Mmene Maganizo Anu pa Ukwati Amakhudzira Ubale Wanu

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Posachedwapa, Angelina Jolie adavomereza poyankhulana kuti sanaganizepo kuti angayambe kukondana.

"Popeza munachokera kunyumba yosweka-mumavomereza kuti zinthu zina zimakhala ngati nthano, ndipo simukuziyang'ana," adalongosola. Ndiyeno, ndithudi, iye anakumana Brad Pitt, ndipo zina zonse zikulemba, kulera, komanso mgwirizano. Koma kodi malingaliro ake odana ndi chikondi adamuthandiza kapena adamupweteketsa mwayi mpaka pano mosangalala?

Ngati mumachokera kunyumba yosweka kapena mwakhala ndi zovuta zina m'mbiri yaubwenzi wanu, ndizachilengedwe kukhala osadzipereka, atero a Danielle Dowling, Ph.D., wophunzitsa ubale wa ku Los Angeles. "Mukasiya mantha anu osawasanthula, atha kukuvutitsani."

Koma ngati maubale amangobwerera kumbuyo kuzinthu zina m'moyo wanu, kapena muli ndi malingaliro oti "sindine wokwatiwa" (ndipo malingaliro anu ndiowona), malingaliro anu atha kuthandiza kubweretsa mtundu wa kulumikizana komwe mukufuna , atero a Vicky Barrios, othandizira ku New York. Ngati simukuyang'ana cholinga chotsirizira, mutha kukhala pachibwenzi ndi wina chifukwa choti mukufuna kukhala nawo, akufotokoza Barrios. Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi amuna osiyanasiyana, kufufuza momwe zimakhalira kukhala wosakwatiwa, kapena kukhala ndi chibwenzi chokhalitsa ndi njira zonse zodziwira zomwe zimakupindulitsani m'malo mochita zomwe mukuganiza kuti muyenera kuchita. "Ndi m'zaka zaposachedwa pomwe anthu ayang'ana paukwati ngati chida chothandizira kukula ndi kukula kwauzimu. Posachedwapa mzaka zana zapitazi, ukwati udali gulu lazachuma komanso lachuma," akufotokoza Dowling.

Zachidziwikire, monga Jolie akuwonetsera, malingaliro-ndi malingaliro-zimatha kusintha pakapita nthawi. Nthawi zonse lolani kuthekera-ngakhale mukuganiza kuti mukumvetsetsa komwe mwayimilira.

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