Gulu la #NormalizeNormalBodies likuyenda moyenera pazifukwa zonse zoyenera

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Tithokoze mayendedwe olimbikitsa thupi, azimayi ambiri akulandira mawonekedwe awo ndikupewa malingaliro achikale pazotanthauza "kukhala wokongola". Makampani monga Aerie athandizapo chifukwa chokhala ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ndikulonjeza kuti sadzawatenganso. Amayi onga Ashley Graham ndi Iskra Lawrence akuthandiza kusintha miyezo yokongola pokhala eni ake enieni, osasefera ndipo kugoletsa makontrakitala akuluakulu a kukongola ndi zolemba zamagazini monga Vogue pochita izi. Ndi nthawi yomwe amayi (potsiriza) amalimbikitsidwa kukondwerera matupi awo m'malo mosintha kapena kuchita manyazi nawo.

Koma Mik Zazon, yemwe adayambitsa gulu la #NormalizeNormalBodies pa Instagram, akuti alipo azimayi omwe sanasiyidwe pazokambirana izi zokhudzana ndi kukhutira thupi-amayi omwe sagwirizana ndi malingaliro akuti "owonda" koma omwe sangadziganizire "curvy" kapena. Amayi omwe amagwera pakati pa zilembo ziwirizi sakuwonabe matupi awo akuyimiridwa munyuzipepala, akutero Zazon. Chofunika kwambiri, zokambirana zokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe athupi, kudzidalira, komanso kudzikonda sizimakhudzanso akazi awa, Zazon akuti Maonekedwe.

"Kuyenda bwino kwa thupi ndi kwa anthu omwe ali ndi matupi oponderezedwa," akutero Zazon. "Koma ndimamva ngati pali mpata wopatsa amayi okhala ndi 'matupi abwinobwino' mawu ambiri."

Inde, mawu oti "wabwinobwino" amatha kutanthauziridwa munjira zosiyanasiyana, atero Zazon. "Kukhala 'wamkulu wamba' kumatanthauza chinthu chosiyana ndi aliyense," akufotokoza motero. "Koma ndikufuna kuti amayi adziwe kuti ngati simukugwera m'magulu owonjezera, othamanga, kapena owongoka, mukuyenera kukhala mbali ya kayendetsedwe ka thupi, komanso." (Zokhudzana: Amayi Awa Akukula Msinkhu Wawo Mukuyenda "Kuposa Kutalika Kwanga")

"Ndakhala m'matupi osiyanasiyana m'moyo wanga wonse," akuwonjezera Zazon. "Kuyenda uku ndi njira yanga yokumbutsira azimayi kuti mumaloledwa kuwonekera momwe muliri. Simuyenera kuchita kupanga nkhungu kapena gulu kuti mumve bwino ndikudzidalira pakhungu lanu. Matupi onse ndi matupi 'abwinobwino. "

Chiyambireni kusuntha kwa Zazon pafupifupi chaka chapitacho, azimayi opitilira 21,000 agwiritsa ntchito hashtag ya # Normalizenormalbodies. Bungweli lapatsa azimayi awa nsanja kuti afotokozere chowonadi chawo komanso mwayi kuti mawu awo amveke, a Zazon akuti Maonekedwe.

"NDINALI WOSAVUTIKA KWAMBIRI za 'zipsinjo zanga m'chiuno'," adagawana mayi wina yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito hashtag. "Sipanapite zaka makumi awiri pomwe ndidaganiza zodzikonda ndekha ndikukumbatira thupi langa momwe zilili. Palibe cholakwika ndi ine kapena m'chiuno mwanga, awa ndi mafupa anga. Umu ndi m'mene ndimamangira ndipo ndili choncho ndiwe wokongola. " (Zokhudzana: Sindine Thupi Labwino Kapena Loipa, Ndine Ine chabe)

Munthu wina yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito hashtag adalemba kuti: "Kuyambira tili aang'ono, timalimbikitsidwa kukhulupirira kuti thupi lathu silili lokongola mokwanira, kapenanso lokwanira. Koma [thupi] sichinthu chosangalatsa kwa ena kapena choletsedwa umakwanira miyezo yokongola ya anthu. Thupi lanu limakhala ndi mikhalidwe yambiri. Makhalidwe opitilira kukula ndi mawonekedwe. " (Zogwirizana: Katie Willcox Akufuna Kuti Mudziwe Kuti Ndinu Zambiri Kuposa Zomwe Mumawona Pagalasi)

Zazon akuti ulendo wake wokhala ndi mawonekedwe a thupi adamulimbikitsa kupanga hashtag. "Ndidaganizira zomwe zidatenga kuti ndikonze thupi langa," akutero. "Zanditengera zambiri kuti ndikafike pomwe ndili lero."

