Umu Ndi Momwe Machiritso Amaonekera - kuchokera ku Cancer kupita ku Ndale, ndi Kukhetsa Kwathu, Mitima Yoyaka

Mnzanga D ndi amuna awo B adayimilira pa studio yanga. B ali ndi khansa. Aka kanali koyamba kumuwona kuyambira pomwe adayamba chemotherapy. Kukumbatirana kwathu patsikuli sinali moni chabe, koma mgonero.

Tonsefe tinalira. Ndipo tinkangokhala pansi, mosavuta komanso mwachangu. Tinakambirana za zisankho zomwe ziyenera kupangidwa. Misozi yambiri. Ndipo monga nthawi zonse, amaseka. B ndichoseketsa. Ndipo wamtali wamtali komanso wokongola. Ndipo patsikuli anali kulimbana ndi kusweka kwake. Kumva kugwedezeka, monga zimphona zokha zomwe zingathe.

Pakati pa kutopa, ndi khungu pamafupa, ndi moyo wokhala ndi zisankho zaimfa, ndizovuta kuwona ngati mukumenya nkhondoyi kapena ayi.

Chiyembekezo nthawi zonse chimakhala chovuta kuwona m'chipindacho. Koma zimakhalapo nthawi zonse.

Pakati pa malipoti ake akuti adadzitchinjiriza m'mimba mwa mwana masiku angapo, kumukonda kwambiri mkazi wake kuposa kale, ndikuyenda ku gehena komweko, ndidapeza chowonadi chodalirika kwambiri chomwe ndingapeze. Iyenera kukhala ndi chiyembekezo ndipo iyenera kukhala yowona. Ndati ...

"Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi momwe machiritso amawonekera."

Tinakhala chete kwakanthawi. Osathamanga. "Mukudziwa," adagwedeza mutu, ndikukoka zingwe za mtima wathu nthawi yomweyo atayamba kuti, "Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi momwe machiritso amawonekera. ”

Kodi sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse? Kaya chotupa chikuyesa kuwononga matupi athu, kapena chidani chikuwononga thupi. Kapenanso tikukweza ma psyche athu pachimake pachimake - {textend} sichichiritsa nthawi zonse zosokoneza? Kodi sitikhala osadziwika pamene tikupanganso umunthu wathu?

Ine ndavina, ndi kulengeza, ndi kupemphera, ndi kulemba, ndi kupsa mtima, ndipo ndinakhulupirira njira yanga yotuluka mu zowawa zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo zinali zodabwitsa kumva kuti ndikukhala ine kuposa kale. Koma pakati pa nthawi zamphamvuzo panali mantha owopsa ndi mkwiyo. Mafupa mu msuzi. Kutonthozedwa mu chisokonezo. Kudzipereka kuti kutha.

Umu ndi momwe machiritso amawonekera.

Kuchiritsa ndikonyansa monga "kuchiritsidwa" ndikwabwino. Ngati sitiweruza chisokonezo chake, titha kupita mbali ina posachedwa - {textend} ndikuchiritsidwa kwambiri komanso mwamphamvu kuposa momwe timaganizira. Zipsera ndi zonse. Wachiritsidwa.

Nkhaniyi idasindikizidwa koyamba pa Alirazamalik.com.Danielle LaPorte ndi mphunzitsi wamkulu wauzimu, wolemba, komanso membala wa Oprah Chidwi. Kuti mumve zambiri komanso kulimbikitsidwa, onani buku la Danielle, Choonadi Choyera Choyera.