupereka khama lokhalokha," nyuzipepalayo ikufotokoza.

Ngati mukudabwa ndi zomwe zapezazi, simuli nokha. "Tisanachite kafukufukuyu, ndimaganiza kuti sipangakhale zoyipa kwa ogwira ntchito omwe abwezera mabwana awo, koma sizomwe tidapeza," atero a Bennett Tepper, wolemba wamkulu pa kafukufukuyu komanso pulofesa woyang'anira ndi anthu ogwira ntchito ku The Ohio State Yunivesite ya Fisher College ya Bizinesi.

Chodzikanira chachikulu: Ichi si chilolezo chopita nonse Mabwana Owopsa muofesi yanu. Chotenga sikuti antchito ayenera kubwezera zomwe abwana awo akuchita ndi nkhanza zawo, Tepper adati munyuzipepala. "Yankho lenileni ndikuchotsa mabwana amwano," adatero. (Apa, Malangizo Abwino Kwambiri Ochokera Kwa Abwana Akazi.)

Ngakhale ambiri aife sitingathe kuphatikizira zala zathu ndikuchotsa mabwana athu omwe si abwino, pali njira zomwe mungalimbikitsire mtima wanu ndikuwongolera ubale wanu ndi abwana anu. Yambani ndi izi Njira 10 Zokhalira Osangalala Pantchito Popanda Kusintha Ntchito.

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