Amayi Amodzi Ankaganiza Kuti Zili Zabwino Kwa Wopezerera Ntchito Wogulitsa Mwala Wosalala

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Justine Elwood amaganiza kuti limangokhala tsiku wamba kuntchito ku Cold Stone Creamery, mpaka kasitomala atabwera ndikuyamba kunyoza mtundu wa thupi lake ndi kulemera kwake. Zikukulira: ndemangazi zimalunjikitsidwa kwa mayiyo ana. “Ukakhala ndi ayisikilimu wochuluka, ukhala ngati iyeyo,” akuti mayiyo anatero akuloza Justine.

Ngati nkhanza sizinali zokwanira, kasitomala adasankhanso kusiya ndemanga yankhanza ya Yelp yokhudza wogwira ntchito wazaka 19 yemwe wachotsedwa kale. Ndemanga yowopsya inati: "Mmodzi mwa antchito awo aakazi Jessie? Jennifer? J chinachake, ndi wonenepa monyansa, ndipo nthawi iliyonse tikabwera, ngakhale amagwira ntchito yake, ndipo ali waulemu kwambiri, nthawi yomweyo amachititsa kuti chilakolako changa chizimiririka."

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Justine, yemwe ndi wophunzira wapakoleji yemwe amaphunzira udokotala wa opaleshoni ya opaleshoni, ananena kuti kuona mawu oipawa kunamupweteka kwambiri.

"Sizabwino kumva zinthu zokhudza iwe, sizinandipangitse kuti ndikhale wosangalala," adatero KTR. "Ndinangodabwa chifukwa ndimawona ngati sizoyenera kunena pamaso pa ana. Ndipo sizinali zabwino kwambiri. Ndikumva ngati sichinthu chabwino kuphunzitsa ana anu, koma zimachitika ndikuganiza."

Tsoka ilo, aka sikanali koyamba kuti Justine akudzudzulidwa motere ponena za thupi lake, ponena kuti, "Ndichinthu chomwe ndakhala nacho moyo wanga wonse, kotero kuti ndazolowera, zomwe ndi zowopsya. koma ndichinthu chomwe ndakhala ndikuchichita moyo wanga wonse."

Koma nthawi ino, zinthu zinali zitasiyana. M’malo mochita manyazi ndi kunyozedwa yekha, Justine anadabwa kuona anthu a m’deralo akuimirira ndi kusonyeza thandizo lawo pomubweretsera mabuloni ndi maluwa.

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"Zakhala zabwino kwambiri kumva chikondi chochuluka ndikusintha zoipa kukhala zabwino," adalemba pa Facebook. "Ndili wothokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha chikondi cham'deralo. Ndadalitsidwa kwambiri."

Ngakhale kuti anali ndi chikondi komanso kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, panali anthu ochepa amene ankayesetsa kumuchititsa manyazi kuti asakhale chete, n’kumanena kuti ankangofuna kuti aziwamvetsera. Pofuna kuthana ndi adaniwo, wachinyamatayo adapita ku Facebook kuti afotokozere kuti nkhaniyi sikungonena za iye yekha. Ndizokhudza anthu onse omwe amachita manyazi thupi ndikupangitsa kuti azimva chisoni chifukwa cha mawonekedwe awo. (Werengani: Azimayi 10 Oipa Amene Anapangitsa 2016 Kukhala Bwino Powomba M'manja kwa Odana ndi Matupi)

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“Ngakhale ndili wokondwa kuti ndathandizidwa kwambiri, akusowa chifukwa chomwe ndimafotokozera nkhani yanga,” analemba motero.

"Sindikuyesera kunena kuti ndinali 'wamanyazi,' kapena kuyesera kuti ndichitire chifundo. M'malo mwake ndikuyesera kuzindikira za vuto lalikulu lomwe amuna, akazi ndi ana ambiri amakumana nalo tsiku lililonse. ndi mliri, ukuwonjezera mavuto ena ambiri omwe anthu amakumana nawo.Mawu ndi nkhanza zomwe anthu amakumana nazo zimapangitsa anthu kudzipha. "

“Ndinauza ena nkhani yanga kuti ndisonyeze ena kuti sali okha,” anamaliza motero. "Zinthu zamtunduwu zimachitika tsiku lililonse kwa anthu ena ndipo sindikufuna china koma kuthandiza anthu kuthana ndi izi."

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