Makolo: Ndi Nthawi Yodzisamalira, Zowonekera, ndi Kudula Ena

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• Zinthu zasintha
• Kulera ana kuyenera kusintha, nawonso

Tikukumana ndi mliri mu njira yopulumuka, chifukwa chake zili bwino kutsitsa miyezo yanu ndikulola zoyembekezera kuti zitha. Takulandilani ku Moyo Wanga Wopanda Ungwiro Amayi.

Moyo ndi wopanda ungwiro, ngakhale patsiku labwino kwambiri. Ndikunena zambiri. M'malo mwake, ndimalemba za izo nthawi zonse mgulu langa loseketsa komanso m'mabuku anga olera. Ndipo ndimakumbutsa ana anga aakazi awiri pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, chifukwa ndi zoona.

Ngakhale titayesetsa chotani kuwonetsetsa kuti moyo ukuyenda bwino, makamaka ngati makolo, chilengedwe chimakhalapo nthawi zonse kuti chizitikumbutsa khutu kutikumbutsa kuti zinthu zina zomwe sitingathe kuzilamulira ndipo nthawi zina timangofunika kuchita zomwe timaona kuti ndizabwino komanso zotonthoza ndi kukhazikika.

Kinda monga tsopano. Chifukwa ngati kukhala moyo kudzera mu fdd ndi epic ngati mliri ndi ana athu sichomwe chimakhala khutu lalikulu kwambiri, ndiye kuti sindikudziwa.

Kotero dzichepetseni pang'ono.

Patsiku limodzi, tonse tidachoka pakukhala achizolowezi, makolo wamba timatumiza ana athu kusukulu kapena kusamalira ana kapena kuwapititsa ku paki, kutsatira dongosolo lokhala kunyumba nthawi yayitali , Kutalikirana ndi mabanja ndi abwenzi, kuwerengera mapepala achimbudzi, ndikukumbatira TikTok ngati bwenzi lathu lapamtima.

Tsopano ana athu ali kunyumba, tili kunyumba, zambiri zomwe tinkakonda kusiya nyumbayo zikuchitika kunyumba, ndipo aliyense watenga gawo la kholo, mphunzitsi, wosewera naye, mphunzitsi, mphunzitsi, wothandizira, komanso kuyenda panyanja wotsogolera onse atakulungidwa mwa munthu m'modzi. Ndipo ndiko kupanikizika kwakukulu. O eya, ndikungoti tifotokoze, palibe aliyense wa ife amene ali ndi pulani ya izo.

Choncho dulani aliyense pang'ono pang'ono.

Zinthu zasintha

Masiku ano, tikukhala pakati pa The New Normal, ndikudzipatula ndi mabanja athu ndikuyesera kuyendetsa dziko lobisika, osapumira, komanso osafikira anthu ndi zinthu zomwe timachita nthawi zonse wokhoza kudalira.

Usiku wonse, ndandanda zathu zonse zolimba zolembedwa tsiku lililonse ndi zochitika ndi mndandanda wazomwe zakhazikika zakhazikika. Zinthu monga sukulu ndi ntchito komanso moyo watsiku ndi tsiku zasinthidwa, ndipo tikungopeza njira zothanirana ndi nkhawa zathu ndikumva chisoni ndi zinthu zonse zomwe tataya. Ndipo tikuchita izi nthawi imodzi kuthandiza ana athu kuchita chimodzimodzi.

Osanena kuti makolo kulikonse akumva kuti ali ndi vuto lalikulu ndikukakamizidwa kuti ana athu azikhala otanganidwa ndikuphunzira ndikusuntha komanso kuchita bwino ndikusangalatsidwa mphindi iliyonse ya tsikuli.

Kuphatikiza apo, ife omwe tikugwira ntchito kunyumba tili ndi gawo lowonjezera loyanjanitsa zonsezo ndi ntchito ndi Zoom mafoni ndi FaceTime ndi misonkhano yapafupifupi. Osanena za iwo omwe akuchoka panyumba kukagwira ntchito mosakayikira akumva kupsinjika kwa kusunga aliyense ali otetezeka kwinaku akusamalira mabanja awo ndikugwira ntchito zawo. Ndipo ndizambiri.

Chifukwa chake dulani wina ndi mnzake.

