Mimba ndi Horny? Kuzindikira Kugonana Kwanu Pakati pa Mimba

Zamkati

• Kodi kutenga mimba kumakulitsa chidwi chanu chogonana?
• Choyamba trimester
• Trimester yachiwiri
• Wachitatu trimester
• Kodi kutenga mimba kungachepetse kugonana kwanu?
• Kodi ndizotheka kugonana panthawi yapakati?
• Malangizo pakuthana ndi chilakolako chogonana amasintha nthawi yapakati
• Maliseche
• Mitundu ina yaubwenzi
• Maudindo osiyanasiyana ogonana
• Mafuta
• Kulankhulana
• Kulandila
• Tengera kwina

Fanizo la Alyssa Kiefer

Mukumva kukwiya pambuyo powona mzere wachiphamaso? Ngakhale mungaganize kuti kukhala kholo kungathetse chilakolako chanu chogonana, zenizeni zitha kukhala zosiyana kwambiri.

Pali zochitika zingapo panthawi yapakati zomwe zitha kuwonjezera (kapena kuchepa) libido. Nazi zambiri pazomwe mungakumane nazo pa trimester iliyonse, komanso maupangiri amomwe mungathetsere zovuta zanu zatsopano.

Kodi kutenga mimba kumakulitsa chidwi chanu chogonana?

Inde, zitha kutero.

Kwa ena, chimodzi mwazizindikiro zoyambirira za mimba si matenda ammawa kapena mabere owawa, koma kumangodzimva mosayembekezereka. Ngati mwadzidzidzi mumamupatsa mnzanu mawonekedwe achigololo pa khofi yam'mawa kapena zikukuvutani kuyang'ana pa pulogalamu ya pa TV imeneyo chifukwa mukuganiza zakuchitapo kanthu - simuli nokha.

Ngakhale musanayambe kuonetsa, kutenga nthawi ndi nthawi yakusintha kwakuthupi. Chilichonse kuchokera kuma estrogen omwe akukwera nthawi zonse komanso ma progesterone mpaka kuchuluka kwa magazi ndikumverera m'mabere ndi maliseche kumatha kudzetsa milingo yayikulu.

Choyamba trimester

Ngakhale mutha kukhala otopetsa komanso osatopa m'miyezi itatu yoyambirira, mahomoni anu akuchulukirachulukira tsiku lomwelo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mawere anu ndi mawere angamveke akulu komanso omvera. Mutha kumva kulumikizidwa kwambiri ndi mnzanu.

Palinso china chomasula pakuponya njira zakulera pambali ndikungochita izi, sichoncho? Kuphatikiza apo, mwina mulibe mimba yambiri yoyambirira, choncho malo ambiri ogonana amakhala omasuka komanso otetezeka. Nzosadabwitsa kuti simungathe kusiya kuganizira za kugonana!

Trimester yachiwiri

Zovuta za mimba yoyambirira zimachepa komanso kuchepa kwa thupi moyembekezera mimba sikudafike. The trimester yachiwiri ndi nthawi yokhalira ndi pakati - ndipo imamvanso ngati tchuthi chatsopano cha moyo wanu wogonana.

Zachangu: Amayi amatenga mapaundi atatu amwazi panthawi yapakati. Ambiri mwa magaziwa amathera kumapeto kwa thupi lanu. Ndikutuluka kowonjezeraku, mutha kukhala omangika kuposa momwe mumakhalira.

Osati zokhazo, koma ziphuphu zanu zimathanso kumverera mwamphamvu ndikudikirira - mutha kukhala ndi zovuta zingapo panthawi yogonana.

Wachitatu trimester

Ndili ndi mimba yayikulu ndi zopweteka ndi zowawa, mungaganize kuti kugonana kungakhale chinthu chomaliza m'maganizo mwanu mu trimester yanu yachitatu. Osati choncho ayi. Mutha kupeza mawonekedwe anu atsopano ozungulira amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu ogonana kuposa kale. Chidaliro cha thupi chitha kufanana ndi chikhumbo chowonjezeka chobvula.

Pomwe nenani kuti zochitika zogonana zimayamba kuchepa m'masabata, pitilizani ngati mukumva ntchitoyo ndipo mutha kukhala pabwino.

Kugonana kumatha kukhala kupumula kwabwino popeza simudikira moleza mtima kuti mwana wanu abwere. Chimenecho ndi chiyani? Inde. Mwinanso mudamvapo kuti kugonana kumatha kuyambitsa ntchito.

Palidi sayansi ina yothandizira kugonana ngati njira yoyambira ntchito, koma kafukufuku ndi. Kukondoweza kwa mawere ndi zotupa zimatulutsa hormone oxytocin, yomwe ndi mtundu wachilengedwe wa pitocin (mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuwonjezera ntchito).

Prostaglandins mu umuna amathanso kuthandizira kutulutsa khomo pachibelekeropo, kumachepetsa kuti atambasuke. Palibe chifukwa chodandaula, ngakhale - kugonana sikungayambitse zinthu ngati thupi lanu silinakonzekere kale.

