Momwe Mungagulire Toyi Yogonana Yotetezeka Ndi Makhalidwe Abwino, Malinga ndi Akatswiri

Zamkati

• 1. Pezani mtundu wa choseweretsa choseweretsa chomwe mukufuna.
• 2. Chitani kafukufuku pang'ono.
• 3. Khazikitsani mtengo wanu.
• 4. Onetsetsani kuti ndi zinthu zoteteza thupi.
• Kutha
• Pang'ono porous
• Osati porous
• 5. Onjezani zowonjezera ku ngolo!
• Muli ndi mafunso ena okhuza kugula chidole chogonana?
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Pamlingo Wowopsya wa m'modzi ku menyu ku Cheesecake Factory, kugula chidole chogonana ndi, ngati, 11. Koma, ndizotheka kukhala ndi chisangalalo chochuluka kuposa chidutswa cha Oreo cheesecake (ndipo ndichosaleleka kwambiri), ndi ndithudi mtengo.

Koma mumayamba kuti? Pano. Pitani pansi kuti mupeze zinthu zofunika kuzikumbukira musanatengere chidole chogonana kunyumba, malingana ndi ma sexperts-kuphatikiza mtundu wa choseweretsa choseweretsa kwa munthu aliyense kapena mkhalidwe uliwonse, maupangiri osankhira zinthu zotetezedwa mthupi, ndi momwe muyenera kuchitira yembekezerani kulipira chinthu chosangalatsa. Kumbukirani izi mukagula zoseweretsa zogonana koyamba, komanso zilizonse zomwe zimabwera pambuyo pake!

1. Pezani mtundu wa choseweretsa choseweretsa chomwe mukufuna.

Kuchokera pazoseweretsa zokopa mpaka ma vibes omwe amawoneka ngati maikolofoni, mapulagi kuti asisitere ma prostate, pali mitundu yambiri yazoseweretsa zakugonana monga momwe ziliri mbale pazosankha za Cheesecake Factory. Musanayambe kuyang'ana, yesetsani kuganizira za mtundu wa chidole chogonana chomwe mukufuna kugula. Bukuli pamitundu ikuluikulu 12 ya Zoseweretsa Zakugonana ndi malo abwino kuyamba.

2. Chitani kafukufuku pang'ono.

Mumapukuta kudzera ku Reddit ndikuwunikiranso musanapange mankhwala atsopano osamalira khungu-bwanji kugula zogulitsa zogonana kuyenera kukhala kosiyana? Kuwerenga ndemanga zoseweretsa zakugonana pa intaneti komanso / kapena kupita ku shopu yogonana IRL iyeneranso kukhala gawo la njirayi.

"Ndikupangira kuti muwerenge ndemanga zapaintaneti monga momwe mungachitire musanasungitse Airbnb," atero a Dominnique Karetsos, katswiri wazogonana ku MysteryVibe. Kuphunzira pa intaneti kumakupatsani mwayi wowona zomwe zili kunjako, kuphunzira zomwe anthu ena adakumana nazo, ndikukupatsirani ~chovala chosawoneka ~ ngati muli ndi mantha kugawana zomwe mukufuna (ngakhale ndi akatswiri ophunzira pa malo ogulitsa zogonana), akutero. .

Izi zati, kuyang'ana m'sitolo kuli ndi zabwino zina. "Ogwira ntchito odziwa akhoza kuyankha mafunso pomwepo ndikuthandizani kusankha," akutero a Karetsos. Masiku ano, ambiri omwe amagulitsa nawo m'mashopu ogonana ndi ochezeka, okonda thupi, okonda zogonana, ndipo amadziwa mozama za zinthu zomwe zaperekedwa. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa ngati vibe X kapena vibe Y ndi yabwino kwa inu? Funsani wantchito. Mukufuna kudziwa ngati choseweretsa chili chotetezeka mthupi musanawerenge kumbuyo? Funsani wogwira ntchitoyo. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zidule zaukadaulo zokukweza zomwe mumakumana nazo ndi chidole, akutero.

Pomaliza, pali phindu lowonjezera lotha kuterokukhudza zidole. Malo ogulitsa zogonana nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zoseweretsa zoyeserera. Gwirani ana amenewo mmanja mwanu. Sakani mabatani onse. "Dzipatseni chilolezo kuti mulole kutembenuka kwanu kutsogolere posankha zomwe mukufuna kugula. Pezani chinthu chomwe mungachiwone kuti mukumva bwino ndikukubweretserani chisangalalo, "akutero Karetsos.

3. Khazikitsani mtengo wanu.

Osasokoneza molakwika mtengo wamtengo wapatali. Mtengo wamitengo yayitali sikutanthauza chiwonetsero chapamwamba kwambiri kapena / kapena zina zoseweretsa. Mwachitsanzo, pulagi iyi ya 24K $ 2,500 + yojambulidwa ndi Lelo itha kukhala yachiwerewere AF koma, moyenera, imagwiranso ntchito ngati pulagi ina iliyonse yoteteza thupi. Poganizira izi, palibe chifukwa choti muponye ndalama zanu pachoseweretsa chanu choyamba kugonana. Pansipa, Amy Boyajian, woyambitsa nawo komanso CEO wa Wild Flower, malo ogulitsira zoseweretsa zogonana pa intaneti, akuphwanya zomwe mungayembekezere pamitengo yosiyanasiyana.