Kukula ngati wothamanga, Zazon "nthawi zonse anali ndi thupi lamasewera," amagawana nawo. “Koma pamapeto pake ndinasiya maseŵera onse chifukwa cha mikwingwirima ndi kuvulala,” akufotokoza motero. "Zinali zopweteka kwambiri ku kudzidalira kwanga."

Atangosiya kukhala wokangalika, Zazon akuti adayamba kunenepa. Iye anati: “Ndinkadya mofanana ndi mmene ndinkachitira pamene ndinkasewerabe, moti ndalama zinkangopitirirabe. "Posakhalitsa zidayamba kumva ngati ndataya dzina langa." (Zogwirizana: Kodi Mungakonde Thupi Lanu Koma Mukufunabe Kusintha?)

M'kupita kwa zaka, Zazon adayamba kukhala osamasuka pakhungu lake, akutero. Panthawi yovutayi, adapezeka kuti ali muubwenzi "wankhanza kwambiri", amagawana nawo. Iye anati: “Zowawa za paubwenzi wa zaka zinayi zimenezo zinandikhudza kwambiri m’maganizo ndi m’thupi. "Sindinkadziwa kuti ndine ndani, ndipo maganizo anga anali owonongeka kwambiri. Ndinkangofuna kuti ndikhale wodziletsa, ndipo ndipamene ndinayamba kudutsa matenda a anorexia, bulimia, ndi orthorexia." (Zokhudzana: Momwe Kuthamanga Kunandithandizira Kugonjetsa Matenda Anga Odyera)

Ngakhale ubalewo utatha, Zazon adapitilizabe kulimbana ndi vuto losadya, atero. "Ndimakumbukira kuti ndikuyang'ana pagalasi ndikuwona nthiti zanga zikutuluka pachifuwa," adatero. "Ndinkakonda kukhala 'wowonda', koma panthawiyo, kufunitsitsa kwanga kukhala ndi moyo kunandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndiyenera kusintha."

Pamene ankayesetsa kuti akhalenso ndi thanzi labwino, Zazon anayamba kugawana nawo za kuchira kwake pa Instagram, akutero Maonekedwe. Iye anati: “Ndinayamba kulemba nkhani zokhudza kuchira kwanga, koma kenako zinakula kwambiri. "Zinayamba kukhudza mbali iliyonse yaumwini. Kaya anali ziphuphu zakumaso za achikulire, kutambasula, kumeta msanga-zinthu zomwe zimachita ziwanda kwambiri pakati pa anthu-ndimafuna kuti akazi azindikire kuti zinthu zonsezi ndi zabwinobwino."

Masiku ano, uthenga wa Zazon umagwirizananso ndi amayi padziko lonse lapansi, monga umboni wa anthu zikwi makumi ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito hashtag tsiku lililonse. Koma Zazon akuvomereza kuti sakukhulupirirabe kuti gululi layamba bwanji.

"Sichokhudzana ndi ine," amagawana. "Ndi za azimayi awa omwe adasowa mawu."

Amayi awa nawonso apatsa Zazon mphamvu zake, akutero. "Osazindikira ngakhale pang'ono, anthu ambiri samangobisa zina za moyo wawo," akufotokoza. "Koma ndikamayang'ana patsamba la hashtag, ndimawona azimayi akugawana zinthu zomwe sindimadziwa kuti ndikubisala za ine ndekha. Adandipatsa chilolezo kuti ndizindikire kuti ndikubisa izi. Zimandipatsa mphamvu kwambiri nthawi zonse. tsiku limodzi. "

Ponena za zomwe zili mtsogolo, Zazon akuyembekeza kuti gululi lipitiliza kukumbutsa anthu zamphamvu zomwe mumapeza mukamasulidwa m'thupi lanu, akutero. "Ngakhale mulibe thupi losalidwa kwenikweni ndipo simukudziwonera nokha m'ma TV ambiri, mudakali ndi maikolofoni," akutero. "Mukungoyenera kuyankhula."

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