Ndinkaopa Kusiya Mwana Wanga wamkazi Akusewera Mpira. Ananditsutsa.

Zamkati

• Zifukwa zanga zokayikira
• Momwe ndidazindikira kuti ndimalakwitsa
• Choyamba chokhudza touchdowns zambiri
• Kuswa zopinga ndikuwonjezera kudzidalira

Nthawi yampira ikamayandikira, ndikukumbutsidwanso momwe mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka 7 amakonda kusewera masewerawa.

"Cayla, ukufuna kusewera mpira Kugwa uku?" Ndimamufunsa.

“Ayi amayi. Njira yokhayo yomwe ndingasewerere mpira ndi ngati mungandilole kusewera mpira, inenso. Inu mukudziwa Ndikufuna kusewera mpira, ”akuyankha.

Akunena zowona. Ine chitani mukudziwa. Adaziwonetsa bwino pamunda msimu watha.

Inali nthawi yoyamba kusewera. Ngakhale ine ndi amuna anga talola mwana wathu wamwamuna wazaka 9 kuti azisewera mbendera kuyambira ali ndi zaka 5, ndimavutika ndikuloleza mwana wanga wamkazi kusewera.

Panali zifukwa zingapo zokayika.

Zifukwa zanga zokayikira

Pongoyambira, chitetezo chinali vuto lalikulu. Chitetezo ndichifukwa chake sindinagulitsidwe kwathunthu pa mpira wamwamuna, mwina. Mwamseri, ndimalakalaka baseball ndi basketball zikhala zokwanira kwa iye.

Makhalidwe ake anali chinthu china chomwe ndinali kuda nkhawa nacho. Monga msungwana yekhayo pagulu lake, komanso m'modzi mwa atsikana okhawo mu ligi, angapeze abwenzi? Osangokhala ochezeka okha, koma maubwenzi okhalitsa omwe ana amakhala nawo pagulu lamasewera.

Kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yowongoka, ndimaganizira zifukwa zonse zomwe sindinamulole kuti azisewera. Nthawi yonseyi, Cayla ankatipempha kuti timulembetse. "Tidzawona," bambo ake amamuuza, akundiyang'ana ndikuseka komwe kumatanthauza kuti: "Umadziwa mpira uli m'magazi a ana. Kumbukirani kuti ndidasewera ku koleji? ”

Ndinkayankha mokweza mawu kuti: “Ndikudziwa. Sindikukonzeka kudzipereka kuti 'inde' pakadali pano. "

Momwe ndidazindikira kuti ndimalakwitsa

Pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo tikumangirira ndi kusoka, Cayla adandiwongolera kuti: "Ben akusewera mpira. Mungamulole bwanji azisewera osati ine, Amayi? ”

Sindinali wotsimikiza momwe ndingayankhire izi. Chowonadi nchakuti, chaka chilichonse Ben amasewera mpira wamiyala, pomwe ndimakumbatira masewerawa. Momwe ndimakondera kumuyang'ana. Ndikamacheza nawo kwambiri pachisangalalo chake chokhudza nyengo yatsopano.

Kuphatikiza apo, Cayla anali atasewera kale mpira ndi T-ball pamatimu omwe anali ndi anyamata ambiri. Sanapweteke. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndiwothamanga kuyambira pomwe adayamba kuyenda - mwachangu, molumikizana, mwamakani, komanso mwamphamvu chifukwa cha msinkhu wake wawung'ono. Osanena za mpikisano, zoyendetsedwa, komanso zofulumira kuphunzira malamulo.

Momwe amandikankhira kuti ndiyankhe chifukwa chake mchimwene wake amatha kusewera mpira, koma osati iye, ndidazindikira kuti ndilibe chifukwa chomveka. M'malo mwake, ndimaganizira kwambiri za izi, ndimazindikira kuti ndinali wachinyengo. Ndimadziona ngati wachikazi, wofanana pakati pa akazi munjira zonse. Ndiye ndichifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kusokera pamutuwu?

Ndidadzimva kuti ndimalakwitsa chifukwa ndidasewera mu ligi yamapaki ya anyamata pomwe ndinali pasukulu ya galamala, chifukwa kudalibe tchuthi cha atsikana mtawuni yanga panthawiyo. Ndinali wolimba mtima, ndipo ndinali nditacheza ndi anyamata komanso atsikana. Ndinayambanso kukonda masewera enaake amene pamapeto pake ndinayamba kusewera ku koleji.

Chomwe chinandilimbikitsa kwambiri ndi pomwe ndidakumbukira momwe makolo anga adandilolera kusewera nawo. Zomwe adandilimbikitsa kuchita zonse zomwe ndingathe, ndipo osandilola kuganiza kuti sindinali wokwanira chifukwa choti ndinali munthu wamfupi kwambiri komanso msungwana yekhayo pabwalo. Ndinakumbukira kumva momwe amakondera kuwonera masewerawa.