Kulera ana kuyenera kusintha, nawonso

Nayi chinthu, ngakhale - ndipo ichi ndichinsinsi - ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti chilimbikitsocho sichingaletsedwe kwa kholo momwe timakhalira nthawi zonse - ndimapangidwe komanso chizolowezi komanso zochitika zambiri kuti ana athu azikhala achangu komanso olimbikitsidwa, pakadali pano, tiyenera kungoyima. Basi. Imani. Ndipo pumani. Kenako tifunika kukumbatira ana athu, kutulutsa mpweya, ndikuzisiya.

Ino si nthawi yoti mukhale mayi wa helikopita kapena bambo wopanga udzu, kuwongolera mphindi iliyonse yamasiku a ana athu. Ino ndi nthawi yolola ana athu kukhala ana.

Chifukwa chake aloleni apange mipanda yolimba ndikusewera masewerawa ndikuphika ma cookie ndikupanga chisokonezo ndikugwiritsa ntchito zida. Chifukwa chowonadi ndichakuti, tonse tili munthawi yopulumuka, ndipo malamulo abwinobwino amoyo sakhalapo pakadali pano. Sangathe.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti, chinthu chokhacho chotsalira kuchita ndi zomwe zimamveka bwino, ndipo ziwoneka ngati zosiyana kwa tonsefe.

Kwa ife makolo, zitha kutanthauza kuti kupyola ma feed a Insta pafupipafupi kuti timve kulumikizana ndi dziko. Kwa ana athu okalamba, zitha kuwoneka ngati nthawi yowonjezera FaceTiming anzawo kuti azikhala ocheperako komanso olumikizidwa kwambiri. Ndipo kwa achichepere athu, atha kukhala maola ochulukira pamaso pa makanema omwe amawakonda ngati njira yotonthoza miyoyo yawo yaying'ono. Chifukwa dziko la aliyense lasintha ndipo mayimbidwe a aliyense achotsedwa.

Chifukwa chake, ngati panali nthawi yodzisamalira, ndi pano. Ndizo zomwe tiyenera kutsamira mpaka izi zitatha. Zinthu zomwe zimadzaza mitima yathu ndi malingaliro athu ndi kuchira kapena kuseka kapena kuwombera bata komwe kudzatipezetsa.

Tiyenera kupatsa ana athu chiwongolero chowonjezera kuti athe kuyenda patali pogwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo womwe apeza, chifukwa tili ndi mwayi kuti ali nawo.

Tsopano zapatsidwa, sindikunena kuti tiwalole FaceTime ndikuwonera maola a Netflix a 19 patsiku, koma tiyenera kuwapatsa njira yotalikirapo kuti agwiritse ntchito njira zolumikizira kuti zithandizire pang'ono masikelo olekanitsidwa.

Choncho dulani ana anu pang'onopang'ono.

Monga akatswiri akunena, tikukhala m'mbiri. Chifukwa chake tikuyenera kuvomereza kuti izi ndizovuta. Zovuta kwambiri. Ndipo pakadali pano, chomwe chimafunikira kwambiri ndikusunga thanzi lamunthu, lamalingaliro, komanso lakuthupi, zomwe ndizovuta kwambiri poganizira okwatirana ndi omwe akukhala nawo nthawi yayitali limodzi kuposa kale. Popanda cholumikizira. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi, mikangano ikuyenda bwino kwambiri.

Chepetsani mnzanu kapena mnzanu pang'ono.

Mfundo yake ndiyakuti, aliyense amafunikira chilolezo kuti akhale wopanda cholinga pakadali pano. Tonsefe tifunika kukhala otha kuthawa kusamvana kwa tsiku lililonse m'njira iliyonse yomwe ingakhale yomveka kwa ife. Ndipo ngati izi zikutanthauza kuti ana athu akuwononga nthawi yambiri mkati mwabuku kapena kutsogolo kwa chinsalu pompano, zikhale choncho. Chifukwa ndilo dongosolo lathu lopulumuka.

Choncho chepetsani banja lanu pang'ono.

Monga ndanenera, awa ndi nthawi yachilendo, yovuta, choncho dzipatseni chilolezo kuti muike patsogolo zinthu zomwe zimadzetsa chisangalalo kwa inu ndi banja lanu pakadali pano, ndikusiya ena onse apite. Ingozisiya. Chifukwa tikakhazikitsa mawu, ana athu amatsatira.

Tili ndi izi, abwenzi. Patsogolo.

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