Momwe Mungachitire Mukadwala Ngati Galu Kusamalira Mwana Wanu Wobadwa kumene

Zamkati

• 1. Kunena zodziwikiratu poyamba: Itanani dokotala wanu
• 2. Musachite mantha kuti mwana wanu angadwale
• 3. Ngati mukuyamwitsa, musayime
• 4. Pezani thandizo (tikutanthauza!)
• 5. Zisiyeni zizipita
• 6. Kumbukirani, izi nazonso zidzachitika

Muyenera kuti mudakhala nthawi yayitali mukakhala ndi pakati mukufufuza njira zotetezera chitetezo cha mwana wanu watsopano. Ndinu anthu chabe ndipo thanzi la mwana wanu ndilo vuto lanu loyamba!

Koma zomwe sunayembekezere zinali zakuti ukhale iwe amene umatha kudwala ukakhala ndi mwana watsopano pakhomo.

Ugh, mitsempha ya chilengedwe chonse! Koma tiyeni tiwone izi: Muyenera kudziyikira nokha pa izi.

Kaya mumadzuka ndikumva kuti mwadwalidwa ndi mliriwo, kapena kuti kumakomera kukhosi kwanu kumangopanga, zonse zimakhala zopweteka mwana wanu atakhala watsopano padziko lapansi. Pamene mwayi sunakuthandizeni, takupatsani maupangiri okuthandizani kuthana (ndi kuchira) mukadwala ndi mwana wakhanda.

1. Kunena zodziwikiratu poyamba: Itanani dokotala wanu

Ngakhale mwana wanu wamwamuna wankhondo asanabadwe kunkhondo sangakhale kuti adamulembera kwa dokotala koyambirira kochepa kapena kupweteka, ali ndi mwana, zinthu zimasintha. Ndinu wankhondo koma kupeza matenda oyenera ndikofunikira. Muyenera kudziwa zomwe mukulimbana nazo kuti mudziwe momwe muyenera kusamalirira pofalitsa majeremusi kwa mwana wanu wakhanda.

Ngakhale sizoyenera konse kupatsa mwana watsopano mtundu wa majeremusi omwe mumanyamula mukadwala, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pakuwapatsa kachilomboka kakang'ono ka omwe amapumula ndikuwapatsa kachilombo ka m'mimba komwe kumawasiya atataya madzi ambiri.

Mukayamba kubwera ndi china chake, kulowa mwachangu ndi dokotala kungakuthandizeni kudziwa momwe mungachitire zochepetsera majeremusi omwe angakumane ndi mwana wanu.

2. Musachite mantha kuti mwana wanu angadwale

Kunena mopepuka, tikudziwa, chifukwa sizachilendo kuti nkhawa yanu yoyamba ndi yokhudza kuteteza mwana wanu kuti asakole zomwe muli nazo. Zachidziwikire, pakhoza kukhala zochitika zina pomwe mungafunikire kuchepetsa kulumikizana ndi mwana wanu, koma dotolo wanu angakulangizeni ngati zili choncho.

Bwererani kuzoyambira ndikukhala ndi zizolowezi zosamba m'manja ndikuchepetsa kulumikizana ndi manja ndi pakamwa pang'ono (yesetsani kuti musawapsompsone). Izi zithandizira kuteteza mwana wanu.

3. Ngati mukuyamwitsa, musayime

Ngati mukuyamwitsa mwana wanu, chimodzi mwa zinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale wathanzi ndikupitirizabe. Matupi athu ndiabwino kwambiri, chifukwa chake mukadwala, thupi lanu likhala logwira ntchito popanga ma antibodies. Ma antibodies ku matenda anu ndiye ndiye.

Ngati mukudandaula za unamwino woyandikira kwambiri (kapena simungathe kudzuka pabedi), ganizirani kupopera. Mnzanu kapena wothandizira atha kudyetsa mwana wanu pabotolo mukamapeza mpumulo wofunikira.

Mkaka wa m'mawere sungapereke mtundu wa majeremusi omwe amayambitsa matenda osakhalitsa, chifukwa chake simuyenera kuda nkhawa kuti tizilombo todetsa mkaka wanu.

4. Pezani thandizo (tikutanthauza!)

Ziribe kanthu mtundu wamtundu wothandizira womwe muli nawo - mnzanu, wachibale, bwenzi- ino ndi nthawi yoti muthandizidwe. Auzeni momwe mukumvera, pemphani kuti akuthandizeni, ndiyeno muwalole kuti azitsogolera pa chilichonse chomwe angathe pamene mukupuma. Tikudziwa, ndizovuta, koma mumafunikira!

Ndi mwana wakhanda mnyumba, mwayi ndikuti aliyense akumva kuti watopa kale. Koma ndi inu kwakanthawi kochepa kuwerengera, adzayenera kupeza mphamvu kuti akhale stellar bwenzi / bwenzi / agogo mpaka mutakhala bwino (o, ndipo atha kuthandizabe ngakhale mutakhala bwino).

5. Zisiyeni zizipita

Apa pali chowonadi: Zinthu zidzakhala pang'ono (Chabwino, mwina zochuluka) zosokoneza ngati mukudwala ndi mwana wakhanda. Ndizovuta kuwona mbale zikuwunjikana komanso kuchuluka kwa inchi yonyansa pafupi ndi denga, koma uwu ndi mwayi wanu wosinthitsa imodzi mwa maluso ovuta kwambiri aubereki: kulekerera.

Lolani mbale zikhale. Lolani zovala ziunjike. Lolani nyumba yanu isokonezeke ndipo dziwani kuti muzibwezeretsa posachedwa. Ngati mupatsa kupumula patsogolo, mudzadzimva ngati inunso posachedwa ndipo mudzatha kuthana ndi zovuta pambuyo pake.

6. Kumbukirani, izi nazonso zidzachitika

Ndiwe womvetsa chisoni. Mukufuna mphamvu yanu. Mukufuna kumva bwino. Mukufuna kudzuka pabedi ndikukhala moyo wanu. O, ndipo samalirani mwana wanu wakhanda! Ingokumbukirani, monga magawo onse ovuta kwambiri polerera ana, nawonso apita.

Ngati muli ndi mwana wakhanda m'manja ndi thermometer pansi pa inayo, timakumverani. Palibe nthawi yoyipa kwambiri yodwala kuposa pomwepo mutangobweretsa mwana kunyumba koma, mothandizidwa pang'ono, kusamba m'manja kambiri, kupsompsonana pang'ono kwa mwana, kuleza mtima pang'ono, ndi kupumula kochuluka komwe mungakhale pakapita nthawi. Ngati mukufuna kudzamvanso: INU mwalandira ichi.

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