Zinthu 16 Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Ponena za Kupembedza

Zamkati

• Ndi chiyani?
• Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito?
• Ndi mbali ziti za thupi zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhudzidwa?
• Kodi nthawi zonse zimachitidwa kwa munthu wina, kapena zingathekenso kwa inu nokha?
• Kodi nthawi zonse ndimafotokozedwe (ogonana)?
• Kodi chilakolakocho chimachokera kuti?
• Kodi iyi ndi mtundu wa BDSM?
• Kodi ndizofala?
• Kodi ndizotetezeka?
• Kodi mungasamale chiyani?
• Chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati sitikusamala mosamala?
• Kodi pakhala pali kafukufuku pa izi?
• Kodi yawonetsedwa motani m'mbiri?
• Kodi zakhala zikuwoneka mu nkhani zaposachedwa?
• Kodi zidawonekapo pachikhalidwe cha pop?
• Kodi mungaphunzire kuti?

Ndi chiyani?

Kupembedza ndi chidwi chobaya, kumamatira, kapena kulowa khungu ndi zinthu zakuthwa - mipeni yolingalira, zikhomo, kapena misomali. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zogonana.

Muzochitika zochepa, kumata matako kapena maliseche ndi pini kumatha kukhala kokwanira kupereka chisangalalo.

Zofuna zina, komabe, ndizochulukirapo. Kuvulala kwakukulu - ndipo ngakhale imfa - ndizotheka ngati njira zoyenera sizikutsatiridwa.

Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito?

Chinthu chilichonse chakuthwa chingagwiritsidwe ntchito. Zikhomo, misomali, malezala, mipeni, lumo, ngakhale zolembera zimatha kulowa pakhungu.

Anthu ena omwe amakonda kugonana angakonde zinthu zina zokha. Angakonde mpeni winawake kapena singano zochepa zokha, zotayidwa.

Ndi mbali ziti za thupi zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhudzidwa?

Chifukwa chinyengo chimatengedwa ngati chiwerewere, madera ambiri omwe amayang'aniridwa amakhala ndi chilolezo chogonana. Izi nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizapo mawere, matako, ndi kubuula.

Komabe, kwa anthu ena, malowa alibe nazo ntchito monga khungu lobowola.

Kodi nthawi zonse zimachitidwa kwa munthu wina, kapena zingathekenso kwa inu nokha?

Nthawi zambiri, kunama kumangosangalatsa kokha zikagwiridwa kwa munthu wina. Izi zitha kukhala chifukwa choti kubaya kapena kuboola winawake kumatha kufanana ndi kugonana.

Anthu ena amasangalala ndikudziboola pogonana kapena kumasewera.

Komabe, izi sizofanana ndi kudula ndipo siziyenera kusokonezedwa ndikudzivulaza.

Kodi nthawi zonse ndimafotokozedwe (ogonana)?

Inde, kunama kumatengedwa ngati mtundu wa paraphilia, kapena "zachilendo" chilakolako chogonana.

Ikhoza kuganiziridwa ngati mtundu wachisoni, nawonso. Anthu ena okhala mdera la BDSM atha kuphatikizaponso zachiwerewere pamasewera awo ogonana.

Kodi chilakolakocho chimachokera kuti?

Sizikudziwika bwinobwino chifukwa chomwe anthu ena amayamba kuchita zalanda.

Sichikudziwikanso ngati chimachokera ku mtundu wina wa kink kapena fetish kapena ngati chikuwonekera koyamba ngati chikhumbo ichi.

M'malo mwake, palibe kafukufuku amene adayang'ana makamaka pazakugonana izi kuti mumvetsetse chifukwa chake anthu ena amakhala nacho.

Kodi iyi ndi mtundu wa BDSM?

Inde, kunama kumagwera pansi pa ambulera ya BDSM ngati mtundu wa "Edgeplay".

M'mitundu ina ya BDSM, maanja kapena othandizana nawo amagwira ntchito ndikumvetsetsa kuti munthu aliyense azisungitsa zisangalalo zogonana motetezeka. Sangatsutse kapena kukankhira masewerawa kumalo owopsa.

Komabe, ziwombankhanga monga zozembera zimakhala zowopsa mwachilengedwe. Kunama "kosatetezeka" sikutheka chifukwa cha zoopsa zomwe zimabweretsa.

Ngati munthu aliyense mgwirizanowu amadziwa zoopsa ndipo akufuna kuvomereza, atha kusintha mgwirizano wawo.

Zikatero, playplay imawatengera kuzinthu zomwe zitha kukhala ndi zoopsa zina.

Kodi ndizofala?

Kupembedza ndi chidwi chokha. Zitha kukhala zofala kwambiri mdera la BDSM chifukwa cha zokonda zapadera pazachisoni komanso pamasewera.

Komabe, kink kapena chiwerewere chogonana sichimapezeka kawirikawiri pakufufuza, chifukwa chake sizotheka kudziwa kuti ndi anthu angati omwe ali nawo.

Momwemonso, anthu amatha kuchita manyazi kuyankhula za machitidwe aliwonse omwe angawoneke ngati "achilendo" kapena "achilendo," chifukwa chake kudzinenera kwamakhalidwe otere kumatha kuchepa.

Kodi ndizotetezeka?

Kupembedza sikuli kotetezeka mwachibadwa. Nthawi iliyonse khungu likapyozedwa, mabakiteriya amatha kulowa. Izi zitha kubweretsa matenda komanso zovuta.

