Kuphunzitsa Kugonana Ku U.S. Kwasweka-Sustain Akufuna Kukonza

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• Choyamba, Stats Pa Sex Ed
• N'chifukwa Chiyani Maphunziro Abwino Pakugonana Ndi Ofunika?
• Kuganizira Maphunziro Oonjezera Ogonana
• Zomwe Mungayembekezere Kuchokera Kuyembekezera Zambiri
• Momwe Mungamenyere Kugonana Kwambiri Ed
• Komwe Mungaphunzire Zambiri Zokhudza Kugonana Pakadali pano
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Ngati pali chilichonse Ati Atsikana, Kuphunzitsa Kugonana, kapena Pakamwa Kwakukulu yatiphunzitsa, ndikuti kusowa maphunziro athu ogonana kumapangitsa kukhala kosangalatsa. Chomwe chiri ndichakuti, palibe chilichonse chosangalatsa chokhudza kuti ana samaphunzitsidwa zidziwitso zamankhwala zomwe amafunikira kuti apange zisankho zanzeru zamthupi lawo.

Sustain, kampani yomwe imadziwika kwambiri chifukwa cha matamponi, makondomu, ndi mafuta odzola achilengedwe, ili pano kuti iwonetsere momwe zimakhalira zosasangalatsa. Lero kampaniyo idayamba kampeni yatsopano yotchedwa Sexpect More ndi kanema (werengani: kusonkhezera kulira) wokhala ndi mawu 20 otchuka akugawana mosabisa zomwe akufuna kuti akaphunzitsidwe mukalasi yogonana. Cholinga: kuwonetsa momwe maphunziro ophunzitsira ana akuipiraipira ku United States ndikuyamba kukambirana moona mtima momwe zingawonekere.

Werengani kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza maphunziro a zachiwerewere ku United States. Kuphatikiza apo, njira yolimbikitsa ya Sustain ikugwira ntchito kuti isinthe.

Choyamba, Stats Pa Sex Ed

Ngati mukukumbukira kuyang'anitsitsa zithunzi zojambulidwa za matenda opatsirana pogonana osagwidwa kapena kuwina ngati mayi akulira adang'ambidwa mkati momwe mwana wolira kwambiri amalira, ndinu m'modzi wa (ndipo sindimakonda kunena izi) mwayi omwe anali ndi maphunziro aliwonse okhudzana ndi kugonana.

Kuyambira pa Juni 15, 2020, ndi mayiko 28 okha ndi boma la Washington DC lomwe limafunikira maphunziro azakugonana komanso maphunziro a HIV, malinga ndi Guttmacher Institute, bungwe lotsogola lotsogola ndi mfundo zomwe zadzipereka kupititsa patsogolo zaumoyo ndi uchembere komanso ufulu ku US komanso padziko lonse lapansi . Yep, osapitilira theka. Choyipa kwambiri: Mwa maiko awa, 17 okha ndi omwe amafuna kuti maphunziro awo okhudzana ndi kugonana akhale olondola pazamankhwala. Mwanjira ina, ndizovomerezeka kwa aphunzitsi kuti afike pamenepo ndikuchotsa mabodza.

Ndipo chifukwa zinthu zingapo zimakhudza maphunziro enieni omwe wophunzira amalandira - kuphatikizapo ndalama za boma ndi boma, malamulo a boma ndi machitidwe okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndondomeko za sukulu zachigawo cha sukulu ndi mfundo zokhudzana ndi maphunziro ndi zomwe zili, pulogalamu kapena maphunziro a sukulu payekha komanso zenizeni. Mlangizi wophunzitsa pulogalamuyi-zochitikira zokhudzana ndi kugonana zingasiyane kwambiri, ngakhale m'madera kapena zigawo zomwe zimalamula, malinga ndi bungwe la Advocates for Youth.

Chodabwitsa chokha: Ndi mayiko asanu okha omwe ati mutu wovomerezeka uyenera kukhala pamaphunziro awo azakugonana. "Izi ndizowopsa, zochititsa manyazi, ndipo zikuyenera kusintha tsopano kuposa kale," akutero wolemba, woyimba, komanso wokamba nkhani Alok Menon, wolemba mabuku. Pambuyo pa Gender Binary, mu kanema Sustain. (Yogwirizana: Kodi Chivomerezo Chotani? Zowonjezerapo, Momwe Mungapangire Kuti Mufunsidwe)

N'chifukwa Chiyani Maphunziro Abwino Pakugonana Ndi Ofunika?

