Matenda omwe amapezeka kwambiri

Zamkati

• 1. Wolemba zamatsenga
• 2. Malire
• 3. Zotsutsana ndi anzawo
• 4. Dodge
• 5. Kutengeka kwambiri
• 6. Chodzidzimutsa
• 7. Schizoid
• 8. Wophunzira
• 9. Zolemba zakale
• 10. Wodalira

Mavuto amunthu amakhala ndi machitidwe osalekeza, omwe amapatuka pazomwe zikuyembekezeredwa pachikhalidwe china chomwe munthuyo amalowetsedwamo.

Zovuta pamakhalidwe nthawi zambiri zimayamba munthu atakula ndipo zofala kwambiri ndi izi:

1. Wolemba zamatsenga

Matenda amtundu wa narcissistic amadziwika ndi kufunikira kwakudzitamandira, kudzimva kwakukulu, kudzikweza, kufunikira kuzindikira kwamuyaya, kufunitsitsa kopambana, mphamvu, luntha, kukongola kapena chikondi chabwino.

Narcissists amakhulupirira kuti ndiopadera, apadera komanso apamwamba kuposa anthu ena, amaganiza kuti ayenera kukondedwa ndi kuchitiridwa zinthu mwapadera ndi ena, kupezerapo mwayi kwa ena kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo, kusowa chifundo komanso kusamvetsetsa malingaliro a anthu ena ndipo amafunikira ndipo nthawi zambiri amamva nsanje kapena amakhulupirira kuti ndiomwe ena amasirira. Phunzirani momwe mungakhalire ndi wamankhwala osokoneza bongo.

2. Malire

Mavuto am'malire am'malire amapezeka mwa anthu omwe amakhala osakhazikika pamaubwenzi apakati ndipo amadziwika ndikudzimva kuti alibe kanthu, kusintha kwadzidzidzi kwakanthawi komanso kusakhazikika. Kayezetseni kuti mudziwe ngati muli ndi matenda amalire.

Anthuwa amayesetsa kwambiri kuti asatayidwe, akhale ndi machitidwe osakhazikika komanso maubwenzi apamtima, omwe amadziwika pakusintha kwamalingaliro okokomeza komanso kutsika, amakhala ndi chisokonezo chazomwe amadziwika komanso zomwe amachita mwamakhalidwe. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zina, anthuwa amadzipweteka okha komanso amawopseza kudzipha.

3. Zotsutsana ndi anzawo

Vuto lodana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu limawoneka koyambirira kwambiri, ngakhale ali mwana, ndipo amadziwika ndi malingaliro osalemekeza ndi kuphwanya ufulu wa anthu ena, machitidwe owopsa komanso ophwanya malamulo komanso kulephera kusintha chikhalidwe chawo.

Anthu awa ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu konyenga, kunama, kugwiritsa ntchito mayina abodza kapena kunyenga anthu ena, kuti apindule nawo kapena kusangalala. Amachita zinthu mopupuluma komanso mwamakani ndipo nthawi zambiri amayamba kuchita zankhanza komanso kusalemekeza ena, osadzimvera chisoni komanso osayanjanitsika ndi kupweteketsa kapena kuzunza wina. Phunzirani momwe mungadziwire munthu wosakonda kucheza ndi anthu.

4. Dodge

Kusokonezeka kwa umunthu kumadziwika ndi choletsa chodziwikiratu pagulu la anthu, ndikudzimva kuti ndi osakwanira komanso chidwi chachikulu pakuwunika koipa kwa anthu ena.

Anthu awa amapewa kuchita zinthu zina pakati pawo, chifukwa choopa kudzudzulidwa ndi kukanidwa kapena kukanidwa, amawopa kutenga nawo mbali muubwenzi wapamtima kapena kukumana ndi anthu atsopano ndikuwona kuti ndi otsika kuposa enawo. Kuphatikiza apo, amawopanso kwambiri kutenga zoopsa zawo ndikuchita nawo zinthu zatsopano. Dziwani momwe matendawa amathandizira.