Ndizothekanso kuboola mitsempha yamagazi kapena mitsempha. Izi zitha kupangitsa kuti magazi atayike kwambiri, zomwe zitha kukhala zowopsa.

Komabe, pali njira zochepetsera zoopsa zina.

Ngakhale kusamala sikungathetse mavuto onse, njira zina zitha kuthandizira kuchepetsa ngozi zowopsa kwambiri.

Kodi mungasamale chiyani?

Mutha kuchepetsa chiopsezo chotenga matenda ndi zovuta zina pochita izi:

• Pezani chidziwitso. Ndikofunika kuti aliyense amvetse zoopsa zomwe zingachitike ndikulumikizana malire aliwonse asanachite nawo masewerawa.
• Samatenthetsani zinthu zonse. Zinthu zilizonse zomwe mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito kutchetcha kapena kuboola khungu ziyenera kutenthedwa. Mutha kuwaphika m'madzi kapena kuwotcha. Mutha kupha tizilombo toyambitsa matenda pogwiritsa ntchito madzi amchere ndi bulitchi, koma yolera yotseketsa imakonda kupha mankhwala.
• Sankhani malo akhungu mwanzeru. Mutha kudula mtsempha kapena chotengera chachikulu mwangozi ngati mungaboole malo olakwika kapena kubaya kwambiri. Izi zitha kukhala zowopsa. Sankhani malo omwe ali ndi mitsempha yaying'ono, monga mawere ndi matako.
• Sambani bwinobwino. Masewera akamaliza, sambani malo omwe mwapyoza kapena kudula ndi sopo wa antibacterial ndi madzi ofunda ndikuwayanika bwino. Ikani mafuta opha maantibayotiki m'malo onsewo, kuphimba ndi bandeji, ndikubwereza tsiku lililonse mpaka mutachira.

Chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati sitikusamala mosamala?

Nthawi iliyonse khungu likasweka, mabakiteriya amatha kulowa. Izi zimatha kukhala matenda. Zitha kufuna chithandizo, kuphatikizapo maantibayotiki.

Momwemonso, nthawi iliyonse mukabaya kapena kuboola khungu, mutha kudula mitsempha yamagazi kapena ngakhale mitsempha. Izi zitha kupangitsa kuti magazi atayike omwe angaike pangozi moyo kapena kupha.

Kodi pakhala pali kafukufuku pa izi?

Ngakhale pali zochitika zingapo zolembedwa zakukayikira zachinyengo m'mbiri yonse, palibe kafukufuku weniweni amene wachitika. Zambiri zam'maphunziro azachipatala komanso maphunziro azomwe zilipo kulibe.

Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe anthu ena ali ndi chiberekochi ndikupanga malangizo oyenera pamasewera otetezeka.

Kodi yawonetsedwa motani m'mbiri?

Mwina chochitika chodziwika bwino kwambiri chabodza chimachokera kwa wakupha waku London chakumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1900 a Jack the Ripper.

Mu 1888, wakupha wosadziwika uyu adapha akazi asanu ndikudula matupi awo, nthawi zambiri amawabaya kapena kuwadula.

Pofufuza za kupha a Jack the Ripper mu 2005, wofufuza wina analemba kuti "kuvulala komwe anthu omwe akuchitidwawo adavulaza kumawonetsera chizindikiro cha [kunama]."

M'zaka za zana la 20, wakupha waku Russia, Andrei Chikatilo, amadziwika kuti adabaya ndi kudula omwe adamupha asanawaphe.

Kuboola kumeneku kukhoza kuti kunkamupatsa chilakolako chogonana. Pambuyo pake adapha anthu opitilira 50.

Kodi zakhala zikuwoneka mu nkhani zaposachedwa?

Mu June 2007, a Frank Ranieri, a zaka 25, adaimbidwa mlandu wopha ana achiwiri pobaya ana asanafike zaka makumi anayi m'matako ndi zinthu zakuthwa.

Mu 2011, "Serial Butt Slasher" idapangitsa ogula ku Virginia mantha pomwe adalasa azimayi asanu ndi anayi ndi malezala akuthwa kumatako awo. Pambuyo pake adaweruzidwa kuti akhale m'ndende zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri.

Kodi zidawonekapo pachikhalidwe cha pop?

Masewero apolisi pawailesi yakanema nthawi zambiri amabwereka nkhani m'manyuzipepala. Kuwonekera kwa ziwonetserozi kumatha kupanga zazing'ono kapena zokonda zomwe zimawoneka ngati zofala kuposa momwe zilili.

Mu 2001, "Law & Order: Special Victims Unit" inafotokozera zabodza m'chigawo chotchedwa "Pique."

Munkhaniyi, a psychiatrist a FBI omwe akugwira ntchito ndi apolisi amazindikira kuti wakuphayo yemwe adachita chibwenzi chogwiririra mnzake adachitidwapo zachipongwe.

M'chigawochi, sing'anga anati, "Akuvutika ndi kunama, phungu. Mpeni umaimira mbolo yake. Sichitha kutaya. ”

Kodi mungaphunzire kuti?

Mutha kudziwa zambiri ndikupeza anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofananira ngati mungalumikizane ndi gulu lanu la BDSM.

Ngati simunachite kale, onani ngati pali malo ogulitsira achikulire omwe ali ndi zokambirana kapena zokumana nazo zomwe zikubwera.

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