Funsani Akatswiri: Kodi David Beckham Akunena Zoona za Pacifiers?

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• "Pazaka zopitilira 4, ana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala opewetsa ululu nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto la mano, ndipo amatha kukhala ndi zovuta zina pakulankhula komanso kuphunzira chilankhulo."
  Wolemba Ben Michaelis, Ph.D.
• "Monga dokotala wa mano, ndili ndi uthenga wabwino: Zizolowezi zoyamwa ziwombankhanga ndi zotetezera zimangokhala vuto zikapitilira kwa nthawi yayitali."
  '' - Misee Harris, DDD
• "Kuyankhula 'mozungulira' pacifier kumakhudza kutanthauzira kolondola komanso kumveka bwino. Ndimauza makolo kuti aganizire ngati angalankhule ndi chinthu chofanana naye mkamwa mwawo! ”
  - Sherry Artemenko, M.A.
• “M'masiku amoyo wonse, ubwana waung'ono ndiye zenera laling'ono kwambiri. Ana mwachibadwa amasiya izi akakhala okonzeka. ”
  - Barbara Desmarais
• "Ndikukhulupirira kuti Harper apita kwa dotolo wamankhwala wodziwika bwino yemwe amauza banjali bwino kuposa anthu za kuopsa kwa madamu, mabinki, zida zankhondo."
  - Ryan A. Bell
• "Kugwiritsa ntchito ma pacifiers maola ambiri patsiku, tsiku lililonse, kumatha kusokoneza kukula kwa chilankhulo, magwiridwe antchito am'kamwa, komanso kukhazikitsa njira zodziyimira panokha zotonthoza komanso kupirira mwana aliyense."
  - Mayra Mendez, Ph.D.

Kutchuka kuli ndi zovuta zake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndinu wotchuka ngati David Beckham, simungatenge mwana wanu wamkazi wazaka 4 kupita pagulu ndi pacifier mkamwa mwake osachita chidwi padziko lonse lapansi.

Kusankha kwaubwenzi kwa nthano ya mpira wazaka 40 ndi mkazi wake Victoria, wopanga mafashoni komanso wakale wa Spice Girl, adawonetsedwa koyamba mu Daily Mail koyambirira sabata ino. Nyuzipepala ya ku Britain inanena kuti kulola mwana wa msinkhu wa Harper Beckham kugwiritsa ntchito pacifier kungamutsegule ku mano komanso nkhani zolankhula. Malinga ndi American Academy of Pediatrics, pacifiers ayenera kukhumudwitsidwa atakwanitsa zaka 4.

Posh ndi Becks afotokoza malingaliro awo momveka bwino: Amati si ntchito ya wina aliyense momwe iwo kapena aliyense amalerera mwana. Koma kodi akatswiri azamankhwala ndi chitukuko cha ana amaganiza chiyani? Kodi ndizolakwika kuti ana omwe amatha kuyenda ndikuyankhula kuti azigwiritsa ntchito pacifier?

"Pazaka zopitilira 4, ana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala opewetsa ululu nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto la mano, ndipo amatha kukhala ndi zovuta zina pakulankhula komanso kuphunzira chilankhulo."
Wolemba Ben Michaelis, Ph.D.

"Zachidziwikire, ili ndi chisankho chaumwini. Nthawi zambiri, kuyamwa pacifiers ndichinthu chabwino. Makanda ochepera miyezi isanu ndi umodzi omwe amayamwa ma pacifiers ali pachiwopsezo chochepa cha SIDS [matenda obadwa mwadzidzidzi a khanda]. American Academy of Pediatrics imalimbikitsa kuyamwitsa ana pacifiers azaka zapakati pa 6 ndi 12 miyezi. Kuchokera pamaganizidwe, ma pacifiers atha kukhala chinthu chothandiza pakadali pano chomwe chimathandiza ana kudzitonthoza ndi kuwalimbikitsa, akatswiri ambiri amisala yama ana amakonda kuthandiza ana omwe amafunikira, mpaka azaka 3 kapena 4. Opitilira zaka 4 , ana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito pacifiers amakhala ndi mavuto amano ambiri, ndipo atha kukhala ndi mavuto ena pakulankhula komanso chilankhulo. Zingatanthauzenso mavuto ena okhudzana ndi kukondana omwe angafunike kuthetsedwa. ”

Ben Michaelis, Ph.D., ndi psychologist psychology komanso blogger komanso wokamba zolimbikitsa, komanso wolemba "Your Next Big Thing." Pitani ake webusayiti kapena mumutsatire pa Twitter @DrBenMichaelis.

