Kodi Kutanthauzira Kumatanthauza Chiyani?

Zamkati

• Kodi biromantic imatanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?
• Mukutanthauza chiyani ponena kuti 'kapena zambiri'?
• Kodi kukhala biromantic kumawoneka bwanji pochita?
• Kodi izi zikusiyana bwanji ndi kukhala opanda nkhawa?
• Kodi kukhala biromantic kumagwirizana bwanji ndi zomwe mumakonda?
• Chifukwa chake mutha kukhala okonda amuna awiri osati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
• Nchifukwa chiyani izi ndizokangana?
• Kodi mungagawe bwanji izi ndi anthu m'moyo wanu?
• Kodi mungaphunzire kuti?

Kodi biromantic imatanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?

Anthu okonda kuchita zachilengedwe amatha kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena kupitilira apo - mwa kuyankhula kwina, amuna ndi akazi ambiri.

Zimasiyana ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa choti kukondana ndi zomwe anthu amakondana nazo, osati kukondana.

Mukutanthauza chiyani ponena kuti 'kapena zambiri'?

Choyambirira "bi-" chimatanthauza "awiri," koma bisexuality ndi biromanticism sizokhudza amuna awiri okha.

Jenda siyabwino - mwa kuyankhula kwina, "amuna" ndi "akazi" si amuna okhaokha omwe mungadziwe nawo.

Wina yemwe siwosankhika sanazindikire yekha ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi.

Nonbinary ndi ambulera yophatikiza maumboni ambiri, monga bigender, pangender, jenda, ndi agender, kungotchulapo ochepa.

Tanthauzo la "bisexual" ndi "biromantic" lingaphatikizepo anthu osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya, ndichifukwa chake bisexuality ndi biromanticism ndizokhudza kukopeka ndi awiri kapena zambiri amuna ndi akazi.

Kodi kukhala biromantic kumawoneka bwanji pochita?

Kukhala biromantic kumawoneka mosiyana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana. Zitha kuwoneka ngati:

• kukopa amuna ndi akazi, koma osati anthu osagwirizana nawo
• kukopa amuna ndi anthu osakhala mabinary, koma osati akazi
• kukopa amuna ndi akazi, koma osati amuna
• kukopa amuna, akazi, ndi anthu omwe ali ndi mayina ena osadziwika
• kukopa kwa anthu amisili yonse
• kukopa kwa anthu osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi osiyanasiyana, koma osati anthu wamba (ndiye kuti, anthu omwe amadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okha)

Ngati ndinu okonda kuwerenga, mutha kukhala okhudzana ndi chimodzi kapena zingapo mwazinthu izi:

• Mukuwona kuti jenda si chinthu chofunikira kwa inu pankhani yosankha yemwe mukufuna kukhala naye pachibwenzi ndikudzipereka.
• Mwakhala mukukondana ndi anthu omwe ali mgulu la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso anthu omwe ali mgulu lina la jenda.
• Mukamaganizira mnzanu wamtsogolo wokondana naye, simukufanizira wina ndi mnzake.

Kumbukirani, palibe njira imodzi yopangira biromantic - anthu onse a biromantic ndi osiyana. Chifukwa chake mutha kukhala okonda biromantic osagwirizana ndi zomwe tafotokozazi.

Kodi izi zikusiyana bwanji ndi kukhala opanda nkhawa?

Panromantic amatanthauza kukhala ndi mwayi wokopeka ndi anthu a zonse amuna ndi akazi.

Biromantic imatanthauza kukhala ndi mwayi wokopeka ndi anthu a zingapo amuna ndi akazi.

Biromantic ndi yotseguka pang'ono poti zitha kutanthauza kuti mumakopeka ndi magulu awiri, atatu, anayi, asanu, kapena magulu onse.

Panromantic, kumbali inayo, ili pafupi zonse magulu azimayi. Mwanjira ina, pali zochulukira pang'ono.

Anthu ena amadziwika kuti ndi biromantic komanso panromantic. Nthawi zina, anthu amagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti biromantic m'malo mopanikizika kunena kuti samakondana ndi magulu onse a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Mwachitsanzo, wina atha kudzipeza yekha atakopeka ndi azimayi komanso anthu osagwiritsa ntchito bayinare, koma osati amuna. Pankhaniyi, biromantic imawafotokozera bwino, koma panromantic satero.

Pamapeto pake zili kwa inu monga munthu payekhapayekha kusankha mtundu kapena chizindikiro chomwe chikukuyenererani.

Kodi kukhala biromantic kumagwirizana bwanji ndi zomwe mumakonda?

Ndizotheka kukhala awiriwiri komanso okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mumakondana komanso kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.

Komabe, anthu ena okonda biromantic ali ndi malingaliro azakugonana omwe amasiyana ndi momwe amakondera.

Izi zimatchedwa "malingaliro osakanikirana" kapena "oyanjana" - mukamakopeka ndi gulu limodzi la anthu ndikukopeka ndi gulu lina la anthu.

