Chifukwa Chake Simuyenera Kusankha Pakati pa Minofu ndi Ukazi, Malinga ndi Kelsey Wells

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Pankhani ya matupi a akazi, anthu sangaleke kutsutsa. Kaya ndi zochititsa manyazi mafuta, zochititsa manyazi, kapena zogonana ndi akazi, mayankho osasintha apitilizabe.

Azimayi othamanga nawonso - mfundo yomwe Kelsey Wells adapanga mu Instagram post yamphamvu. (Zogwirizana: Kelsey Wells Akuziwonetsetsa Kuti Musakhale Wodzikuza Nokha)

"Simuyenera kusankha pakati pa kukhala olimba kapena osatetezeka. Odzichepetsa KAPENA odzidalira. Minyewa OR wachikazi. Wosamala OR wachigololo. Kuvomereza KAPENA kukhazikika pamakhalidwe anu," wophunzitsa SWEAT adalemba. "Moyo si wophweka KAPENA wovuta, wabwino KAPENA wovuta ndipo mtima wanu sumakhala wodzaza kapena kupweteka." (Zokhudzana: Kelsey Wells Amagawana Zomwe Zimatanthauza Kumva Kukhala Wolimbitsa Thupi)

Wells adagawana chikumbutso chofunikirachi limodzi ndi zithunzi zake ziwiri mbali ndi mbali zake. Mu chithunzi chimodzi, wavala zovala zolimbitsa thupi, atagwira cholembera, ndikusintha minofu yake. Mwa enawo, ali wokongoletsedwa ndipo wavala chovala chokongola chotalika pansi. Mfundo yake? Alinso wachikazi pazithunzi zonse ziwiri, ngakhale anthu ena angaganize mwanjira ina. (Zogwirizana: Sia Cooper Anena Kuti Amamverera "Wachikazi Kuposa Kale Lonse" Atachotsa Ziphuphu Zake M'mawere)

"Ngati ndinu mkazi, thupi lanu ndi lokongola kwambiri komanso lachikazi losagwirizana ndi minyewa kapena mawonekedwe a thupi kapena kukula chifukwa chakuti NDIWE MKAZI," adalemba motero. "Lekani kuvutika kuti mugwirizane ndi chikombole chomwe dziko lakhazikitsidwa kwa inu kuchokera ku malingaliro a ena ndi miyezo ya anthu yomwe imasinthasintha. (Dziwani chifukwa chake Kelsey Wells akufuna kuti muganizire zoponya cholinga chanu.)

Ndi zachilengedwe kufuna kugawa zinthu m'zinthu momwe Wells amafotokozera. Koma kukongola kowona nthawi zambiri kumapezeka m'malo otuwa, ndizomwe Wells akukulimbikitsani kuti muzivomereza. Inu mumasankha zomwe ziri zokongola, ndipo ukazi ndi zomwe mumapanga.

"NDIWE, osati OR," a Wells adalemba, pomaliza zolemba zake. "Inu ndinu zigawo za inu nonse. Ndinu angwiro, INU. Landirani choonadi chanu ndi kutenga nawo mbali pakuwululidwa kwanu. LOWANI MU MPHAMVU ZANU."

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