Tate Watsopano Wotenga: Kugonana Koyamba Akatha Khanda

Zamkati

• 1. Osayika kuwerengera kalendala
• 2. Akumbutseni kuti ndi wokongola
• 3. Nthawi ikapita, pitani gingerly
• 4. Sakanizani
• 5. Kulankhulana, kulankhulana, kulankhulana

Chizindikiro cha Pro: Osabanki pakubvomera kwa dokotala pamasabata 6 kuti awone kuwala kobiriwira. Lankhulani ndi munthu amene wangobereka kumene.

Ndisanakhale bambo, zogonana ndi mkazi wanga nthawi zonse zinali pa docket. Koma mwana wathu atangofika, chibwenzi mwachangu chinagwa pansi pazomwe timachita. Tidali kuyika patsogolo kusintha kwa thewera usana ndi usiku, kusonkhanitsa zida za ana, ndikujambula zithunzi zosayima za mwana wathu mumayendedwe owoneka bwino osatha.

Poyamba, ndinalibe nthawi kapena mphamvu zoti ndingaganizire zogonana. Koma. Ndine munthu chabe, ndipo posakhalitsa chilakolakocho chinabweranso ndi kubwezera.

Panali funso limodzi lalikulu lomwe linali m'maganizo mwanga: Kodi mkazi wanga anali wokonzeka, inenso? Amayang'ana kwambiri mwana wathu, atatopa ndiubaba, ndikubwera posintha ndi thupi lake.

Sindinadziwe kuti ndi liti (kapena ngati) kunali koyenera kunena kuti, "Tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito nthawi yopuma ya mwana pogwira ntchito zina ife nthawi. ” Sindinkafuna kuoneka wopanikizika kapena osamumvera chisoni pazosowa zake zazikulu, koma ndimangonena moona mtima ndekha: Ndinafuna kuyambiranso kugonana.

Ndipo nkhani yabwino kwa makolo atsopano omwe sanagonepo milungu ingapo: Zichitika. Koma kubweretsanso kukondana mutalandira mwana m'moyo wanu kumatenga nthawi komanso kuleza mtima. Mwina mungalakwitse zina panjira - ndipo ndizabwino.

Pofuna kukupewetsani zolakwitsa zingapo, ndikugawana maupangiri asanu omwe adandithandizira ine ndi mkazi wanga kubwerera kuchipinda (kapena sofa ngati mwana wanu akugona mchipinda chanu).

1. Osayika kuwerengera kalendala

Malingaliro oyenera ochokera kwa omwe amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala ndikuti mudikire masabata 4 mpaka 6 musanayambe kugonana. Koma awa amangokhala malangizo wamba pokhudzana ndi kuchira kwa wokondedwa wanu.

Ngakhale mnzanu atapatsidwa mwayi wopita kwa dokotala, iyenso ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kutengeka, nayenso. Ngati amayi sakuzimva pazifukwa zina, osakankha - kuyika chiwerengerochi koyamba mutangobereka kumene mwana kumangowonjezera kupsinjika kwa mkhalidwe wovuta kale.

2. Akumbutseni kuti ndi wokongola

Ndinadziwonera ndekha kuti amayi atsopano samva bwino atakhala ndi mwana. Zinthu ndizosiyana kwa iwo. Osanenapo, kusowa tulo kumawononga zenizeni. (Ndipo abambo, titatha kugona tulo, chakudya chakunyamuka, ndi maulendo atalephera opita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, sitimva bwino momwemonso.)

Koma zomwe tikufuna kuti amayi atsopano azindikire ndikuti kumuwonera kukhala mayi kwa mwana wanu ndichimodzi mwazinthu zachiwerewere zomwe mudawonapo. Chifukwa chake, muuzeni kuti ndiwokongola.

Ndizowona, ndipo akuyenera kumva.

3. Nthawi ikapita, pitani gingerly

Mnzanu akamadzimva wokonzeka, ndizabwino, koma musayembekezere kugonana kwamasiku asanakwane mwana. Zinthu zidzakhala zosiyana.

Ngati akuyamwitsa, mawere ake atha kutupa ndi mkaka ndipo mawere ake sanamvepo kupweteka koteroko. Gwirani mosamala. Mungafune kupewa dera lonselo. Ndipo musatulukemo ngati mkaka uliwonse watuluka. Ndizachilengedwe kwathunthu. Ino ndi nthawi yabwino yongoseka.

Zikafika kumaliseche, samalani kwambiri. Zimatengera nthawi kuti muchiritse mukakhala ndi mwana komanso malo amtundu wa mnzanuyo atha kukhalabe ofewa komanso atachira. Kuphatikiza apo, azimayi ambiri amakhala ndi vuto louma pambuyo pobereka, zomwe zimatha kupangitsa kugonana kukhala kosasangalatsa kapena kopweteka. Gwiritsani mafuta.

Ngati zinthu zimakhala zosasangalatsa kapena zopweteka kwa mnzanu, muyenera kuyimitsa nthawi yanu yogonana. Pitani mukasambe ozizira m'malo mwake. Kapena pangani luso ndi mafuta osagwiritsidwa ntchito.

4. Sakanizani

Inde, mutha kukhalabe osangalala pabedi, koma mwina simungathe kuchita zonse zomwe mumakonda kuchita nthawi yomweyo. Yambani pang'onopang'ono ndikubwerera kuzinthu zoyambira. Ganizirani zamitundu ina yolimbikitsira musanagonane ndi abambo.

Muyenera kuyesa malo atsopano kuti mupeze zomwe zili zabwino komanso zosangalatsa kwa mnzanu. Ino ndi nthawi yabwino yokambirana momasuka komanso momasuka za zomwe zili zabwino kwa nonse.

5. Kulankhulana, kulankhulana, kulankhulana

Izi sizongokhala nsonga yakugonananso. Ichi ndi choloza choti muzitsatira pachilichonse chokhala kholo. Mukayamba kubweretsanso lingaliro logonana mutakhala makolo, chofunikira ndikulankhulana ndi mnzanu momwe mungathere.

Mpira uli kubwalo lake, ndipo onetsetsani kuti akudziwa kuti mudzadikirira mpaka atakonzeka. Chitani khama lowonjezekali kuti mumupangitse kumva kukhala wokongola monga momwe wakhala akukhalira. Pitani pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo musawope kupanga zosintha pamachitidwe anu ogonana musanabadwe. Musanadziwe, inu ndi mnzanu mudzabwereranso mu poyambira panu.

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