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M'badwo wamakono wa digito wokhala ndi zododometsa zambiri, ndikosavuta kuiwala za chidwi chathu ndi cholinga chathu. Pofuna kulimbikitsa atsikana ndi amayi kuti akhale odziyimira pawokha, wokamba nkhani wachikazi Alexis Jones akuwonetsa momwe angalote zazikulu ndikuyamba kukhala moyo womwe mukuufuna-pano.

Tidapita m'modzi ndi m'modzi ndi woyambitsa kayendedwe ka I Am That Girl ndi wolemba buku lomwe likubweralo Ndine Msungwana uja: Momwe Mungalankhulire Chowonadi Chanu, Dziwani Cholinga Chanu, ndi # bethatgirl kuti muphunzire nsonga zake zapamwamba zodzisamalira bwino komanso momwe mungakumbatire bwino zamkati mwanu.

Maonekedwe: Kodi ndi chiyani Ndine Mtsikana Ameneyo zonse?

Alexis Jones (AJ): Ndichikumbutso chomaliza m'mene mumakhalira odabwitsa. Timadzazidwa ndi mauthenga oti ndife osakwanira. Uku ndikuyesa kwanga modzichepetsa kukumbutsa atsikana kuti ndi oipa kwambiri. Chilichonse chomwe mungafune m'moyo, ndichotheka. Tiyenera kukhala ochemerera athu tokha.

Mawonekedwe: Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndizovuta kukhala mkazi masiku ano?

AJ: Mbadwo uliwonse uli ndi zovuta zawo, koma tili ndi zovuta kwambiri komanso zovuta masiku ano ndiukadaulo ndi mauthenga atolankhani. Pafupifupi, timagwiritsa ntchito maola 10 atolankhani komanso zithunzi za 3,000 patsiku. Nthawi zambiri mauthengawa amati, "Simukukwanira, koma ngati mutagula malonda athu, mwina mudzakhala." Ndizopenga kuganiza kuti izi sizingatikhudze, koma kudziwa kuti ndizovuta kwa ife ndi zamphamvu. Chifukwa chake ngakhale pali mapulogalamu, zithunzi, Photoshop, ndi malonda okopa, ndichita ntchito yofunika kuti ndimve bwino za ine. Ndizokhudza kukhala ndi chidaliro.

Maonekedwe: Amayi amakonda kudzipulumutsa okha. Kodi tingayambe bwanji kudzisamalira?

AJ: Muyenera kudzipatsa nokha chilolezo chodzikonda. Amayi amayenera kusamalidwa, koma izi zikutanthauzanso kuti titha kukhala ofera: Titha kupereka ngati tiribe chomwe tikupereka. Muyenera kulumikizidwa ku gwero lanu lamphamvu-kaya ndi chikhulupiriro chanu, anzanu, kapena zolimbitsa thupi zanu-ndipo khalani ndi nthawi yoganizira zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu, apo ayi mumatayika nthawi zonse. Tikhoza kukhalapo kwa anzathu ndi kuwapatsa uphungu, komabe sitingathe kuzinena tokha. Osataya zinthu zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu kuti musamalire zomwe zili zofunika kwa wina.

Mawonekedwe: Malangizo anu ndi ati kuti mudziwe chomwe chilakolako chanu ndi cholinga chanu mulidi m'moyo?

AJ: Muyenera kukhala chete, chete, ndikudula. Ndizovuta kumva liwu lamkati pazomwe zimakusangalatsani. Kodi ndi liti pamene mwakhala chete mwadala mphindi zisanu mpaka 10? Kodi tingamve bwanji kunong'onezana kwamkati pomwe tasokonezedwa komanso kulumikizidwa? Chotsatira ndikutuluka panokha. Chitani zinthu zomwe zimakuwopsyezani komanso kambiranani bwino. [Twitani nsonga iyi!]

Maonekedwe: Ndi upangiri wanji womwe muli nawo kwa akazi odziwa ntchito omwe akufunanso kusintha?

AJ: Yambani pang'ono. Tikukhala m'badwo momwe timakhala ndi zolinga zazikulu komanso tili ndi zolinga zazikulu, koma timaiwala zomwe tili nazo m'zochitika zathu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndizosavuta monga kuyang'ana woyang'anira ndalama mukamapeza zakudya, kuyika foni pansi, ndi kuwafunsa momwe tsiku lawo lilili. Yankho lomwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa anthu ndilodabwitsa! Tikuganiza kuti zotsatira zake ziyenera kukhala kuyambitsa zopanda phindu kapena kupereka ndalama zonsezi, koma zimayamba ndi munthu m'modzi.

Maonekedwe: Inu munali Wopulumuka, komwe ndiko kuyesa kwakukulu kwa mphamvu zathupi, malingaliro, ndi uzimu. Kodi chokumana nacho chimenecho chinakhudza motani zikhulupiriro zanu ndi bukhu lanu?

AJ: Kukhala pawonetsero kunali kopenga! Nthawi zonse ndinali wokonda masewera olimbitsa thupi, koma ndinamaliza masiku 13 osadya, ndikuthyola dzanja langa tsiku loyamba, ndikudula phazi langa tsiku la 19-Ndinkaganiza kuti ndinali wolimba mpaka nditapitirira. Ndizosatheka kukhala ndi mwayi wowona zomwe tidapangidwa. Ndizodzichepetsa kwambiri. Zinandipatsa chithunzithunzi chamomwe dziko lonse lapansi limakhalira. Zinandipatsa luso pantchito ndikuyamikira kwambiri. Ndinalibe galasi masiku 30. Zinthu zonse monga kuwoneka bwino ndikukhala ndi ntchito yabwino sizinali zofunika kunja uko. Zinali zosangalatsa kukhala ndi tanthauzo lokongola limeneli. Yemwe iwe uli wokongola kwambiri kuposa momwe iwe uliri panja.

Mverani upangiri wosavuta koma wamphamvu wa a Jones kwa mtsikana aliyense mu kanemayu pansipa.

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