Nazi zitsanzo zochepa za anthu amisili omwe ali ndi malingaliro osakanikirana:

• Munthu wokonda zachiwerewere, wokonda zachiwerewere amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma samakopeka kwenikweni.
• Mkazi wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amangokopeka ndi akazi.
• Mwamuna wokonda kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amangokopeka ndi amuna okhaokha.
• Mkazi wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amangokopeka ndi amuna okhaokha.
• Biromantic, pansexual amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi onse. Mwinanso amakopeka ndi amuna ndi anthu osakhala mabacteria, koma osati akazi.

Izi ndi zitsanzo zochepa chabe za mawonekedwe osakanikirana omwe angawoneke. Izi si njira zokhazo zodzifotokozera.

Chifukwa chake mutha kukhala okonda amuna awiri osati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?

Inde. Nthawi zambiri, "amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza za kukondana komanso kugonana.

Komabe, monga tanenera kale, kusakanikirana ndi chinthu ndipo mutha kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha osakhala okonda amuna - komanso mosiyana.

Nchifukwa chiyani izi ndizokangana?

Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kukopeka ndi kugonana ndi chinthu chimodzi.

Ena amati mawu oti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatanthauza kuti mumakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso mumakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi awiri.

M'zaka zaposachedwa, taphunzira kuti malingaliro osakanikirana ndichinthu chenicheni, komanso kuti pali njira zingapo zokopa.

Kodi mungagawe bwanji izi ndi anthu m'moyo wanu?

Chifukwa chake, mwazindikira kuti ndinu okonda biromantic. Zodabwitsa! Pakadali pano, mungafune kuuza anthuwa m'moyo wanu.

Kwa anthu ena, kutuluka kumatha kumva ngati mwambo. Kwa ena, ndizosavuta. Kutuluka kumatha kuwoneka ngati:

• kusonkhanitsa anzanu ndi abale anu pamasom'pamaso ndi kuwauza kuti ndinu okonda zachilengedwe
• kuyankhulana m'modzi ndi okondedwa anu ndikuwauza kuti ndinu okonda zamisala
• kupanga positi yapa media media pomwe mumalongosola zomwe mumakonda
• mukuwonera Netflix ndi mnzanu ndikumangonena kuti, "Mwa njira, ndimakondana!"

Mfundo ndiyakuti palibe njira "yolondola" yotuluka ngati biromantic - zonse zili kwa inu kusankha zomwe zimamveka bwino.

Mukamatuluka ngati biromantic, mungafune kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo izi:

• Yambani kunena kuti pali china chake chomwe mungakonde kugawana nawo. Auzeni kuti ndinu okonda biromantic.
• Fotokozani tanthauzo lake. Mutha kunena kuti, "Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndimatha kukopeka ndi amuna ndi akazi ambiri." Mwina mungafotokozere atsikana omwe mumakopeka nawo.
• Ngati mukufuna, fotokozerani za kugonana kwanu, nanunso, ndi kusiyana pakati pa zokopa ndi zogonana.
• Auzeni mtundu wa chithandizo chomwe mukufuna. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kunena kuti, "Ndikufuna kulankhula za momwe ndimamvera. Kodi ndingakufotokozereni? ” kapena "Mungandithandizire kuti ndiwuze makolo anga?" kapena "Ndimangofuna kukudziwitsani chifukwa ndizofunika kwa ine."

Ngati mukuyankhula ndi munthu wina pamasom'pamaso ndipo mukuchita mantha ndi zomwe angachite, kungakhale kwanzeru kubweretsa mnzanu kuti adzakuthandizeni.

Osakhala wokonda kucheza pagulu? Ganizirani zongotuluka pafoni kapena pafoni. Anthu ambiri amatuluka kudzera pa TV, zomwe zimawathandiza kuuza anthu angapo nthawi imodzi ndikupeza chikondi ndi chithandizo kuchokera kwa iwo.

Kodi mungaphunzire kuti?

Kuti mudziwe zambiri za biromanticism, onani zinthu zotsatirazi:

• Asexual Visibility and Education Network, komwe mungafufuze matanthauzidwe amawu osiyanasiyana okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso malingaliro
• Bisexual Resource Center ndi BiNet USA, omwe ndi magwero abwino azidziwitso komanso othandizira anthu omwe amakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
• GLAAD, yomwe ili ndi zinthu zingapo ndi zolemba patsamba lawo

Mwinanso mungafune kulowa nawo magulu amtundu wa LGBTIQA +, ngati mungafune kuthandizidwa pamasom'pamaso. Magulu a Facebook ndi magulu a Reddit amathanso kukhala gwero lothandiza lazidziwitso ndi chithandizo.

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Sian Ferguson ndi wolemba komanso wolemba pawokha ku Cape Town, South Africa. Zolemba zake zimakhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, chamba, komanso thanzi. Mutha kufikira kwa iye Twitter.