Poyamba, monga momwe zinachitikira kapena malingaliro angakuuzeni: Kudziletsa -kuphunzitsa kugonana kokha sikulepheretsa ana kugonana. Zomwe zimachitika ndikuteteza ana kuti azichita zogonana motetezedwa. Ziwerengero za matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso mimba zosafunikira za achinyamata zimatsimikizira izi: Malinga ndi kafukufuku wofalitsidwa ndi a International Journal of STDs ndi AIDs, Mayiko omwe ali ndi mapulogalamu odziletsa ali ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha matenda opatsirana pogonana monga chinzonono ndi chlamydia pakati pa achinyamata. Ndipo chiwerengero cha mimba zosakonzekera ndi zosafunika ndizokwera (makamaka, kuwirikiza kawiri (!) kuposa) m'magulu omwe ana amaphunzira maphunziro a kugonana omwe amatsindika kudziletsa.

Si sayansi ya rocket: Popanda chidziwitso chokwanira kapena cholondola chachipatala chomwe ali nacho, achinyamata samapeza chithunzi chokwanira cha zoopsa zomwe zingatheke (kapena zosangalatsa!) pakugonana. Zotsatira zake, sangapange zisankho zodziwitsa zaumoyo, kudziwitsa zoopsa kapena kutenga njira zowachepetsera ngozi.

Koma kuposa pamenepo, mapulogalamu aliwonse odziletsa nthawi zambiri amatha kulalikira kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi akhale ndi mwamuna mmodzi, makhalidwe abwino a m’banja, ndiponso mmene banja la nyukiliya lilili. Zotsatira zake, amatha kuchita manyazi mosapita m'mbali komanso momveka bwino omwe adachitidwapo zachipongwe, omwe ayamba kale kugonana, achinyamata omwe amafunsa mafunso, ngakhalenso anthu ochokera m'mabanja osamalira okha.

Tangoganizani kuuzidwa kuti aliyense amene amagonana asanalowe m’banja adzapita kumoto pamene munagonanapo kale. Kapenanso, kuyamba kukayikira zakugonana kwanu ndikuuzidwa kuti P-in-V ndiye mtundu wokha wa kugonana womwe "amawerengedwa." Maphunziro amtunduwu (kuchokera ku nkhani zogonana kapena kutumizirana mameseji achikhalidwe) amatha kuyambitsa manyazi ogonana kapena manyazi okhudzana ndi malingaliro aliwonse ogonana, momwe akumvera, machitidwe, ndi malingaliro. Kutanthauza, mtundu wamtunduwu wamanyazi umatha kusiya zovuta zakumunthu pakukhala ndi moyo wathanzi wosangalatsa komanso / kapena kukhala ndi ubale wathanzi ndi thupi lawo.

Ndipo mpaka kusowa kwa chidziwitso chokhudza kuvomereza kumapita? Monga momwe comedian komanso wochita sewero Sodnee Washington anena mu kanema wa kampeni, "Chabwino, ndizomveka, kulingalira zomwe zikuchitika." M’mawu ena, chikhalidwe cha kugwirira chigololo chofala m’dzikolo chachitika, mwina mwa zina, chifukwa cha kupanda chilolezo chophunzitsidwa m’sukulu. (Yogwirizana: Kodi Chivomerezo Chotani? Zowonjezerapo, Momwe Mungapangire Kuti Mufunse Chiyani).

Kuganizira Maphunziro Oonjezera Ogonana

Kuphunzira kwathunthu zakugonana kuyenera kupitirira apo basi kugawana zambiri zokhudza matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso mimba. Iyenera kufotokoza za e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-g, kuphatikiza matupi, chisangalalo, chilolezo, uchembere wabwino, kudziyimira pawokha, kuwonetsa jenda, kugonana, ubale wabwino, thanzi lamaganizidwe, maliseche, ndi zina zambiri.

Ndikulakalaka nditaphunzira zogonana ndikuti si ma labias onse omwe amafanana. Ndipo maliseche amawoneka mosiyana. Ndipo kungoti chifukwa chako chikuwoneka chosiyana ndi chomwe mwina udawonapo sizitanthauza kuti ndiwe wodabwitsa kapena kuti china chake sichili bwino ndi iwe. Zimangotanthauza kuti ndi osiyana, komanso osiyana ndi athanzi komanso osiyana ndiabwino, ndipo zosiyana ndizomwe zimapangitsa matupi kukhala okongola.

