Kodi Muyenera Kukhala Mabwenzi ndi Wakale wakale?

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Mwina mtunda wautali sunagwire bwino ntchito monga mumayembekezera. Kapena mwinamwake munangolekana mwachibadwa. Ngati palibe chochitika chowopsa chomwe chinapangitsa kuti nonse musiyane, mutha kuyesedwa kuti mulumikizane, a la. Idina Menzel ndipo Taye Diggs, amene amati akukonzekera kukhala pafupi pambuyo pa chisudzulo.

Koma ngakhale ali ndi zolinga zabwino, akatswiri akuchenjeza kuti mwina si bwino. "Ngakhale nthawi zomwe chisankho chitha kukhala chofanana, munthu m'modzi nthawi zonse amakhala ndi malingaliro amphamvu kuposa mnzake," akuchenjeza Lisa Thomas, wothandizira ubale wachigawo ku Denver. "Kuwonanabe koma kusakhala pamodzi kumatha kubweretsa malingaliro ambiri ndipo wina amatha kupwetekedwa."

Izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kumuwononga kwathunthu ngakhale kuti kulibe. Apa, momwe mungathanirane ndi wakale wanu pamene zinthu zitatu izi "zochezeka" zimachitika. [Twitani upangiri uwu!]

Party Run-In

Ngati inu ndi iye muli ndi macheza ambiri, kumupewa ndikosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita. Kukhala ndi pulani-bwenzi lomwe lingalowerere kapena mndandanda wa mitu yomwe mungakambirane-ndikofunikira, makamaka kwa miyezi ingapo yoyambirira, atero a Thomas. "Kudziwa zomwe udzachite pasadakhale kumapangitsa kuti zisamakukope kwambiri, ndipo uyambiranso chifukwa cha nthawi zakale miyambo. "

Alandireni a Hangout

Ngakhale kuli kokopa kugunda malo odyera aku India omwe nonse mumawakonda, dzifunseni momwe madzulo angapindulire inu-makamaka ngati mukuchita ndi wakale wakale waposachedwa. Ngati mukufuna kubwererana, kapena mukufuna kuthetsa zinthu mwaulemu, ndi bwino kuti mumudziwitse, akutero Thomas. "Koma mukamakhala nthawi yochuluka mukucheza ndi bwenzi lanu lakale, mukuphonya mwayi wokula, osanenapo kuti mukudzitsekera ku zibwenzi zina," akukumbutsa a Thomas. Ngati ndiwakale wakale, kugwidwa mwachidule ndikwabwino-ingolowani osayembekezera.

Kulumikizana Mwangozi

Chifukwa chakuti ubongo wanu umamvetsetsa chifukwa chake kulekanako kunali kofunikira sizitanthauza kuti thupi lanu lidzatsatiranso, kuchenjeza a Karen Ruskin, wolemba Buku Laukwati la Dr. Karen. Ngakhale kuti kugona limodzi sikusintha momwe wina wa inu amamvera za kupatukana, mwachibadwa kupenekera kachiwiri kapena kukayikira zinthu, makamaka ngati usiku unali wabwino, iye akutero. Ichi ndichifukwa chake muyenera kutsatira kuyanjanitsa kulikonse kotere ndi nthawi yozizirira kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake zidachitika. Kodi ndichifukwa choti nonse mwangokhala pamalo amodzi? Kodi chinali chifukwa chakuti nonse mukufuna mwayi wachiwiri pa chibwenzi? Chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe, onetsetsani kuti mukambirana masana, zovala zikakhala, akutero a Ruskin.

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