Chifukwa Chomwe Kugonana Kwa Lotus Kuyenera Kukhala Mukusintha Kwanu

Zamkati

• Momwe Mungapangire Malo Ogonana a Lotus
• Zokhudza Mtima ndi Zathupi za Lotus
• Momwe Mungapangire Malo Ogonana a Lotus Akugwireni Ntchito
• Pulogalamu ya Miyendo Yowongoka Zamaluwa
• Kugwada Lotus
• Lotus Yogwira
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Anthu amagonana pazifukwa zambiri. Ngakhale chikhumbo chonse ndi kunyada zili pazakudya, zowonadi, nthawi zina mumafuna china kuposa kungongofuna kukhutitsidwa nthawi yomweyo. Monga Karen Gurney, katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi katswiri wodziwa zamaganizo, akufotokozera m'buku lake, Zindikirani Kusiyana, kukondana nthawi zambiri kumakhala komwe anthu amakhumba akamagonana ndi bwenzi lawo. N’kwachibadwa kufuna kukulitsa chikondi.

Ngati ichi ndi cholinga chanu, palibe kugonana komwe kumakhala kogwirizana kwambiri pa lotus. Pamalo awa, mwakulungidwa mozungulira thupi la mnzanu ngati njoka. Izo sizimayandikira kwambiri kuposa izo.

Dzina lenileni la lotus ndi "Yab Yum" ndipo limachokera ku Tantra, dongosolo lachikhulupiliro lauzimu lakale lomwe linayambira ku India ndipo lakhalapo kwa zaka zikwi zambiri; mumachitidwe okhulupilira awa, chilichonse chimatha kukhala gawo lanu lauzimu, kaya ndi kudya, kusinkhasinkha, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, inde, kugonana. Ngakhale kugonana ndi gawo laling'ono chabe la tantra, ndi gawo lomwe anthu amakonda kuyang'ana, Layla Martin, mphunzitsi wodziwika kwambiri wa tantra komanso wolowetsa mndandanda wa YouTube Epic Sex & Legendary Longing yemwe adauzidwa kale Maonekedwe.

Taylor Sparks, wophunzitsa zachiwerewere komanso woyambitsa malo ogulitsa zachiwerewere Organic Loven akuti Yab Yum adalandira dzina latsopano "chifukwa linali losavuta m'makutu akumadzulo." Nkhani yabwino: Kaya musankha kuyitanitsa malowa kuti lotus kapena Yab Yum, izi ndizomwe mungachite posinthasintha zogonana.

Momwe Mungapangire Malo Ogonana a Lotus

Kuti mulowe mu lotus, mnzake wolowayo azikhala pansi atagona pabedi, pampando, kapena pakama. Izi zimatchedwa "theka lotus." Mumapeza "lotus yathunthu" mukawonjezera munthu wina.

Munthu amene akulowetsedwayo "amakhala pamwamba pake ndipo amatha kukulunga miyendo mozungulira ndikuwaphunzitsa koala, ngati mtengo," akutero a Kenneth Play, katswiri wazakugonana komanso wophunzitsa. M’malo modumpha m’mwamba ndi pansi, munthu amene ali pamwambayo amasuntha chiuno chake m’mbuyo ndi m’mbuyo mogwedezeka.

Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti ngakhale kuti chikhalidwechi chimaphatikizira kulowa mkati, sikofunikira. M'malo mwake, mutha kusangalala ndi malowa "mutagundana ndikupukutirana wina ndi mzake mmalo mokhala modzidzimutsa, zomwe zimakupatsaninso chidwi chakuthambo," akutero Spark.

Chipolopolo chaching'ono kapena choloza chala - monga Hot Octopuss DiGit (Buy It, $ 104, ellaparadis.com) - chitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati "kukondoweza kwachindunji osasokoneza kulumikizana kwanu momwe kukugwera zala," akutero. Izi zati, manja, dildos, vibrator, zomangira, ndi mbolo zonse ndizosankha zabwino pakugonana kwa lotus.

