Mindy Kaling Amagawana Zochita Zomwe Amakonda komanso Njira Yake Yochepetsera Kulemera kwa Mwana

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• "Ndaphunzira kuyamikira mphindi zochepa."
• "Ndapeza njira yosavuta yochotsera kulemera kwa mwana."
• "Tsopano ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi atatu osiyana kwambiri."
• "Kwa ine, chakudya ndi moyo."
• "Monga akazi, tili ndi misana ya wina ndi mnzake."
• "Mphamvu ndi chidaliro ndizofunikira kwambiri-nyengo."
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Mindy Kaling sali woyimilira. Kaya ndi ntchito yake, kulimbitsa thupi kwake, kapena moyo wake wapakhomo, "Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kuchita china chatsopano komanso chosiyana," akutero wosewera, wolemba, komanso wopanga. "Ndimakonda zosiyanasiyana."

Chaka chatha, adakwanitsa cholinga chimenecho. Mindy akusewera ndi ma megamovies awiri-akazi omwe amayembekezeredwa kwambiri Ocean ndi 8, yomwe imatsegulidwa pa June 8, kuwonjezera pa Kusokoneza Nthawi; iye adagwiritsa ntchito, kulembera, komanso nyenyezi Othandizira, pulogalamu yatsopano ya TV pa NBC; adagula nyumba; ndipo, eya, anali ndi mwana, Katherine (Kit mwachidule) Kaling, pakati pa Disembala. "Ndizopenga," a Mindy akunena za moyo wake wopanikizana. Komabe, panthawi imodzimodziyo, akuwoneka kuti alibe nazo ntchito. Chifukwa kukhala mayi, mwanjira yachilendo, kwamupatsa Mindy muyeso watsopano. (Zogwirizana: Mindy Akulankhula Zokhudza Kuchita ndi 'Amayi Olakwa' Monga Kholo Limodzi)

Moyo usanachitike Kit unali wofanana ndi ntchito. Mindy, wazaka 38, amakonda kwambiri zomwe amachita, ndipo anali pantchitoyi mpaka pomwe adabereka kenako adabwerako masiku awiri atabereka, kukonza ndikupanga mayitanidwe pamisonkhano. Koma kukhala mayi kwapangitsa Mindy kuyamikira mbali zina za moyo wake pang'ono. "Zimandigunda nthawi zonse kuti ndili ndi winawake pakhomo amene samangofuna kundiwona koma amafunika kuti andiwone," akutero a Mindy. "Zimenezo nzopindulitsa kwambiri. Munthu akamakufunani nthawi zonse, komanso amaoneka ngati inu, mumamva bwino kwambiri."

Pamene amacheza chakudya cham'mawa cha madzi obiriwira, omelet wa masamba, zokazinga zapanyumba, ndi soseji (njira yake yazakudya: Kulamula zomwe mukufuna ndikudya theka), Mindy ndi watsopano kuchokera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi mphunzitsi watsopano. "Ndinali pa VersaClimber," akutero. "Mudachitapo izi? Ndizovuta kwambiri!" Koma ndizofunika kwambiri, m'buku la Mindy. "Ndimakonda kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi," akutero, maso ake akuwala. "Sindikupita kuchipatala, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa ndimapeza ma endorphin kuchokera ku zolimbitsa thupi. Ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri kwa ine m'maganizo. Ndikudziwa kuti kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi si njira yoti ndikhale wowonda. Kwa mtundu wa thupi langa, kuti Kuphatikiza kudya bwino komanso kusankha mwanzeru. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi njira yoti ndikhale ndi mphamvu zamaganizidwe, ndipo tsopano, ndili ndi mwana, ndi nthawi yoti ndikhale ndekha ndikuyang'ana thupi langa. " (ICYDK, Mindy nthawi zonse amakhala owona pankhani yokhudza kukhala wathanzi.)

Kodi amakwanitsa bwanji kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi, wachimwemwe, komanso wotanganidwa momwe angafunire? Zimatengera njira zina zanzeru, a Mindy akuvomereza. Apa, amatidzaza ndi zomwe zimamuyendera.

"Ndaphunzira kuyamikira mphindi zochepa."

"Sindinazindikire momwe ndikakhalira kunyumba kwanga ndikadakhala mayi watsopano. Ndimaganiza kuti nditha kumubweretsa mwana kulikonse. Sindinakhulupirire kuti maola atatu aliwonse ndimayenera kukhala kunyumba Ndinkangotuluka m'nyumba tija ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono, ndipo zinkakhala ngati maulendo achinsinsi komanso osavomerezeka.Zinali zosangalatsa, ndipo zinapangitsa moyo wanga kuwoneka ngati wodabwitsa. ndinasamukira mnyumba mwanga, ndipo zinali zosangalatsa kuzithyolamo. Ndimaganiza, ndiyenera kudyetsa mwana wanga wamkazi m'chipinda chathu chochezera chatsopano chatsopano. zabwino. " (Zokhudzana: Amayi Enieni Gawani Momwe Kukhala Ndi Ana Kungasinthire Maganizo Awo Pazaumoyo Wawo)

"Ndapeza njira yosavuta yochotsera kulemera kwa mwana."

