Momwe Mungasamalire Trichophilia, kapena Fetish ya Tsitsi

Zamkati

• Kodi ndizotani?
• Mumamva bwanji?
• Fetish kapena matenda?
• Momwe mungasamalire
• Mfundo yofunika

Trichophilia, yemwenso amadziwika kuti fetish ya tsitsi, ndi pamene wina amamva kukondweretsedwa kapena kukopeka ndi tsitsi la munthu. Uwu ukhoza kukhala mtundu uliwonse wa tsitsi laumunthu, monga tsitsi la pachifuwa, lalitali, kapena la pubic.

Komabe, zomwe zimawoneka kwambiri pazokopa izi zimawoneka ngati tsitsi laumunthu. Trichophilia imatha kuwonetsa ngati mwana wamtali wautali kapena wamfupi, feteleza wokoka tsitsi, kapena feteleza wometa tsitsi, pakati pa ena.

Zokonda zogonana zokhudzana ndi tsitsi sizachilendo. Zili bwino, bola ngati simukuvulaza anthu ena.

Ngakhale kuchuluka kwenikweni kwa anthu omwe ali ndi trichophilia sikudziwika, ndi kamwana komwe amuna ndi akazi amatha kukhala nako.

Apa, tiwunika momwe zingawonetsere, momwe anthu amakhudzidwira ndi mtundu uwu wamtunduwu, komanso momwe angakhalire nawo.

Kodi ndizotani?

Trichophilia ndi mtundu wa paraphilia. Malinga ndi katswiri wazamisala Dr. Margaret Seide, paraphilia ndimaganizo okhudzana ndi chilakolako china chilichonse kupatula maliseche a munthu wamkulu wogwirizana naye.

Paraphilia, kapena fetish, ndizofala kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2016, pafupifupi theka la 1,040 omwe adatenga nawo gawo adachita chidwi ndi gulu limodzi.

Trichophilia imatha kuwonekera m'njira zosiyanasiyana. "Munthu yemwe ali ndi trichophilia amatha kusangalala ndikamaonera, kukhudza, komanso nthawi zina, kudya tsitsi," akutero Seide.

"Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi trichophilia akuti amakopeka ndi tsitsi kuyambira ali mwana ndipo amakopeka ndi zotsatsa tsitsi zomwe zimakonda kwambiri tsitsi," akufotokoza Seide.

Nthawi zambiri amakopeka ndi mtundu wina wa tsitsi. Mwachitsanzo, zoyambitsa za trichophilia zitha kuphatikiza:

• tsitsi lalitali komanso lowongoka
• tsitsi lopotana
• tsitsi la mtundu winawake
• tsitsi lopangidwa mwanjira inayake, monga ma roller
• kuwongolera tsitsi mwanjira inayake panthawi yogonana, monga kukoka

Amanenanso kuti kwa anthu ena, kumakhudza tsitsi kumatha kubweretsa munthuyo kumaliseche.

Dr. Gail Saltz, pulofesa wothandizirana ndi zamisala ku New York Presbyterian Hospital, Weill-Cornell Medical College, akuti fetish ya tsitsi imatha kutengera mtundu uliwonse, kapangidwe kake, kapena mtundu uliwonse wa tsitsi. Zitha kuphatikizanso mawonekedwe amtundu uliwonse wolumikizana ndi tsitsi monga kuyang'ana, kukhudza, kapena kudzikongoletsa.

Mumamva bwanji?

Zizindikiro za trichophilia, kapena momwe zimakupangitsani kumva, zimadalira mtundu wa tsitsi ndi zomwe zimadzutsa.

Izi zitha kukhala zosiyana kwa munthu aliyense. Koma ponseponse, kukhala ndi khanda la tsitsi kumangotanthauza kuti mumapeza chisangalalo kuchokera pachinthucho - pamenepa, tsitsi laumunthu.

Izi zitha kutanthauza kuti mumakondwera ndikametedwa tsitsi, kapena mumakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana mukamaonera shampoo yamalonda.

Mosasamala zomwe mumakonda, mukapeza kuti zolaula zili ndi vuto, a Saltz akuti nthawi zambiri sichikhala vuto. Ndi chimodzi chabe mwa zinthu zomwe anthu amasangalala nazo monga gawo la moyo wawo wogonana.

