Bumble Anangoletsa Munthuyu Kuchita Manyazi Mafuta

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Ngati mumadziwa zosankha za pulogalamu ya chibwenzi zomwe zilipo pakadali pano, mwina mwamvapo za Bumble, yomwe imadzisiyanitsa ndi enawo mwa kufuna kuti amayi azisunthira koyamba anthu awiri atafanana. (Zikomo chifukwa chotipulumutsa ku zokwawa zonse zomwe zili mmenemo pazifukwa zolakwika, Bumble.) Njira imeneyi imathandiza amayi kuti azimva kuti ali ndi mphamvu pa moyo wawo wa chibwenzi, mosiyana ndi mapulogalamu monga Tinder ndi Hinge, omwe amalola aliyense amene mumafanana naye. kupanga convo. (BTW, Tinder posachedwapa adawulula "ntchito yogonana kwambiri" pa pulogalamuyi.)

Tsoka ilo, palibe pulogalamu ya zibwenzi yomwe ingagonjetse chodabwitsa cha mzimu, pomwe munthu m'modzi amangosiya kuyankha mnzake popanda kufotokoza. Ndi chinthu chamwano kwambiri chomwe mungachite kwa munthu amene mukucheza naye zachikondi, koma zimachitika *nthawi zonse* makamaka pankhani ya maubwenzi omwe amayamba pa intaneti. (Monga kuti kukhala pachibwenzi sikunali kovuta, sichoncho?)

Ichi ndichifukwa chake mayi wina adaganiza zokapereka nkhani yake yamzimu ku Elite Daily's Boom, Ghosted, gawo sabata iliyonse pomwe tsambalo limagawana malo ochititsa manyazi sabata iliyonse. Imeneyi inali yoyipa kwambiri kotero kuti Bumble adaganiza zoletsa anthu olakwawo - chinthu chosangalatsa kwa iwo.

Tiyeni tifotokoze. Mzimayi wofanana ndi mnyamata pa Bumble ndipo adayamba chibwenzi. Kenako, atatumiza meseji yomwe imawoneka kuti ikuyenda bwino, adamuwuza. Adali bummed koma sanaganizirepo chilichonse chifukwa zachisoni, izi ndizofala. Kenako, izi zinachitika: "Ndinapeza mbiri yatsopano ya Bumble yomwe adapanga. Anawonjezera pansi, "Chonde musakhale wonenepa m'moyo weniweni."

Mnyamatayo anali atadutsa muvuto kuti apange mbiri yatsopano, yodzaza ndi ndemanga zonyansa kwambiri zonyansa. M'pomveka kuti mayiyu adamva kusokonekera komanso kusokonezeka. Anapitiliza kuti, "Monga, ummm, ndikhululukireni? Ndikudziwa akanatha kukhala za winawake, monga kwawo, koma mwangozi ndikunyoza pang'ono. Tsopano, ndikufuna kumuwotcha pagulu chifukwa chokhala nkhumba yolakwika .Ndipo, sindine wonenepa kwenikweni. Nditha kungovala, ngati, mapaundi 200, chifukwa chake ndili ndi ntchafu zowoneka bwino. "

Choyamba, awa ndi ma squat #goals. (Amayi awa ndiumboni kuti kukhala wolimba ndikufa kwachigololo.) Chachiwiri, sitimamupatsa mlandu wofunitsitsa kudziwa kuti mnyamatayu ndiwokonda kwathunthu. Sizilibe kanthu ngati akunena za iye kapena ayi chifukwa chilankhulo chotsutsa-mafuta ichi sichilandiridwa zilizonse mkhalidwe.

Ndiye apa ndi pomwe zinthu zimasinthira. Bumble adawona positi yokhudza saga yonseyi ndipo adafikira wolemba yemwe adayika nkhaniyi kuti adziwe zambiri za wogwiritsa ntchitoyo kuti achotsedwe mu pulogalamuyi.

Malangizo a ogwiritsa ntchito a Bumble amafotokoza momveka bwino kuti khalidweli silabwino: "Ndife gulu losiyanasiyana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kulemekeza zikhulupiriro za ena, zokonda zawo, komanso katundu wawo mukakhala ku Bumble. Muyeneranso kuchita chimodzimodzi pa Bumble monga mungatero m'moyo weniweni. " Ndizotheka kuti munthuyu ndi IRL wosakhazikika, koma mulimonsemo, tsopano mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti pali bowo lochepa pa Bumble. Kusangalala mosangalala! (Mukufuna malangizo okhudza kukumana ndi munthu pa intaneti? Onani malangizo 7 awa opangira chibwenzi pa intaneti.)

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