Matenda Aakulu Anandichititsa Kukwiya Komanso Kutalikirana. Izi Zolemba 8 Zasintha Moyo Wanga.
Zamkati
- “Kulankhula za mavuto athu ndiye chizolowezi chathu chachikulu. Siyani chizoloŵezicho. Nenani zakusangalatsani kwanu. ” - Rita Schiano
- Udzu umakhala wobiriwira nthawi zonse mukamathirira madzi. ” - Neil Barringham
- "Tsiku lililonse silingakhale labwino, koma pali zabwino tsiku lililonse." - Osadziwika
- “Njira yanga itha kukhala yosiyana, koma ine sindisokera” - Osadziwika
- Nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo ndi pamene mungapeze kulimba mtima kuti musiye zomwe simungathe kuzisintha. " - Osadziwika
- “Zonse zikhala bwino pamapeto pake. Ngati sizili bwino, sindiwo mathero. " - John Lennon
- "Mwapatsidwa moyo uno chifukwa muli ndi mphamvu zowukhalira." - Osadziwika
- "Ndawona masiku abwinoko, koma ndawonanso zoyipa. Ndilibe zonse zomwe ndikufuna, koma ndili ndi zonse zomwe ndikufuna. Ndinadzuka ndili ndi zowawa koma ndimadzuka. Moyo wanga sungakhale wangwiro, koma ndadalitsidwa. ” - Osadziwika
Nthawi zina mawu amakhala ndi zithunzi chikwi.
Thanzi ndi thanzi zimakhudza aliyense wa ife mosiyanasiyana. Iyi ndi nkhani ya munthu m'modzi.
Kumva kuthandizidwa mokwanira mukadwala matenda osawoneka bwino kungaoneke ngati kosatheka, makamaka popeza matenda okhalitsa amakhala okhalitsa ndipo atha kusintha moyo wanu.
Sindinaganize kuti ndingadzimve kukhala wothandizidwa ndi wamtendere monga momwe ndiliri tsopano.
Ndidakhala moyo wanga wonse ndikusungulumwa, kusungulumwa, komanso kukwiya chifukwa cha momwe moyo wanga udawonongera matenda anga. Zidawononga kwambiri thanzi lam'mutu mwanga komanso thanzi langa, makamaka chifukwa matenda anga omwe ndimadzichitira okha amayamba chifukwa chopsinjika.
Zaka zingapo zapitazo, ndidadzipereka kuti ndisinthe moyo wanga m'njira yabwino. M'malo modandaula kuti ndikudwala matenda osatha, ndimafuna kupeza njira yodzimvera.
Ma Quotes, mottos, ndi mawu ena omaliza adakwaniritsa gawo lalikulu pakusintha kumeneku. Ndidafunikira zikumbutso zanthawi zonse kuti zindithandizire kuvomereza zenizeni zanga, kuyesetsa kuyamikira, ndikundikumbutsa kuti zinali bwino kumva momwe ndidamvera.
Chifukwa chake, ndidayamba kupanga zikwangwani zoti ndiziyika pamakoma anga ndi magalasi, ndikuwadzaza ndi mawu omwe amandithandiza kuchotsa malingaliro omwe ndidakhala nawo moyo wanga wonse.
Nazi zinthu zisanu ndi zitatu zomwe ndimakonda:
“Kulankhula za mavuto athu ndiye chizolowezi chathu chachikulu. Siyani chizoloŵezicho. Nenani zakusangalatsani kwanu. ” - Rita Schiano
Ngakhale zingakhale zovuta ayi kuti ndiganizire zowawa zathupi komanso kutopa komwe ndimamva, pali zochepa zokha zomwe ndinganene za izo ndisanayambe kudzipweteka ndekha mopanda tanthauzo.
Ndapeza kuti ndikofunikabe kuyankhula zamoto ndikumva kudwala kowonjezera, koma ndikofunikira kusiya. Kupwetekako ndikowona komanso kovomerezeka, koma nditatha kunena zomwe ndiyenera kunena, zimandithandizira kuti ndizingoyang'ana zabwino.
Udzu umakhala wobiriwira nthawi zonse mukamathirira madzi. ” - Neil Barringham
Kudziyerekezera ndi ena kunandipangitsa kumva kuti ndili ndekha kwambiri. Mawu awa andithandiza kukumbukira kuti aliyense ali ndi mavuto, ngakhale iwo omwe udzu wawo umawoneka wobiriwira.
M'malo molakalaka udzu wobiriwira wa wina, ndimapeza njira zopangira kuti ndikhale wobiriwira.
"Tsiku lililonse silingakhale labwino, koma pali zabwino tsiku lililonse." - Osadziwika
Masiku omwe ndimakhala ngati sindingathe kubwezeranso, kapena ngakhale omwe ndimawopa kuyambira pomwe ndimadzuka, ndimayesetsa nthawi zonse kudzikakamiza kuti ndipeze 'chabwino' chimodzi tsiku lililonse.
Zomwe ndaphunzira ndikuti zilipo nthawi zonse zabwino, koma nthawi zambiri, timasokonezedwa kwambiri kuti tiwone. Kuzindikira zazing'ono zomwe zimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wamtengo wapatali, moona mtima, kungasinthe moyo mwawokha.