Chifukwa chake, ndidaganiza zowatsata.

Choyamba chokhudza touchdowns zambiri

Titasaina Cayla, adampopa. Chinthu choyamba chomwe adachita ndikupanga kubetcha ndi mchimwene wake kuti awone omwe angakhudzidwe kwambiri nyengo yonseyi. Izi zidawonjezera chidwi chake.

Sindidzaiwala zakumenyedwa kwake koyamba. Kukhazikika kwa nkhope yake kunali kwamtengo wapatali. Pamene dzanja lake laling'onoting'ono linali ndi kakang'ono - komabe kakulu kwambiri - mpira, womugwera pamanja, adangoyang'anitsitsa diso lakumapeto. Anadula osewera angapo otetezera, miyendo yake yayifupi koma yamphamvu yomwe imamuthandiza kuti asayese kukoka mbendera zake. Kenako, zitatha zonse, adathamanga mpaka kumapeto.

Pamene aliyense amasangalala, adasiya mpirawo, natembenukira kwa abambo ake omwe amaphunzitsa pamunda, ndikumasulira. Adabweza kumwetulira kwakukulu, konyada. Kusinthanitsa ndichinthu chomwe ndikudziwa kuti azisangalala nacho nthawi zonse. Mwinanso mungalankhule kwazaka zambiri.

Munthawi yonseyi, Cayla adatsimikizira kuti anali wolimba. Sindinakayikire kuti adzatero. Adapitilizanso ma touchdown angapo (ndi dabs), ndikukankhira kumbuyo poletsa, ndikugwira mbendera zambiri.

Panali zovuta zingapo, ndipo adavulala pang'ono. Koma iwo sanali kanthu kamene iye sakanakhoza kuzigwira. Palibe chomwe chidamupangitsa.

Masabata angapo nyengoyo, Cayla adafafaniza zoyipa panjinga yake. Miyendo yake idakulungidwa ndikutuluka magazi. Atayamba kulira, ndidamunyamula ndikuyamba kulunjika kunyumba kwathu. Koma kenako adandiyimitsa. "Amayi, ndimasewera mpira," adatero. "Ndikufuna kupitiliza kukwera."

Pambuyo pa masewera aliwonse, amatiuza zosangalatsa zomwe anali nazo. Momwe iye ankakondera kusewera. Ndipo momwe, monga mchimwene wake, mpira ndimasewera omwe amakonda kwambiri.

Zomwe zidandikhuza kwambiri munyengo ino ndikulimba mtima komanso kunyada komwe adapeza. Momwe ndimamuwonera akusewera, zinali zowonekeratu kuti amadzimva ofanana ndi anyamata omwe anali pamunda. Amawachita monga ofanana, ndipo amayembekezera kuti nawonso achite chimodzimodzi. Zinadziwika kuti pomwe amaphunzira kusewera masewerawa, amaphunziranso kuti anyamata ndi atsikana ayenera kukhala ndi mwayi wofanana.

Wachibale wina atafunsa mwana wanga zamomwe mpira umayendera, Cayla adayankha kuti: "Inenso ndimasewera mpira."

Kuswa zopinga ndikuwonjezera kudzidalira

Mwina, zaka zikubwerazi, adzayang'ana mmbuyo ndikuzindikira kuti adachita china kunja kwa gawo la zomwe atsikana amayembekezeredwa kuchita panthawiyo, ndikuti anali ndi gawo laling'ono pothandiza kuthana ndi zolepheretsa atsikana ena kutsatira.

Amayi ena a anyamata omwe adasewera nawo, ndipo ena omwe amakhala mdera lathu, andiuza kuti Cayla akukwaniritsa maloto awo. Kuti amafuna kusewera mpira ngati atsikana ang'onoang'ono, nawonso, koma sanaloledwe ngakhale abale awo amatha. Iwo anamulimbikitsa ndi kumusangalatsa kwambiri mofanana ndi ine.

Sindikudziwa tsogolo la Cayla mu mpira. Kodi ndikuganiza kuti adzapita patsogolo tsiku lina? Ayi. Kodi pamapeto pake azisewera? Mwina ayi. Adzasewera mpaka liti? Sindikudziwa.

Koma ndikudziwa kuti ndikumuthandiza tsopano. Ndikudziwa kuti nthawi zonse azikhala ndi chokumana nacho ichi chomukumbutsa kuti akhoza kuchita chilichonse chomwe angaike. Koposa zonse, ndikudziwa kuti adzapeza kudzidalira komwe kumadza ndikutha kunena kuti, "Ndasewera mpira."

Cathy Cassata ndi wolemba pawokha yemwe amalemba za thanzi, thanzi lam'mutu, komanso machitidwe amunthu pazinthu zosiyanasiyana zofalitsa ndi mawebusayiti. Amathandizira pafupipafupi ku Healthline, Dailyday Health, ndi The Fix. Onani mbiri yake za nkhani ndikumutsata pa Twitter @KamemeTvKenya.