Moyo Wopanda Mimba: Amayi 3 Agawana Nkhani Zawo

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Kuti mufotokoze chosowa, muyenera kuyamba ndikuzindikira zomwe ziyenera kudzaza; kuti mulankhule za anorgasmia yachikazi, choyamba muyenera kukambirana zamatsenga. Timakonda kuyankhula mozungulira, ndikuzipatsa mayina okongola: "Big O," "chimaliziro chachikulu." Mwina mosadabwitsa, ilibe tanthauzo limodzi, lovomerezeka konsekonse. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika chifukwa cholimbikitsa kugonana, koma osati nthawi zonse. Ogwira ntchito zamankhwala amayang'ana kwambiri momwe thupi limayendera-magazi amatuluka kumaliseche, kulumikizana kwa minofu ndi kupindika-monga maziko azisangalalo, pomwe akatswiri amisala amayang'ana kusintha kwamalingaliro ndi kuzindikira komwe kumatsatira, monga kuthamanga kwa mphotho ya mphotho, dopamine, ku ubongo. Zikafika pankhaniyi, njira yokhayo yodziwira kuti mkazi adakhalapo ndi orgasm ndikukuuzani yekha.

"Mudzadziwa izi zikachitika," amayi omwe adakumanapo ndi orgasm amalangiza omwe sanatero, momwe tidalangizidwira kuti tizidikirira nthawi yathu yoyamba - ngati kuti ma orgasms athu oyamba ndizochitika zomwe zingatichitikire, zomwe timakumana nazo. adzalandira, monga mphatso ina yoperekedwa ndi Mulungu. Koma, bwanji ngati chiwonetsero sichingabwere pamene tikuchifuna-kapena ayi?

Kayla, wazaka 25, ali pachibwenzi kwanthawi yayitali ndipo amamutcha kuti "woganizira komanso wothandiza." Sanakhalepo pachimake-yekha kapena ndi mnzake. “M’maganizo, nthaŵi zonse ndakhala womasuka kwambiri ponena za kugonana,” iye anatiuza motero. "Ndakhala ndikufuna kudziwa za izi ndipo ndimafuna kuyeserera, ndipo ndakhala ndikuchita maliseche kuyambira ndili mwana, kotero palibe chitsenderezo pamenepo ... Ndimakana kukhulupirira kuti pali china chilichonse cholakwika ndimaganizo kapena mwathupi-ndimakonda kukhulupirira kuti ndikupambana kuphatikiza zonse ziwiri."

Kayla ndi m'modzi mwa amayi 10 mpaka 15 mwa amayi 100 aliwonse omwe ali ndi anorgasmia, kapena kulephera kufikira pamalungo atakopeka "kokwanira" - osati kuti tili ndi tanthauzo limodzi "lokwanira," mwina, kapena kumvetsetsa komwe kumayambitsa anorgasmia. (Sitikudziwa ngakhale pang'ono za kulondola kwa chiwerengerochi cha 10 mpaka 15%.) "Sitikudziwa ngati pali zovuta zamankhwala," Vanessa Marin wofotokoza za kugonana ku San-Francisco akufotokoza . "Ndinganene kuti mwina 90 mpaka 95% ya azimayi omwe akukumana nazo, ndichifukwa choti ali ndi chidziwitso cholakwika kapena kusadziŵa zambiri, manyazi ogonana, sanayesere kwenikweni, kapena pali nkhawa - ndiyokulu kwambiri." [Kuti mumve zambiri, pitani ku Refinery29!]

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