5. Kutengeka kwambiri

Matenda okakamira kwambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa yayikulu ndi bungwe, kufuna kuchita bwino zinthu, kuwongolera malingaliro ndi anthu, kusinthasintha, kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi tsatanetsatane, malamulo, dongosolo, dongosolo kapena ndandanda. Dziwani momwe mungadziwire ngati muli ndi vuto ili.

Anthu awa ndi odzipereka kwambiri pantchito ndi zokolola, kunyalanyaza zosangalatsa. Kuphatikiza apo, amalephera kutaya zinthu zopanda pake, sakonda kugawana ntchito kapena kugwira ntchito m'magulu, pokhapokha ngati anthu ena amatsatira malamulo awo ndipo amaletsedwa kwambiri pazogwiritsira ntchito ndalama zawo komanso ndi anthu ena.

6. Chodzidzimutsa

Matenda a paranoid amadziwika ndi kukayikirana kwambiri ndikukayikirana poyerekeza ndi ena, momwe zolinga zawo zimamasuliridwa ngati zoyipa ndi wonamizira.

Munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto lodzikayikira samakhulupirira komanso kukayikira anthu ena ndipo nthawi zambiri amamva kuti akumugwiritsa ntchito, kumuzunza kapena kumunamiza, nthawi zonse amafunsa kukhulupirika kwa abwenzi ndi anzawo, sakhulupirira ena ndipo amawona kuti zolinga zake zili ndi manyazi kapena zowopseza .

Kuphatikiza apo, amasunga chakukhosi, samakhululuka mosavuta ndipo mwachizolowezi amalandila malingaliro a ena monga kuwukira, kuchitapo kanthu mopsa mtima ndikukwiya. Dziwani zambiri zamatenda amisala.

7. Schizoid

Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lamakhalidwe a schizoid amakonda kudzipatula kwa anthu ena ndipo amapewa kucheza nawo kapena maubale apamtima, monga kukhala m'banja, mwachitsanzo.

Kuphatikiza apo, amakonda kuchita zinthu zayekha, amapewa kulumikizana ndi anzawo, alibe anzawo apamtima, samayamika kapena kudzudzula ndipo amakhala ozizira komanso otayika.

8. Wophunzira

Vutoli limadziwika ndikulephera kukhazikitsa ubale wapamtima komanso kusakhulupirika komanso kusowa chikondi kwa anthu ena.

Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto laumunthu wa schizotypal ali ndi machitidwe achikhalidwe, zikhulupiriro zachilendo, zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zikhalidwe zomwe munthu adayikidwazo komanso malingaliro ndi mawu achilendo. Dziwani momwe matendawa amathandizidwira.

9. Zolemba zakale

Vuto la mbiri yakale limadziwika ndi kutengeka mtima kwambiri komanso chidwi chofuna chidwi. Yemwe ali ndi vutoli akumva kuwawa pomwe samakhala chidwi ndi kulumikizana ndi ena nthawi zambiri amadziwika ndi machitidwe osayenera, okonda zachiwerewere komanso osintha mwachangu pamawonedwe amkati.

Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe kuti apatsidwe chidwi ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito mawu okokomeza kwambiri komanso mawu okokomeza. Komabe, anthuwa amakopeka mosavuta ndi ena kapena ndimikhalidwe ndipo amawona ubale ndi anthu kukhala okondana kwambiri kuposa momwe alili. Dziwani zambiri zamatenda a histrionic.

10. Wodalira

Kudalira umunthu kumadziwika chifukwa chofunikira kusamalidwa kwambiri, kumadzetsa machitidwe ogonjera ndikuopa kupatukana, zovuta kupanga zisankho popanda kuthandizidwa ndi ena, kufunikira kwa ena kutengaudindo pazinthu zazikulu pamoyo wawo. sagwirizana ndi ena, kuwopa kutaya thandizo kapena kuvomerezedwa.

Kuphatikiza apo, anthu awa zimawavuta kuyambitsa mapulojekiti kapena kuchita zinthu paokha, chifukwa chosadzidalira, mphamvu kapena chidwi. Amafunikanso kwambiri kukondedwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndikumverera kusasangalala kapena kusowa chochita akakhala okha ndipo, chifukwa chake, amafunafuna mwachangu ubale watsopano ngati gwero lachikondi ndi kuthandizira, pakatha pano. Dziwani momwe mankhwalawa amachitikira.