Zoseweretsa zosakwana $ 50: Izi ndizoseweretsa zazikulu zoyambira, koma mwina sizingadutse zaka zingapo. "Pali zinthu zina zabwino kwambiri pamitengoyi zomwe zitha kuyambitsa chidwi chatsopano," akutero Boyajian. (Poyerekeza, vibrator yanga yomwe ndimakonda nthawi zonse ndi $50.)

Zoseweretsa pakati pa $50 ndi $100: Pano, mupeza chidole cholimba chomwe chidzakukhalitsani zaka zingapo. "Mupeza zoseweretsa zabwino zomwe zili ndi zinthu zabwino kwambiri, popanda mtengo wamtengo wapatali," akutero Boyajian. (Enby, vibrator wosalowerera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ali mkati mwamitunduyi $ 75 momwemonso Pom by Dame, yomwe ndi $ 95.)

Zoseweretsa zoposa $ 100: Tsopano mukuyamba ~ zidole zogonana ~ zogonana. "Zoseweretsa izi zimakhala ndi zitsimikizo zokulirapo, zinthu zambiri zabwino monga zowonera, mapulogalamu olumikizidwa ndi Bluetooth, ndi malo osungirako zinthu zakale," akutero Boyajian. Ngati mukudziwa mtundu wanji wazomverera zomwe mumakonda, kuyika ndalama mu choseweretsa chapamwamba kwambiri chomwe chitha kupitilira zaka zogwiritsidwa ntchito ndichinthu chachikulu. Kodi mwatsimikiza kuti mumakonda zoseweretsa za clit suction? Onani Sona yolembedwa ndi Lelo (Buy It, $149, lelo.com). Kukonda zoseweretsa zogonana zachitsulo? Dziyeseni ndi chitsulo chosapanga dzimbiri Eleven Dildo wolemba Njoy (Gulani, $ 300, wildflowersex.com).

Zoseweretsa zoposa $ 1000: Inde, pulagi ya karat butt yagolide yomwe tatchulayi si *yokha* chidole chowononga ndalama zambiri. Pali vibrator ya $ 15K Inez ya Lelo (Buy It, $ 15,000, lelo.com) yopangidwa ndi mbale yagolide ya karat 24 ndi $ 1,500 The Cowgirl (Buy It, $ 1,500, ridethecowgirl.com) womwe ndi makina ogonana opangidwa kuti azifanizira kulowerera .

4. Onetsetsani kuti ndi zinthu zoteteza thupi.

PSA: Chifukwa amagawidwa ngati "zinthu zachilendo," zoseweretsa zogonana sizolamulidwa ndi FDA. Izi zikutanthauza kuti zili kwa ogula (inu!) ndi makampani kuonetsetsa kuti ali otetezeka thupi. Kuphatikiza apo, chitetezo cha thupi ndi gulu lina lofotokozedwa molakwika; kwenikweni, zikutanthauza kuti chidolecho chimapangidwa ndi zinthu zomwe mutha kuziyeretsa kwathunthu. (Zokhudzana: Chidole Chanu Chogonana Chingakhale Choopsa)

Zoseweretsa zogonana nthawi zambiri zimapangidwa ndi mitundu itatu yayikulu yazida: porous, non-porous, komanso porous pang'ono. Nkhani yoipa ndiyakuti mutha kupeza chimodzi mwazomwe mungakhale oyera kwathunthu. (Eya.) ICYDK, porous ndi njira ina yonenera kuti "mabakiteriya amatha kulowa ndi kukhalamo." Pachifukwachi, kusankha kwanu ndi chidole chopangidwa ndi zinthu zopanda phulusa. Gwiritsani ntchito bukhuli kuti mudziwe zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana.

Kutha

Zipangizo: Polyvinyl chloride (PVC), mphira wa thermoplastic (TPR), thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), mphira wa jelly, ndi latex

Ndikwanzeru kupewa izi—makamaka zidole za raba za jeli, zomwe zimakhala ndi ma phthalates omwe amawononga thupi. "Zoseweretsa izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofewa komanso ngati odzola, komanso zimakhala ndi fungo lapadera," akutero Boyajian. "Simungathe kuyeretsa zoseweretsa izi mokwanira, kuti athe kugwira mabakiteriya omwe angayambitse matenda kapena kukwiyitsa pamzere." Tsoka ilo, zina mwazinthuzi zimagwiritsidwabe ntchito ndi makampani opanga zoseweretsa zogonana chifukwa ndizotsika mtengo kupanga.

Pang'ono porous

Zipangizo: Chikopa, kristalo, ndi elastomer

"Izi ndi zotetezeka kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito nokha, koma ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mosamala kapena ndi chotchinga panthawi yamasewera ogwirizana ngati mulibe madzi," akutero Boyajian. (FYI: Kuphatikizika kwamadzimadzi kumatanthauza kuti inu ndi mnzanu mwasankha kusinthanitsa madzi amthupi.) Nthawi zambiri, zoseweretsa izi ndi za anthu omwe iyi si rodeo yawo yoyamba yogonana. (Zogwirizana: Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Zokhudza Matenda Opatsirana Pakamwa).