Izi zati, akuwonetsa kuti ngati tsitsi liyenera kukhala gwero loyamba lodzetsa chilakolako chofuna kukhutiritsa chilakolako chogonana, ndiye kuti feteleza wasandulika china chachikulu.

Fetish kapena matenda?

Ngati trichophilia imapitilira zomwe amakonda kugonana ndipo imadzipweteketsa nokha kapena ena, adokotala angakupezeni kuti muli ndi vuto la paraphilic.

Malinga ndi mtundu waposachedwa kwambiri wa Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder (DSM-5), anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la paraphilic:

• kumva kuwawa kwawo chifukwa cha chidwi chawo, osati mavuto okhaokha chifukwa chokana anthu; kapena
• kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana chomwe chimakhudza kupsinjika kwamaganizidwe a munthu wina, kuvulala, kapena kufa, kapena chikhumbo chazokhudzana ndi chiwerewere chokhudza anthu osafuna kapena anthu omwe sangapereke chilolezo

Seide akuti trichophilia imawerengedwa kuti ndi vuto ikamabweretsa zovuta m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kapena zimabweretsa mavuto kwa munthuyo.

"Pochita zamisala, timatcha egodystonic, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sizigwirizana ndi zikhulupiriro zamunthuyu kapena malinga ndi zomwe akufuna kwa iwo eni," akufotokoza.

Chitsanzo, atero Seide, chingakhale ngati munthu atayamba kuchita zomwe akufuna kuti zikhudze tsitsi la munthu wosakhululuka.

"Zoyendetsa kuchitapo kanthu za fetish zitha kukhala zamphamvu kwambiri ndipo, mwatsoka nthawi zina, zimatha kugonjetsa malingaliro abwinowo," akuwonjezera.

Zotsatira zake, Seide akuti zitha kubweretsa manyazi komanso kupsinjika kwa munthuyo, ndipo amatha kumva kuzunzidwa kapena kunyansidwa ndi malingaliro awo.

Matenda a trichophilia akayamba kusokoneza maudindo a tsiku ndi tsiku, Seide akuti ndichizindikiro choti chasokonekera.

Mwachitsanzo, wina yemwe ali ndi vuto lamtunduwu amatha kuyamba kuchedwa kuntchito chifukwa amathera nthawi yochulukirapo pamawebusayiti achikazi.

"Pakadali pano, wasintha kukhala mkhalidwe wamatenda womwe umasokoneza moyo ndipo umabweretsa zotsatira zoyipa," akufotokoza.

Momwe mungasamalire

Ngati trichophilia isintha kuchokera ku fetish kupita ku vuto, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti muchepetse zolimbikitsazo ndikuwongolera vutoli.

Popeza palibe mankhwala a trichophilia, Seide akuti chithandizo chiziwunikira pakuwongolera vutoli.

Izi zati, akuwonetsa kuti chithandizo chimalimbikitsidwa pokhapokha ngati vutoli likukusokonezani m'moyo wanu, kapena mukumva kuzunzika ndi zolakalaka.

"Ngati mukuchita zofuna izi mkati mwa chibwenzi chogwirizana ndi munthu wina wamkulu yemwe samadandaula ndi zoyendetsa izi, kulowererapo sikuwonetsedwa," akufotokoza.

Komabe, ngati trichophilia ikuyambitsa mavuto, kapena mukudwala matendawa, Seide akuti pali njira zingapo zothandizira:

• Magulu othandiza. Chifukwa chofanana ndikulowerera (kukana chilakolako chofuna kuchita zinthu), trichophilia imatha kulumikizidwa m'magulu azodzithandiza potengera mtundu wa 12-step.
• Mankhwala. Mankhwala ena amatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pochepetsa libido yanu. Izi zimaphatikizapo medroxyprogesterone acetate (Depo-Provera) ndi serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs).

Mfundo yofunika

Trichophilia ndi mwana wogonana yemwe amakhala ndi tsitsi la munthu. Malingana ngati palibe amene avulala, mwakuthupi kapena mwamalingaliro, ndipo zikuchitikira pakati pa akulu ovomerezeka, akatswiri amati ikhoza kukhala gawo losangalatsa m'moyo wanu wogonana.

Ngati mwana uyu akusokoneza zochitika zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku kapena maubale, kapena kuvulaza wina, lingalirani kukawona katswiri wazamisala. Ali ndi zida zowunikira ndi kuchiritsa trichophilia.