Mayeso aunyamata kapena kukonzekera njira

Kukonzekera mayeso azachipatala kumachepetsa nkhawa, kulimbikitsa mgwirizano, ndikuthandizira mwana wanu kukhala ndi luso lotha kupirira.

Pali njira zambiri zothandizira achinyamata kukonzekera kukayezetsa kuchipatala.

Choyamba, fotokozani zifukwa zake. Lolani mwana wanu kutenga nawo mbali ndikupanga zisankho zambiri momwe angathere.

KUKONZEKERETSA NTCHITO IYI

Fotokozani njirayi m'mawu oyenera azachipatala. Uzani mwana wanu chifukwa chake mayeso akuyesedwa. (Funsani omwe akukuthandizani kuti akufotokozereni ngati simukudziwa.) Kumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa njirayi kumachepetsa nkhawa za mwana wanu.

Momwe mungathere, fotokozani momwe mayeso adzamvekere. Lolani mwana wanu kuti azichita maudindo kapena mayendedwe omwe angafunike poyesa, monga gawo la fetus yopumira lumbar.

Khalani oona mtima pazovuta zomwe mwana wanu angamve, koma osangokhala chete. Zitha kuthandizira kutsindika zabwino za mayeso, ndikunena kuti zotsatira zoyeserera zitha kupereka zambiri. Lankhulani za zinthu zomwe mwana wanu angasangalale pambuyo pa mayeso, monga kukhala bwino kapena kubwerera kunyumba. Mphoto monga maulendo ogula kapena makanema atha kukhala othandiza ngati wachinyamata angathe kuzichita.

Uzani mwana wanu zambiri momwe mungathere pazida zomwe zidzagwiritsidwe ntchito poyesa. Ngati ndondomekoyi idzachitikira kumalo atsopano, zingathandize kuyendera malowa ndi mwana wanu asanayesedwe.

Fotokozerani njira zoti mwana wanu azikhala wodekha, monga:

• Kuphulika thovu
• Kupuma mozama
• Kuwerengera
• Kupanga malo abata, amtendere
• Kuchita njira zopumulira (kuganiza malingaliro osangalatsa)
• Kugwira dzanja la kholo lodekha (kapena wina aliyense) panthawiyi
• Kusewera masewera apakanema amanja
• Kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zowongoleredwa
• Kuyesa zosokoneza zina, monga kumvera nyimbo kudzera mumahedifoni, ngati aloledwa

Ngati n'kotheka, lolani mwana wanu wachinyamata kuti apange zisankho, monga kusankha nthawi yamasana kapena tsiku. Mukamalamulira kwambiri munthu pazinthu zomwe amachita, sizikhala zopweteka komanso zimawonjezera nkhawa.

Lolani mwana wanu wachinyamata kutenga nawo mbali pazinthu zosavuta pochita izi, monga kukhala ndi chida, ngati chololedwa.

Kambiranani zoopsa zomwe zingakhalepo. Achinyamata nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa ndi zoopsa, makamaka za zomwe zimawoneka pamaonekedwe awo, magwiridwe antchito awo, komanso kugonana. Lankhulani ndi mantha awa moona mtima komanso momasuka ngati zingatheke. Fotokozerani zakusintha kulikonse kapena zovuta zina zomwe mayesowo angayambitse.

Achinyamata okalamba atha kupindula ndi makanema omwe akuwonetsa achinyamata azaka zomwezo akufotokozera komanso momwe amathandizira. Funsani omwe akukuthandizani ngati makanema oterewa angathe kuwonetsedwa ndi achinyamata anu. Kungakhalenso kothandiza kwa mwana wanu wachinyamata kukambirana mavuto ake ndi anzanu amene anakumanapo ndi mavuto ofananawo. Funsani omwe akukuthandizani ngati akudziwa achinyamata omwe akufuna kuchita uphungu ndi anzawo, kapena ngati angalimbikitse gulu lothandizira.

NTHAWI YA NTCHITO

Ngati njirayi yachitika kuchipatala kapena kuofesi ya omwe akukuthandizani, funsani ngati mungakhale ndi mwana wanu. Komabe, ngati mwana wanu sakufuna kuti mukakhale nawo, lemekezani chikhumbo ichi. Polemekeza kuti mwana wanu akufuna kukhala payekha komanso kudziyimira pawokha, musalole anzanu kapena abale anu kuti aziwonerera pokhapokha ngati mwana wanu wawafunsa.

Osangowonetsa nkhawa zanu. Kuwona kuda nkhawa kumakhumudwitsa mwana wanu. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti ana amakhala ogwirizana kwambiri ngati makolo awo atenga njira zochepetsera nkhawa zawo.

Mfundo zina:

• Funsani omwe akukuthandizani kuti achepetse kuchuluka kwa alendo omwe akulowa ndikutuluka mchipindacho. Izi zitha kubweretsa nkhawa.
• Funsani kuti wothandizira amene wakhala nthawi yayitali ndi mwana wanu azipezeka nthawi yonseyi, ngati zingatheke. Kupanda kutero, mwana wanu akhoza kukana. Konzekeretsani mwana wanu pasadakhale kuti mwina mayeso angayesedwe ndi munthu amene sakumudziwa.
• Funsani ngati anesthesia ndi njira yochepetsera mavuto aliwonse.
• Mutsimikizireni mwana wanu kuti zomwe amachita sizachilendo.

Kukonzekera mayeso / njira - wachinyamata; Kukonzekeretsa wachinyamata mayeso / njira; Kukonzekera mayeso a zamankhwala kapena njira - wachinyamata

• Mayeso owongolera achinyamata

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