Mary Beth Barone, comedian

Otsogolera omwe ali m'gulu la Sustain amalingalira kwambiri za momwe maphunziro okwanira azakugonana angawonekere. Mwachitsanzo, muvidiyoyi, wochita zisudzo komanso wanthabwala Tiffany Haddish akuwonjezera kuti: "Ndikanakonda akanaphunzitsa anthu kuti [kukakamira] kumachitika kuti usakhale wotetezeka ndikuganiza kuti nyini yako yasweka!" (ICYWW, queefs samangokhalira kumaliseche.) Ndipo wojambula mavidiyo Freddie Ransom akuti, "Ndikanakonda nditaphunzira kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kuli bwino! N'kwachibadwa! Ngakhale thanzi komanso [kuti musachite] manyazi nazo." (Tili pamutuwu, nayi maudindo maliseche kuti muyesere, dzanja lanu.)

Chifukwa cha maphunziro a za kugonana a MIA, anthu ambiri amakakamizika kupita kukafufuza mayankho kwina. Ambiri amafunafuna chisamaliro cha malo oyembekezera omwe ali ndi mavuto, omwe nthawi zambiri amayendetsedwa ndi mabungwe azipembedzo omwe ali ndi zolinga zina, mabwalo ochezera pa intaneti ngati Reddit, omwe samayang'aniridwa ndi madotolo, kapena kuchokera kwa othandizira azaumoyo. Pomwe zikuwoneka monga madokotala angakhale magwero abwino a zaumoyo, madokotala ambiri sali okonzeka kuyankha odwala awo nkhawa zokhudza kugonana ndi mafunso; Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti madokotala samalankhula ndi achinyamata za maphunziro azaumoyo makamaka chifukwa alibe maphunziro komanso kudzidalira. Pakafukufuku wofufuza momwe sukulu ya med idakonzekerera madokotala kuti azindikire ndikuchiza mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ofufuza adapeza kuti kugonana kwa anthu kumaphunzitsidwa ngati maphunziro ~ 30 peresenti yokha ya masukulu. (Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chomwe mabungwe azachipatala amalankhula mobwerezabwereza *motsutsa* maphunziro odziletsa.)

Kudalira opereka chithandizo chamankhwala pamaphunziro azakugonana kuli pachiwopsezo makamaka kwa odwala omwe ndi ochepa: Mu kafukufuku wa 2019 wa ma oncologists a 450 omwe adasindikizidwa mu Journal of Clinical Oncology, ndi theka la madokotala okha amene anali ndi chidaliro m'chidziwitso chawo cha nkhawa za umoyo wa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna okhaokha, ndi amuna okhaokha komanso amuna okhaokha. Kafukufuku wachiwiri akuwonetsa kuti odwala akuda amalandira, pafupifupi, kusamalidwa koipitsitsa poyerekeza ndi azungu aku America-kuteteza, kubereka, ndi chisamaliro chaumoyo zonse zikuphatikizidwa. (Onani: LGBTQ+ Healthcare Ndi Yoyipitsitsa Kuposa Anzawo Owongoka Ndi Chifukwa Chake Ubwino Waubwino Uyenera Kukhala Ndi Mbali Yazokambirana Zokhudza Tsankho)

Kuphatikiza apo, "sungapite kwa dokotala nthawi iliyonse ukakhala ndi funso lokhudza zomwe thupi lako likuchita kapena udzakhala ndi chibwenzi chatsopano," akutero woyambitsa mnzake wa Sustain, a Meika Hollender. "Sizowona chabe."

Ndiye ngati ngakhale madokotala nthawi zonse si njira yodalirika yodzaza mabowo omwe amasiyidwa ndi kugonana kwa sukulu yanu, kodi mungapite kuti kuti mudziwe zambiri? Kuyambitsa: Kuganizira Kwambiri.

Zomwe Mungayembekezere Kuchokera Kuyembekezera Zambiri

Sustain's Sexpect More ali ndi magawo ambiri.Choyamba, mtunduwo ukuyembekeza kuwunikira momwe maphunziro adziko lino alili odetsa nkhawa-ndipo amafuna kusintha - popanga ziwerengero zomwe zili pamwambazi kukhala zake zambiri. "Anthu ambiri sadziwa kuti vuto logonana lidakalipobe," akutero a Hollender.

Chachiwiri, ndalamayi ikukweza ndalama ku Advocates for Youth, bungwe lomwe limamenyera ufulu wa achinyamata kuti adziwe zowona zakugonana komanso mwayi wopezeka, wachinsinsi, komanso wotsika mtengo wogonana. Sustain akuyamba ndi ndalama za $ 25,000, ndiyeno nthawi iliyonse kanema wawo wa kampeni akugawana ndi hashtag #sexpectmore, kampaniyo ipereka $ 1 yowonjezera ku bungweli. Ditto amapita ngati mutapereka yankho ku funso "ndi chiyani chomwe chinasowa pamaphunziro anu azakugonana?" pa Instagram, Facebook, kapena Twitter (osaiwala hashtag).