Kodi kutenga mimba kungachepetse kugonana kwanu?

Yankho apa ndiloti inde!

Ndizabwinobwino kusafuna chilichonse chokhudzana ndi kugonana nthawi zosiyanasiyana (kapena miyezi yonse 9). Chifukwa chimodzi ndikuti mwina simungamve monga momwe mumakhalira.

M'malo mwake, kafukufuku wokhuza kutenga pakati komanso kudziona kuti ndiwokha akuwonetsa kuti azimayi amakhala ndi ulemu wochepa m'gawo lawo lachiwiri ndikuti kuzindikira kwa thupi kumatha "kukulirakulira" m'gawo lachitatu.

Zinthu zina zomwe timasewera:

• Ndi kuchuluka kwa ma estrogen ndi progesterone mu trimester yoyamba kumabwera nseru, kusanza, ndi kutopa. Kugonana kumamveka ngati ntchito osati chinthu chosangalatsa.
• Ndi kusintha konseku komanso kusapeza bwino, malingaliro anu akhoza kukhala ponseponse. Kuyamba kukhala ndi malingaliro pomwe muli kale osasangalala kungamveke kukhala kosatheka.
• Kudandaula kuti kugonana kungayambitse kupita padera kungayambitsenso libido. Nkhani yabwino apa ndikuti akatswiri amati kugonana sikumayambitsa mimba. M'malo mwake, kupita padera nthawi zambiri kumachitika chifukwa cha zovuta za mwana wosabadwayo.
• Kuchulukitsa chidwi kumatha kupangitsa amayi ena kulakalaka zogonana. Kwa ena? Zingamveke kukhala zosasangalatsa kapena zolimba kwambiri.
• Kuponderezana pambuyo pamaliseche ndichinthu chenicheni, ndipo kumatha kukhala kosasangalatsa kokwanira kukupangitsani kuti musavutike ndi mapepala.
• Mukamayandikira ntchito, mutha kukhala ndi zochulukirachulukira ndikudandaula kuti kugonana kungayambitse ntchitoyo msanga.

Zokhudzana: Ndi kusintha kotani kwa thupi komwe mungayembekezere mukakhala ndi pakati?

Kodi ndizotheka kugonana panthawi yapakati?

Kugonana panthawi yapakati ndikotetezeka - bola ngati mulibe zovuta zina zamankhwala. Funsani dokotala ngati pali chifukwa chilichonse chomwe muyenera kupewa. Ngati sichoncho, mutha kupita nazo momwe mungafunire. Zowonadi!

Zachidziwikire, mufunika kulumikizana ndi dokotala ngati:

• Mumamva magazi mukamagonana kapena mutagonana.
• Madzi anu athyoka kapena mwatuluka madzi osadziwika.
• Muli ndi khomo pachibelekeropo (khomo pachibelekeropo) likamatseguka msanga).
• Muli ndi placenta previa (pamene placenta imakhudza gawo lililonse la chiberekero chanu).
• Muli ndi zizindikiro zakumapeto kwa ntchito kapena mbiri yakubadwa msanga.

Chidziwitso chokha: Mutha kukhala ndi nkhawa zodzipondereza mutagonana. Zimachitika kawirikawiri, makamaka mu trimester yachitatu. Apanso, chilichonse kuyambira pakukoka kwamabele mpaka pamalungo mpaka mahomoni a prostaglandin omwe ali mu umuna wa mnzanu atha kukhala chifukwa.

Zovuta zimayenera kupumula ndi kupumula. Ngati sichoncho, kambiranani ndi dokotala wanu.

Ndipo ngakhale kuteteza mimba sikudetsa nkhawa panthawiyi (mwachiwonekere!), Mudzafuna kupitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu kuti muteteze kufalikira kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana ngati simuli pachibwenzi kapena mukasankha kugonana ndi mnzanu watsopano.

Malangizo pakuthana ndi chilakolako chogonana amasintha nthawi yapakati

Kaya mukumverera ngati mulungu wamkazi wogonana kapena, chabwino, ayi mwanjira iliyonse, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zanu. Mwinanso mutha kuwona kuti chikhumbo chanu chogonana chimasinthasintha tsiku ndi tsiku. (Zikomo, kukwera ndi kutsika kwa ma hormone!)

Maliseche

Simukusowa mnzanu kuti mupite. Kudzilimbitsa kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa nthawi yapakati. Ndipo - gawo labwino kwambiri - mutha kuzichita nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna.

Kuchita maliseche ndi njira yabwino yodziwira thupi lanu lomwe likusintha. Zosangalatsa zingathandizenso kusokoneza zina mwazizindikiro zosasangalatsa zomwe mukukumana nazo, monga matenda am'mawa, kupweteka kwa msana, mwendo ndi mapazi kutupa, ndi zina zosasangalatsa.

Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito zidole zogonana, onetsetsani kuti muzitsuka bwino ndikumagwiritsa ntchito kulikonse komanso kuti mukhale odekha mukamasewera.