“Njira yanga itha kukhala yosiyana, koma ine sindisokera” - Osadziwika
Ndimakumbukira mawu awa nthawi zambiri ndikakhala kuti sindimasewera. Ndakhala ndikupita kukachita zinthu zina mosiyana ndi anthu ambiri kwanthawi yayitali - imodzi mwaposachedwa kwambiri yomwe ndimaliza maphunziro awo ku koleji kumapeto kwa chaka chathunthu.
Nthawi zina, ndinkadziona kuti ndine wosakwanira poyerekeza ndi anzanga, koma ndinazindikira kuti sindili awo njira, ine ndiri pa zanga. Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti nditha kupyola popanda aliyense wondisonyeza momwe zimachitikira poyamba.
Nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo ndi pamene mungapeze kulimba mtima kuti musiye zomwe simungathe kuzisintha. " - Osadziwika
Kuvomereza kuti matenda anga sakupita (lupus pakadali pano alibe mankhwala) chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe ndidachitapo.
Kupweteka ndi kuzunzika komwe kumadza ndikulingalira zomwe matenda anga adzatanthauze m'tsogolo mwanga kunali kwakukulu ndipo kunandipangitsa kumva ngati kuti sindingathe kuwongolera moyo wanga. Monga momwe mawuwa akunenera, kukhala ndi kulimba mtima kuti musiye mphamvu zowonera ndikofunikira.
Zomwe tingachite kuti tikhale pamtendere tikamakumana ndi matenda osachiritsika ndikuti tidziwitse kuti sizomwe tili nazo m'manja mwathu.
“Zonse zikhala bwino pamapeto pake. Ngati sizili bwino, sindiwo mathero. " - John Lennon
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazomwe ndimakonda chifukwa zimapereka chiyembekezo chambiri. Pakhala pali nthawi zambiri zomwe ndakhala ndikumverera ngati sindidzamva bwino kuposa momwe ndimamvera munthawiyo. Kupanga tsiku lotsatira kumawoneka ngati kosatheka.
Koma sikunali kutha, ndipo ndakhala ndikudutsa nthawi zonse.
"Mwapatsidwa moyo uno chifukwa muli ndi mphamvu zowukhalira." - Osadziwika
Mawu awa nthawi zonse akhala akundilimbikitsa kuti ndizindikire mphamvu zanga. Zinandithandiza kuti ndizidzikhulupirira ndekha ndikuyamba kudziona kuti ndine munthu 'wamphamvu', osati zinthu zonse zomwe ndimadziuza kuti ndinali chifukwa cha matenda anga osachiritsika.
"Ndawona masiku abwinoko, koma ndawonanso zoyipa. Ndilibe zonse zomwe ndikufuna, koma ndili ndi zonse zomwe ndikufuna. Ndinadzuka ndili ndi zowawa koma ndimadzuka. Moyo wanga sungakhale wangwiro, koma ndadalitsidwa. ” - Osadziwika
Limodzi mwa maluso ofunikira kwambiri omwe ndimagwiritsa ntchito ndikakhala ndi tsiku loipa ndikupeza kuyamikira zinthu zazing'ono kwambiri.Ndimakonda mawuwa chifukwa amandikumbutsa kuti ndisatenge chilichonse, ngakhale kungodzuka m'mawa.
Kuyambira ndili mwana mpaka kukula, ndinkasungira thupi langa chifukwa chosagwirizana ndi moyo womwe ndimafuna kukhala nawo.
Ndinkafuna kukhala pamalo osewerera, osadwala pakama. Ndinkafuna kudzakhala pachionetsero ndi anzanga, osati kunyumba ndi chibayo. Ndinafuna kukhala wopambana m'maphunziro anga aku koleji, osapita kuzipatala kukayezetsa ndi kulandira chithandizo.
Ndidayesera kufotokoza zakukhosi kwa anzanga komanso abale pazaka zambiri, ngakhale kunena zowona ndikumachita nsanje ndi thanzi lawo labwino. Kukhala nawo kundiuza kuti amvetsetsa kunandipangitsa kumva bwino pang'ono, koma mpumulowo sunakhalitse.
Matenda atsopano aliwonse, kuphonya zochitika, ndi kuchezera kuchipatala zimandibweretsera kumva kuti ndili ndekha.
Ndinkafuna wina yemwe azingondikumbutsa nthawi zonse kuti zinali bwino kuti thanzi langa silabwino, komanso kuti nditha kukhala ndi moyo kwathunthu. Zinanditengera kanthawi kuti ndim'peze, koma ndikudziwa tsopano kuti alipo ine.
Podziwonetsera ndekha tsiku ndi tsiku m'mawu ndi mawu ena othandizira, ndinatsutsa mkwiyo wonse, nsanje, ndi chisoni mkati mwanga kuti ndipeze machiritso m'mawu a ena - osafunikira wina aliyense kuti awakhulupirire iwo ndikundikumbutsa, kupatula ine.
Sankhani kuyamika, siyani moyo wanu womwe mwina matenda anu adakutengerani, pezani njira zokhalira moyo wofananira m'njira yovomerezeka kwa inu, kudzimvera chisoni, ndikudziwa kuti kumapeto kwa tsiku, zonse zidzachitika khalani bwino.
Sitingasinthe matenda athu, koma titha kusintha malingaliro athu.
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