Mwachitsanzo, ena okonda zoseweretsa zachiwerewere amadzimva kuti ali ndi ~ vibration ~ (monga, mwauzimu) akamachita maliseche ndi zoseweretsa zakugonana, pomwe anthu ena omwe amasangalala ndi zingwe zogonana atha kuyeserera ndi zingwe zachikopa. Koma kuti mugwiritse ntchito koyamba, gwiritsitsani zoseweretsa zopanda porous ndikubwerera kuzinthu izi m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kuphatikiza. K? (Dziwani zambiri za zingwe pamasewera apa.)

Osati porous

Zipangizo:Silicone, chitsulo chosapanga dzimbiri, galasi, Pyrex, ndi mapulasitiki a ABS

Tiyeni tibwereze: Mukufuna chidole chosakhala chonyansa. Ndi zinthu ziti zopanda phulusa zabwino kwambiri? Ogonana ambiri amati silicone. Zowona, zimatengera zomwe mukuyang'ana. Silicone idzakhala ndi silky kumva kwa izo ndi kukhala pricier smidge kuposa ABS pulasitiki, amenenso ndi otetezeka thupi koma zochepa zofewa kukhudza.Apanso, magalasi ndi chitsulo azikhala opindulitsa, koma opanda mikangano.

Chotengera apa: "Ngakhale mutakhala ndi bajeti, musasokoneze chitetezo chanu. Pali zoseweretsa zamtengo wapatali, zotetezeka, zopanda porous zomwe zilipo," akutero Boyajian.

5. Onjezani zowonjezera ku ngolo!

"Musaiwale zowonjezera!" akutero Boyajian. "Lube, makondomu, ndi kusunga ndi zinthu zofunika kuziganizira powonjezera kugula kwanu pamene mukunyamula chidole chanu."

Lube, makamaka, ikhoza kukhala kusiyana pakati pa chochita chabwino ndi chidole chanu ndi chachikulu. "Zitha kupangitsa kuti chilichonse chogonana chikhale chosangalatsa," atero a Sarah Sloane, omwe amaphunzitsa za kugonana komanso maubwenzi, omwe akhala akuphunzitsa makalasi azoseweretsa zachiwerewere ku Good Vibrations and Pleasure Chest kuyambira 2001. (Hei, pali chifukwa ~ the wetter the better ~ anakhala kugonana mawu achidule.)

Posewera kumatako, silicone yochokera ku lube ndi yabwino chifukwa nthawi zambiri imakhala nthawi yayitali; Komabe, sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi zoseweretsa za silikoni. "Mafuta ambiri opangidwa ndi ma silicone amalumikizana ndi choseweretsa, ndikupotoza mawonekedwe ake," akutero Boyajian. Izi zati, pali mafuta apamwamba kwambiri osakanikirana ndi madzi omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi zoseweretsa zopangidwa ndi silicone. "Poyesa, ikani pang'ono chidole chomwe simugwiritsa ntchito molunjika (monga maziko) ndipo chizikhala kwa mphindi zochepa. Ngati palibe chosintha, ndibwino kupita."

Kapena, sankhani mafuta opangira madzi, omwe nthawi zonse amagwirizana ndi zidole za silicone, ndipo ndizosavuta kuyeretsa mapepala ndi zovala, akutero Boyajian. (Onani zambiri: Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Zokhudza Lube).

Palinso mafuta opangira aloe ndi mafuta opangira mafuta. Izi sizodziwika kwambiri ndipo zimatha kuuma mwachangu kuposa mafuta a silicone, koma zimatengera zomwe mumakonda. Ingokumbukirani kuti mafuta opangira mafuta (kuphatikiza mafuta a kokonati!) Sagwirizana ndi lalabala, ndipo amatha kupanga zotchingira (monga makondomu) kukhala zosagwira ntchito. Yikes. (Zogwirizana: Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Musanagwiritse Ntchito Mafuta a Kokonati Monga Lube)

Koma yosungirako? Sizitero kwenikweni nkhani. Ingokumbukirani kuti ngati simugula chikwama chapadera kapena thumba la chidole chanu, mudzafunikiranso choseweretsa ndi madzi ofunda komanso sopo musanaigwiritse ntchito. (Zokhudzana: Njira Yabwino Kwambiri Yoyeretsera Zoseweretsa Zanu Zogonana)

Muli ndi mafunso ena okhuza kugula chidole chogonana?

Pitani ku shopu yogonana yakwanuko ngati muli nayo! Ndipo ngati simungathe kupita ku sitolo, nthawi zonse mungawaimbire foni. Mmodzi mwa akatswiri awo adzakhala wofunitsitsa kukuthandizani. Yesani Kugwedezeka Kwabwino, The Pleasure Chest, ndi Babeland kuti mulankhule ndi ogulitsa mwachindunji, ndi Unbound Babes kapena Wild Flower kuti muthandizidwe ndi imelo.

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