Mitundu ina yaubwenzi

Sikuti kugonana konse kuyenera kukhala ndi kulowa. Mungafune kukumbatirana kapena kukumbatirana. Chitani kutikita minofu kapena kumpsompsona.

Palinso china chomwe chimatchedwa kugonana kosamalitsa komwe kumayang'ana pachinthu chomwe chimatchedwa "sensate focus," kugwira kapena kukhudza. Mchitidwewu umalimbikitsa kukondera motsutsana ndi kugonana.

Kuti muchite nawo, mutha kuvala kapena kuvala. Sanjani mnzake kuti akhale wopereka ndipo wina akhale wolandila. Kuchokera pamenepo, mutha kuyang'ana momwe kukhudzika kwakanthawi kosiyanasiyana m'malo osiyanasiyana amthupi kumamverera.

Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, kumbukirani kuti zogonana ndizokhudza kukondana. Zomverera zakuthupi zitha kukhala zabwino kwambiri, koma kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe kumakhalanso kosangalatsa.

Maudindo osiyanasiyana ogonana

Apanso, malo ambiri ogonana amakhala otetezeka mpaka mukafika mwezi wachinayi wapakati. Pakadali pano, malo omwe mwagona pansi kumbuyo kwanu (mmishonale, mwachitsanzo) atha kukhala osasangalatsa ndikuyika nkhawa pamitsempha yamagazi yofunikira yomwe imabweretsa zakudya ndi mpweya kwa mwana wanu. Yesetsani zomwe zimamveka bwino.

Mutha kuyesa:

• Mkazi pamwamba. Zomwe zimamveka, malowa amakulolani kuti muzitha kuwongolera komanso kumasula mimba yanu. Mutha kuyika mayendedwe mwachangu kapena pang'onopang'ono kapena kusunthira m'malo ena motere.
• Mkazi pazinayi zonse. Dzikhazikitseni nokha m'manja ndi m'mabondo ndikulola mimba yanu ipachike. Izi zimakonda kugwira ntchito bwino m'nthawi yoyamba komanso yachiwiri, mimba yanu isanalemere kwambiri.
• Mbali kapena supuni. Kuti muwonjezere thandizo lanu mukakhala ndi pakati, yesani kuyala chammbali ndi mnzanu kulowa kumbuyo. Udindowu umakulepheretsani kulumikizana ndi mimbayi komanso mimba, ndipo kumakupatsani mpumulo. Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito mapilo kuti musinthe chithandizo.

Mafuta

Mutha kumva kunyowa kwachilengedwe panthawi yapakati. Ngati sichoncho, mafuta oyenera amatha kuthandizira kuti zinthu zizikhala bwino komanso zosavuta. Khungu lanu limathanso kukhala lodziwika bwino panthawiyi, chifukwa chake mungafune kuyang'ana mafuta am'madzi omwe samakhumudwitsa kapena kubweretsa matenda.

Kulankhulana

Lankhulani ndi mnzanu kawirikawiri za momwe mukumvera pankhani yokhudzana ndi kugonana kwanu. Mukufuna zambiri? Lankhulani izi. Mukufuna kubwerera? Bweretsani kuti mukambirane. Ngati kuyankhula zakugonana sikumasangalatsa, kuyesera kuti mubweretse mawu oti "Ndikumva" kuti mupite.

Mwachitsanzo, “Ndimamva nseru komanso ndatopa posachedwa. Sindikufuna kugonana pakali pano. " Mukayamba kulumikizana momasuka, nonse mutha kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mupeze china chomwe chingagwire ntchito mulimonse momwe mungakhalire.

Kulandila

Pewani kudziweruza nokha momwe mumamvera - horny kapena ayi. Mimba ndi nyengo imodzi yokha yachikondi chanu. Momwe mukumvera zikusintha mosalekeza ndipo zipitilizabe kusintha kwa moyo wanu wonse popeza zochitika zosiyanasiyana zimabwera ndikupita.

Yesetsani kupita nawo, musangalale ndi ulendowu, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mwapeza thandizo ngati mukumva kuti mukufuna. Nthawi zina kucheza ndi bwenzi labwino kungakuthandizeni kuti musamakhale nokha.

Zokhudzana: Kuchita maliseche panthawi yapakati: Zili bwino?

Tengera kwina

Ngati mukumverera bwino kwambiri, mutha kupezerapo mwayi pazowonjezera zomwe mimba imapereka. Kaya mukumangokhalira kukwatirana ndi mnzanu kapena mukungodya nthawi yosangalala, lolani nthawi kuti musangalale ndi thupi lanu.

Mimba iliyonse imakhala yosiyana, chifukwa chake yesani kukumbukira kuti chikhumbo chanu chopanga chikondi ndichapadera pazomwe mukukumana nazo pakadali pano.

Palibe njira yolondola kapena yolakwika yochitira zogonana panthawi yapakati. Chinsinsi chake ndikuti njira yolumikizirana izikhala yotseguka ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikupeza china chake chomwe chingakuthandizeni.