"Chifukwa ndimakonda kudya, ndipo sindine wowonda poyambira, ndimadziwa kuti ndikayamba kunenepa kwambiri ndikakhala ndi pakati, zinthu zimatha kungoyenda njanji m'njira yoyipa kwambiri. Ichi ndichinthu chomwe ndimafunikiradi Dokotala wanga ananena kuti azimayi omwe amangopeza mapaundi 25 mpaka 30 nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto lochepera mwana akabadwa. ndili ndi pakati.Ndinkachita mayoga ambiri komanso kuyenda kwambiri, ndikuthamanga mpaka sindimathanso kuthamanga.Ndinachita masewera olimbitsa thupi mpaka m'mawa nditabereka.Ndiponso patangotha ​​​​sabata kuchokera nditabereka, ndinayamba kuyenda maulendo angapo. Sindikulimbikitsa izi kwa aliyense, mwachiwonekere, koma sindinapeze zovuta zobweretsera. Zinthu zonsezi zinali zothandiza pakuchepetsa thupi. " (Yesani kulimbitsa thupi pambuyo pathupi kuti mumangenso maziko olimba.)

"Tsopano ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi atatu osiyana kwambiri."

"Ndimagwira ntchito kanayi kapena kasanu pa sabata pamene sindikuwombera. Ndimakonda kusakaniza zolimbitsa thupi zanga: Ndidzachita kalasi ya SoulCycle, kalasi yophunzitsa mphamvu ndi mphunzitsi wanga, ndi yoga kamodzi pa sabata. Kwa wina ndi umunthu wanga, womwe ndi wokayika komanso wosuliza, ndizabwino kwambiri kuti ndizichita ma yoga ndikungoganiza zongoganiza chabe. Ndi njira yanga yoyesera kubwerera ku mizu yanga. "

"Kwa ine, chakudya ndi moyo."

"Ndimakonda chakudya chilichonse: sushi, Ethiopia, French, zokometsera, maswiti. Kuphatikiza apo, ndidakulira ndikutsuka mbale yanga, ndipo ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti sindiyenera kudya chilichonse pamenepo. Chifukwa chake tsiku lililonse ndimakhala wathanzi. nditenge gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a avocado ndi chidutswa cha Ezekieli chotupitsa batala. Izi zimandidzaza kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri. Ndidzakhala ndi saladi yayikulu nkhomaliro ndi nkhuku kapena nsomba pamwamba. Chakudya chamadzulo, ngati ndili kunyumba, Ndiphika chakudya chopatsa thanzi ngati salimoni ndi sipinachi.Koma ndikapita, ndidzaitanitsa chilichonse chomwe ndikufuna ndikudya theka lake.Motero ndimatha kulawa chilichonse. . Mwinamwake ndimakhala ndi awiri kapena atatu pa sabata, zomwe ziri zosangalatsa kwambiri. Ku New York, mindandanda yazakudya m'malesitilanti ena ndi yodabwitsa kwambiri.

"Monga akazi, tili ndi misana ya wina ndi mnzake."

"Ndikumva ngati ndachita ndi akazi okha zaka ziwiri zapitazi, zomwe ndizodabwitsa. Pakati Kusokoneza Nthawi ndipo Nyanja 8, Ndikuganiza kuti ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ndi osewera aliyense wotchuka ku Hollywood. Ndizoseketsa, chifukwa liti Ocean's Eleven anali kujambula, mungawerenge za momwe zidakhalira zosangalatsa komanso kuti George Clooney amasewera aliyense. Zinandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti abambo akamapita kukawombera kanema kwa miyezi iwiri kapena itatu, amasiya mabanja awo kunyumba. Koma akazi amatenga mabanja awo kupita nawo. Chifukwa chake sindimangowona nyenyezi zazikulu monga Sandra Bullock ndi Cate Blanchett popanda moyo wawo wonse. Miyoyo yawo yonse inali nawo, ndipo ndinakumana ndi okwatirana ndi ana. Izo zinali zodabwitsa. Cate ndi Sandy onse ali ndi ana ang'ono omwe ali amakhalidwe abwino komanso osangalatsa, ndipo ndiyenera kuphunzira zambiri za momwe amalerera ndi kuwafunsa mafunso angapo. Gulu lathu la kanema uja lidakali lolimba. Timatumizirana mameseji nthawi zonse. "

"Mphamvu ndi chidaliro ndizofunikira kwambiri-nyengo."

"Ndili wokondwa kuti mwana wanga wamkazi amandiwona ndikulimbitsa thupi ndikudziŵa kuti ndi gawo la moyo wanga. Sindinaleredwe motero, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti pamene sumawona zinthu zotere ngati mwana, ndizovuta kuzitenga. Ndikadakonda kuti aphunzire adakali aang'ono kuti kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndichizolowezi chokhala nacho. Sindinaphunzire izi mpaka nditakwanitsa zaka 24. Ndifunanso kuti akhale wotsimikiza. mwanjira imeneyi ndili mwana, ndipo ndikufuna kuti mwana wanga azikhala wolimba mtima nthawi zonse. Ndipanga izi pomupangitsa kuti azimva kuti ndiwokwanira ndipo sakhala wokakamira ndi ndemanga zolimbikitsa. Izi zikutsutsana ndi chikhalidwe changa pang'ono chifukwa ndine munthu wodziimba mlandu, pazinthu zomwe ndimagwira ntchito-koma ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa ine kuonetsetsa kuti ndikuika chidaliro mwa mwana wanga wamkazi."

Kuti mudziwe zambiri kuchokera kwa Mindy, sankhani magazini ya June Maonekedwe, pamagulitsidwe atolankhani Meyi 16.

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