Zokhudza Mtima ndi Zathupi za Lotus

Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, pempho lalikulu pamalowo ndiubwenzi. Sitikunena kuti ndizoletsedwa kuchita zachiwerewere, koma kumbukirani kuti pali kulumikizana kochuluka pamaso pamene muli pamalowo. (Zambiri apa: Momwe Mungapangire Ubwenzi Wapamtima ndi Mnzanu)

Ngakhale mungathe kuyika chibwano chanu paphewa la mnzanuyo kuti musayang'ane, kuyang'anana ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe malowa ndi otchuka kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, ngati simukusangalala ndikulumikizana ndi anthu mukamagonana, mwina simungakhale okonda kwambiri kugonana.

Kunena mwakuthupi, malowa ndiabwino kwambiri pakukondoweza. Popeza simukugwedezeka mmwamba ndi pansi ndipo, m'malo mwake, mukugwedezeka uku ndi uku, mnzanu wolowera akhoza kugwedeza pansi pa pubic fupa, dzanja, kapena chidole. Kuphatikizanso apo, mumapewa kuwotcha ntchafu komwe kumawombera Cowgirl kapena Rider.

Sewerani akuti mwini mbolo amathanso kupeza zambiri kuchokera mu lotus, makamaka ngati akuvutika kukhala ndi erection kapena kutulutsa umuna mwachangu kwambiri. "Udindowu ungapereke chisangalalo chofatsa, chotalikirapo, chifukwa chake mutha kutulutsa zokumana nazo," akufotokoza.

Momwe Mungapangire Malo Ogonana a Lotus Akugwireni Ntchito

Ngakhale Yab Yum imapanga mndandanda wazowongoka kwambiri pazogonana, sizingakhale chisankho chabwino kwa aliyense. Mwachitsanzo, ngati simukusinthasintha m'chiuno, izi zimatha kubweretsa mavuto. Kapena, mwina simukonda kuyenda pang'onopang'ono panthawi yogonana. Mwamwayi, pali zina zomwe akatswiri amavomereza kuti akwaniritse zosowa zanu zonse za lotus.

Ziribe kanthu kuti mumayesa kusiyana kotani pakugonana, onetsetsani kuti mukumvera thupi lanu ndikulowa ndikutuluka pang'onopang'ono (ganizirani: monga yoga pose) kuti mupewe kupweteka kapena kusamva bwino.

Pulogalamu ya Miyendo Yowongoka Zamaluwa

Ngati chiuno chanu chili cholimba, m'modzi kapena onse awiri amatha kutambasula miyendo patsogolo pawo, akutero Lucy Rowett, mphunzitsi wovomerezeka wazogonana komanso katswiri wazogonana. Ngati muli pabedi kapena pampando, mnzake wapansi amathanso kuyika mapazi ake pansi m'malo mooloka. (Ganiziraninso kuyesayesa kwa yoga kuti mutulutse m'chiuno cholimba.)

Sparks amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito pilo pakugonana ngati mukufuna chithandizo chowonjezera. "Ngati mchiuno mwanu ndi wolimba, kugwiritsa ntchito mpilo kungakuthandizeni pakusinthasintha," akutero. Yesani Liberator Jaz (Gulani, $ 100, lovehoney.com). "Kutsamira kapena kupita patsogolo kapena kukhala ndi miyendo yolunjika kumatha kukhala kosavuta kwa munthu yemwe ali pamwamba."

Kugwada Lotus

Kuti achepetse kulemera kwa mnzanu wapansi kapena kuti apereke chiuno cha wokondedwa wake, munthu amene ali pamwamba amathanso kusankha kugwada pamphuno ya mnzanu wapansi, m'malo mokulunga miyendo m'chiuno mwawo, akutero Charyn Pfeuffer, wolemba zachiwerewere komanso wolemba. ya Njira 101 Zoyenda Chibwenzi Paintaneti.

Lotus Yogwira

"Ngati ndinu mtundu womwe ukufuna masewera othamanga, mutha kusintha malowa potsamira ndikudzithandiza nokha ndi manja anu," akutero Play, kwa iwo omwe sachedwa kuchita zachiwerewere. "Pochita izi mumakulitsa ngodya pakati pa chiuno chanu, chomwe chingakhale njira yabwinoko yolimbikitsira malo a G, komanso kupeza mwayi wowonjezera kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yogwira ntchito."

Gigi Engle ndi katswiri wazogonana wovomerezeka, mphunzitsi, komanso wolemba Zolakwa Zonse za F*cking: Kalozera wa Kugonana, Chikondi, ndi Moyo. Tsatirani iye pa Instagram ndi Twitter pa @GigiEngle.

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