"Monga dokotala wa mano, ndili ndi uthenga wabwino: Zizolowezi zoyamwa ziwombankhanga ndi zotetezera zimangokhala vuto zikapitilira kwa nthawi yayitali."
'' - Misee Harris, DDD

"Chithunzicho chitayamba kuwonekera, mwadzidzidzi aliyense adakhala katswiri wa mano. Nanga bwanji kupuma? Mwana aliyense amakula mosiyana, ndipo palibe njira yosavuta yoweruzira zomwe zili zoyenera kwa mwana wa munthu wina pazaka zake zokha. Monga dotolo wamano wa ana, ndili ndi uthenga wabwino: Zizolowezi zoyamwa ziwombankhanga ndi zopumira nthawi zambiri zimangokhala vuto zikapitilira nthawi yayitali. Mosasamala za msinkhu wa mwana wanu, ndikulangiza kwambiri mpweya wokwanira wopumira, womwe umalola mpweya kuzungulira. Izi zimachepetsa kukula kwa chizolowezi choyamwa cha mwana ndikuchepetsa chiopsezo chakukula ndi mavuto amakulidwe.

Ana ambiri amasiya zizolowezi zawo pawokha, koma ngati akadali oyamwa atadutsa zaka zitatu, chida chazolowera chitha kulimbikitsidwa ndi dokotala wa mano ngati njira yomaliza. Koma musalakwitse - zipangizozi zimalumikizidwa ndi zotchinga zakumbuyo, kuletsa chinthu chilichonse kulowa mkamwa. Koyamba, izi zimabweretsa vuto la ukhondo wamano. Kwina, ndawonapo ana akupeza njira zoyamwitsa pacifiers awo kapena kusintha chinthu china ngakhale chida chamagetsi m'malo mwake. ”

Misee Harris, DDD. ndi katswiri wamankhwala azamasewera komanso ana, komanso wolemba mabulogu amoyo. Pitani patsamba lake kapena mumutsatire pa Twitter pa @sexiyest.

"Kuyankhula 'mozungulira' pacifier kumakhudza kutanthauzira kolondola komanso kumveka bwino. Ndimauza makolo kuti aganizire ngati angalankhule ndi chinthu chofanana naye mkamwa mwawo! ”
- Sherry Artemenko, M.A.

“Ndingakhumudwitse kugwiritsa ntchito zida zopewera phokoso ndili ndi zaka zitatu kapena kupitilira apo chifukwa ana akuphunzira mwachangu komanso kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo pochita. Kulankhula 'mozungulira' pacifier kumakhudza kutanthauzira kolondola komanso kumveka bwino. Ndimauza makolo kuti aganizire ngati angayankhule ndi chinthu chofanana naye mkamwa mwawo! Ana sangakhale olondola pakulankhula kwawo ndi milomo yawo, monga kukhudza nsonga ya lilime lawo padenga pakamwa pawo kuti amve 't' kapena 'd'. Amatha kukhumudwa akamamvedwa, motero amalankhula zochepa. ”

Sherry Artemenko ndi katswiri wolankhula chilankhulo komanso mlangizi wa zoseweretsa wodziwa bwino ana asukulu zam'masukulu oyambira komanso kusekondale omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera. Pitani patsamba lake kapena mumutsatire pa Twitter @playonwordscom.

“M'masiku amoyo wonse, ubwana waung'ono ndiye zenera laling'ono kwambiri. Ana mwachibadwa amasiya izi akakhala okonzeka. ”
- Barbara Desmarais

"M'malingaliro mwanga, makolo nthawi zambiri amakhala ofunitsitsa kuti aletse zinthu monga pacifiers, zofunda zachitetezo, mabotolo, kapena china chilichonse chokhazika mtima pansi. Sindine katswiri wazamalankhulidwe, dokotala, kapena katswiri wamaganizidwe, koma pazaka zanga 25 ndikugwira ntchito ndi makolo, sindimvanso za kuwonongeka kulikonse komwe kwachitika chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zinthu izi kwanthawi yayitali. Mnzanga wapamtima amalola ana ake onse kukhala ndi pacifiers mpaka atakwanitsa zaka 4, ndipo ndikukuwuzani kuti onse ndi omaliza maphunziro aku yunivesite omwe ali ndi ntchito yabwino ndipo sanakhalepo ndi vuto lakulankhula. Mwana m'modzi amafunikira zolimba, koma pafupifupi ana onse amalimba mtima tsopano. Ndikuganiza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zowonetsera ndi makanda ndi ana aang'ono ndichinthu chachikulu kwambiri.

