Jennifer Lopez Amalankhula Zokhudza Kudzidalira

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Kwa ambiri aife, Jennifer Lopez (munthuyo) amafanana ndi Jenny wochokera ku Block (persona): mtsikana wodzidalira kwambiri, wolankhula mosalala wochokera ku Bronx. Koma monga woyimba ndi zisudzo akuwulula m'buku latsopano, Chikondi chowona, sizinali zonse pamodzi.

Chikumbutso chaumwini, chomwe chilipo mawa, chikuwunika za nthawi yomwe adasudzulana ndi wakale Marc Anthony. Panthawi imeneyo mu 2011, Lopez analemba kuti, "adakumana ndi zovuta zake zazikulu, adazindikira mantha ake akuluakulu, ndipo pamapeto pake adakhala munthu wamphamvu kuposa momwe adakhalira."

Zimakhala zododometsa kumva J. Lo-mkazi yemwe akuwoneka wodzidalira kwambiri, wachikoka, komanso wodzidalira akuulula kuti amadzidalira, amaopa kukhala yekha, ngakhale kudziona kuti ndi wosafunika. Mu kuyankhulana kwapadera pa LERO, Lopez anauza Maria Shriver kuti anazindikira kuti anali ndi vuto lodzidalira zaka zapitazo, pamene wothandizira anamumva akukangana ndikuchonderera bwenzi lake panthawiyo. "Ndinali wanzeru kwambiri komanso wanzeru m'misewu. Ndinali ndi chidaliro ichi pazomwe ndikadatha," akuuza Shriver. "Sindinadzidalire kwambiri kuti ndine ndani komanso zomwe ndimayenera kupereka ndili mtsikana."

Zingakhale zovuta kukhulupirira, koma kusiyana kumeneku kwa umunthu kumakhala kofala kwambiri mwa anthu omwe amapeza zofunika pamoyo, monga Lopez, akutero Sari Cooper, ovomerezeka okwatirana komanso wothandizira kugonana. Anthu awa amawoneka ochezeka pasiteji, koma "nthawi zambiri zimaphimba kudziona kuti ndi osakwanira komanso amanyazi omwe amakhala nawo m'miyoyo yawo," akutero. Zoonadi, pamene Lopez ayenera kuti anali ndi kulimba mtima kwakukulu pamasewero, anali kuvutika chifukwa cha kusowa kwake mu moyo wake wachikondi, kudumpha kuchoka paubwenzi kupita ku chiyanjano chifukwa choopa kukhala yekha. Patangopita masiku ochepa atatha Ben Affleck, mwachitsanzo, adalumikizananso ndi Anthony, yemwe anali mwamuna wake.

Koma lero, kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wake, Lopez ndi wosakwatiwa. Ndipo kukhala yekha ndiye chinthu chabwino kwambiri pazomata zake, Cooper akuti. Ngati inu, monga J. Lo, mukupeza kuti mukuyamba maubwenzi atsopano popanda kutha kwa nthawi yomaliza, chinthu choyamba chofunika kwambiri ndikutenga nthawi kuti mudziwe nokha, Cooper akusonyeza. "Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi kufunafuna mkati osati kunja, ndipo phunzirani kusinkhasinkha kuti muphunzire momwe mungathetsere nkhawa."

Mwamwayi, tanthauzo la chikondi la Lopez likusintha. Ankakonda kutengera nthano zomwe timamva tili ana: "Adzandikonda mpaka kalekale, ndipo ndidzamukonda mpaka kalekale, ndipo zikhala zosavuta," akutero. "Ndipo ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi izo." Ndipo mutu wa buku lake ndioyenera mawonekedwe ake atsopano. “Chikondi chenicheni ndicho kuphunzira kudzikonda wekha, kukhala ndi nthaŵi yokhala ndi iwe wekha, ndi kuchita zinthu wekha,” akutero Cooper. "N'zosavuta kukonda wokondedwa wako, koma iwe uyenera kukhala ndi chikondi chomwecho kwa iwe." Ndipo ndife okondwa kuwona J. Lo akutenga nthawi yoyenerera yekha kuti achite zimenezo!

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