Pomaliza, chakumapeto kwa chaka chino, mtunduwo ukuyambitsa maphunziro ake athunthu, aulere, ophunzirira za kugonana, kutengera mayankho achindunji a kanema wa kampeniyi. "Maphunzirowa adzakhala gawo loyamba la ntchito ya Sustain yopereka maphunziro okhudzana ndi kugonana, opezeka, opitirira kwa anthu azaka zonse," akutero Hollender.

Momwe Mungamenyere Kugonana Kwambiri Ed

Kuphatikiza pogawana kanema wa Sustain ponseponse, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito ufulu wanu wovota pazisankho zam'deralo ndi zamaboma. Boma la Purezidenti Donald Trump silinangogwira ntchito ya Purezidenti Barack Obama yopititsa patsogolo maphunziro okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso adapereka ndalama zokwana madola 75 miliyoni kumaphunziro odziletsa okha. Ndi ndalama zamtengo wapatali zopita ku pulogalamu yomwe sikugwira ntchito (peezanso ziwerengerozo pamwambapa), simukuganiza? (Sindikudziwa momwe mungalembetsere kuti muvote? Pitani apa.)

Izi zati, ngakhale masukulu atha kulandira ndalama kuchokera ku federal zamapulogalamu ena azakugonana, Dipatimenti Yophunzitsa ku United States ndi boma la feduro silinena chilichonse ngati maphunziro azakugonana (kapena mtundu wanji) amalamulidwa m'masukulu; zomwe zimagwera pansi pa ulamuliro wa maboma a boma ndi ang'onoang'ono ndi zigawo za sukulu zomwe, malinga ndi Advocates for Youth. Ngakhale kulibe lamulo lomwe limathandizira kuti pakhale ndondomeko yokhudzana ndi kugonana, pali malamulo omwe akudikirira otchedwa The Real Education for Healthy Youth Act, omwe angawonetsetse kuti ndalama za federal ziperekedwa ku mapulogalamu a maphunziro a za kugonana omwe amapatsa achinyamata maluso ndi chidziwitso chomwe akufunikira kuti adziwe. , zisankho zodalirika, ndi zathanzi.

Kuti mulimbikitse maphunziro abwino okhudza kugonana m'dera lanu, mutha:

• Lumikizanani ndi gulu lanu la sukulu. Alimbikitseni kuti apeze mapulogalamu okhudzana ndi zakugonana ndikutsatira Mfundo Zapadziko Lonse Zokhudza Kugonana - malangizo opangidwa ndi akatswiri azaumoyo pagulu ndi maphunziro azakugonana pazomwe zili zofunika kwambiri komanso maluso ofunikira kuti athandize ophunzira kupanga zisankho zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
• Lowani nawo Bungwe la Alangizi a Zaumoyo ku Sukulu. Mabungwe ambiri amasukulu amalangizidwa ndi Sukulu Zaulangizi Za Zaumoyo (School Health Advisory Councils (SHACs), omwe amapangidwa ndi anthu omwe amayimira anthu ammudzi komanso omwe amapereka upangiri wokhudza maphunziro azaumoyo.
• Lumikizanani ndi mamembala anu a Congress. Fikirani pamasom'pamaso, pafoni, kapena pa intaneti kuti muwalimbikitse kuti athandizire Real Education for Healthy Youth Act.
• Fufuzani ngongole zilizonse zofunika kapena malamulo m'boma lanu. Mwachitsanzo, New York State pakadali pano safuna kuti maphunziro azakugonana aphunzitsidwe kusukulu. Ngati ndinu New Yorker, muthanso kuthandizira NY State Assembly Bill A6512, yomwe imafuna maphunziro ophunzitsira zogonana, kuphatikiza, komanso zamankhwala mokwanira m'masukulu aku NYS. Ingopita patsamba lino, dinani "aye" kuti muvote, onjezerani (zosankha) kwa senator wa boma la New York, ndi ta-da-pansi pamasekondi makumi asanu ndi limodzi, mwachita zachinyamata wachinyamata mawa. (Nawu mndandanda wamalamulo ophunzitsa za kugonana ndi boma.)

Komwe Mungaphunzire Zambiri Zokhudza Kugonana Pakadali pano

Mukadikirira moleza mtima kuyambitsa maphunziro a kugonana kwa Sustain, onani nsanja zina zomwe zikugwira ntchito kuti mudzaze mpata wophunzitsira za kugonana monga O.School, OMGYes, Scarleteen, Queer Sex Ed, ndi Afrosexology.

Kuti mudziwe ngati maphunziro a Sustain ayamba, lowetsani imelo yanu apa.

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