Mukakhala ndi ana ndipo mutha kuyang'ana m'mbuyo mwa zina mwazinthu zomwe mumadandaula nazo, mumayamba kudzifunsa kuti: 'Chifukwa chiyani ndimathamangira kuti iye akule?' Munthawi ya moyo wonse, koyambirira ubwana ndi zenera laling'ono kwambiri. Mwachibadwa ana amasiya zinthu zonsezi akakhala okonzeka. ”

Barbara Desmarais ndi mphunzitsi wa kulera wokhala ndi zaka 25, wokhala ndi mbiri ya maphunziro aubwana. Pitani patsamba lake kapena mumutsatire pa Twitter @Coachbarb.

"Ndikukhulupirira kuti Harper apita kwa dotolo wamankhwala wodziwika bwino yemwe amauza banjali bwino kuposa anthu za kuopsa kwa madamu, mabinki, zida zankhondo."
- Ryan A. Bell

"Ndikuyang'ana mwana wamkazi wazaka 4 wa David Beckham ndi pacifier ndipo sindikuganiza ... kalikonse. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti Harper apita kwa dotolo wamankhwala wodziwika bwino yemwe amauza banjali bwino kuposa anthu za kuwopsa kwa ziphuphu, mabinki, zida zankhondo ... zilizonse. M'malingaliro mwanga, wopezera mtendere agwira ntchito yake ali ndi zaka zitatu, kumukhazika mwanayo chete ndikuwathandiza kugona. Koma ali ndi zaka 4, sizikuwononga chilichonse. Ana samakhala ndi mano osatha mpaka atakwanitsa zaka 6, choncho tiyeni tisasunthike mpaka nthawi imeneyo. Ndikufuna kunena kuti mwana wamkazi wa David ndi Victoria ndiwodyetsedwa bwino, wophunzira, ndipo amapeza zinthu zabwino pamoyo wawo ...

Ryan A. Bell amadziwika kwambiri pazolemba zake zakulera, kuyamwitsa, ndi zina zambiri pa Ine Sindine Wolera. Tsatirani pa Twitter @ryan_a_bell.

"Kugwiritsa ntchito ma pacifiers maola ambiri patsiku, tsiku lililonse, kumatha kusokoneza kukula kwa chilankhulo, magwiridwe antchito am'kamwa, komanso kukhazikitsa njira zodziyimira panokha zotonthoza komanso kupirira mwana aliyense."
- Mayra Mendez, Ph.D.

“Pali zinthu zambiri zofunika kuzilingalira monga zaka, kukula, chikhalidwe, ndi zosowa zamankhwala, musanapweteke. Chofunika ndikuti zimadalira nthawi yochuluka yomwe mwana akugwiritsa ntchito pacifier, ndipo kugwiritsa ntchito pacifier kumapangitsa kuti zisokonezeke ndi zochitika zina, monga kulankhula, kulumikizana, kudya, ndikuwongolera momwe akumvera?

Sizachilendo kwa ana azaka 4 kugwiritsa ntchito pacifiers, ndipo kugwiritsa ntchito pacifiers kumakhumudwitsidwa kupitilira wakhanda. Kugwiritsa ntchito pacifiers maola angapo patsiku, tsiku lililonse, kumatha kusokoneza kukula kwa chilankhulo, magwiridwe antchito am'kamwa, komanso chitukuko cha kudziletsa komwe kumakhazika mtima pansi komanso kuthana ndi mwana aliyense. Mwana wazaka 4 yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito pacifier nthawi zina kuti atonthoze kapena atonthoze, koma amasiya mu mphindi zochepa ndipo ali ndi zoyankhula ndi chilankhulo komanso kuyendetsa bwino pamlomo, m'malingaliro anga azachipatala, sangatero kuvulazidwa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito pacifier pafupipafupi.

Mayra Mendez, Ph.D. ndiwowongolera pulogalamu yazolumala zakukula ndi chitukuko kuntchito ku Providence Saint John's Child and Family Development Center ku Santa Monica, California.